if my client is home i always try to make sure they see me before i get changed into my work gear or right before i go, to make sure their mental image of me has me in my cool normal clothes and not the rags i clean in

busting down the doors of my doctor's office to beg to not have to wait 4 weeks to see her so i can get my fat tits pills i mean antidepressants

putting in an order with a gang so the next time they raid a pharmacy for opioids and amphetamines they can pick me up some progesterone

man why is hipkins such a bitch

when you move to a new city, remember to befriend the prettiest and sweetest trans woman day one just so that everyone else knows that you mean business. give her a little smooch out of respect and you should have no problems.

“The Al is not just telling you what you want to hear. It is training you, one conversation at a time, to need less friction, expect more agreement, and become slightly less capable of handling a situation where someone pushes back on you”

i think i'm starting to cross the threshold into being more easily read as a woman bc lately my interactions with men have gotten stranger

this is why getting us to stop misusing "psychotic" is so important to me, btw. it has REAL impact on people w/psychosis when the association w/our diagnosis is so negative and false. this is the case even in medical settings! we are treated SO BADLY due to these misconceptions. people DIE sometimes

Seeing all the people who give resources to others reminds me that love is real and we’re gonna make it

one time a lady asked if i knew anywhere to stay and i pointed her to like the backpackers and she was like oh i was wondering if i could stay with you. did she think i was a dude and that i'd do it thinking i'd get something out of it. are there men stupid and unscrupulous enough to fall for that.

looking at all the people who have contributed to my surgery fund and getting a little teary-eyed

doing a bit about "i'm not from wellington, i'm trying raise bus fare to get back home" doesn't work if i recognise you and know you live here

does anyone have any mirtazapine they don't need

the hitler particles are off the chart lately

Guy who thinks their own opinions are wrong

if you are walking on a shared path you should have to wear a sign that says how much space you give when passing cyclists in your car

you can literally start learning anything new whenever! neuroplasticity bitch! its actually healthy for you to learn new shit!

went on facebook for five minutes and came back to share this again self-identified "ratepayers" have got to be the angriest people on the planet. you'd think "ratepayer" was the name for someone suffering from a terminal case of aggrieved entitlement

talk about why you don't like cyclists without sounding like a nazi challenge

Hey folks when you're writing emails to MPs about the Marcroft Bill, make sure you give Glen Bennett, Camilla Belich, Oriini Kaipara and those who denounced it in the house some love and support - they're being hit with awful transphobic emails, and they'll appreciate it.

i want a three wolf moon tee

i think there is a lot of space between romantic and platonic interest, or at the very least desire to date vs not, but frequently it's a case by case basis anyway. i think especially as a trans woman in a world that already hates me enough as-is for existing, truly why would i EVER limit myself!?

so wait is the poly calendar thing because beautiful trans women are all named after months and seasons or????

if i'm not a woman why do random men think it's ok to touch me without asking

returning to my old shaving technique of shaving random patches off my legs every time i shower until it's all more or less even

finally managed to book a dr appointment to get started on that new medication. it's a fricken month from now!!

it warms my heart to see cigarettes out in the wild. they're such beautiful animals.

We bought into the "Men are from Mars, women are from Venus" bullshit so hard that we forgot how our own bodies work. We want to believe that we are different species not minor variations on a common body plan. Trans people remind us that that's all nonsense and some people really can't handle that.

social media is about riffing and saying dumb shit and posting little pictures you're so severely deluded if you think otherwise

Ai guys are like “check out this machine that makes you instantly cum!” completely missing the point of the joy of jacking off

Facebook let's you set up words that, if used in a comment, will auto hide the comment. Obviously I added all the common stuff like bitch and cunt, etc but you know what, adding "ratepayer" has never missed. Not always accompanying abusive comments, but always mis or disinformation.

people liked google because it worked and they don't like AI google because it sucks

i’m saying this as someone who has had covid multiple times and who has experienced, and is wading through, the cognitive dysfunction it creates. i know how hard that engine is churning and how much harder it gets after another round of illness. it’s not normal. mask up again.

please understand that getting covid every year because you don’t want to mask anymore is melting your brain

FREE MY GUY @nug.monster

eating the world from her giant paws

people post sometimes about like, i'm not doing well sorry everybody. but tbh i thought not doing great was a given

the people i live with are always saying things like, i hate femmes, i'm sick of femmes. how is a girl supposed to thrive in this environment.

it's too damn cold

i need to get sluttier

i'm getting fucked by the government but you can support me getting fucked by pretty ladies by giving me money for my pussy: ko-fi.com/riversurgery...

Are you... are you part of the *homo-sexual underground*?

Green Party bill to ban mining on public conservation land drawn in Parliament

one of the worst details of the rod drury case for me is that he told one of the women he liked her vibe

hypebeast who likes tguy boobs because they're limited edition

Tangentially but related, if someone says ‘diversity of thought’ to you they fully intend to put you in a death camp

A very easily overlooked aspect of the Panthers. Hoover said the Free Breakfast Program was the biggest internal threat to the US.