Hi followers, something a bit different than usual. I'm a college student doing a survey on experiences of medical discrimination in transgender healthcare. I'm looking for transfem individuals with experience of medical transitioning. Link to survey in replies, dm for additional info if needed.

cis women were bad at being women once too they just got to be bad when they were 12 and you have to do it when you're 26

At what point do we publicly accept that NZ is deeply corrupt and the only reason why we don’t have a culture of direct payoffs and bribery (that we cite as the evidence for us not being corrupt) is because it’s not needed? The boys club gets what it wants through people playing their social roles.

Typical that I find out that SSRIs can cause alcohol cravings after I come off them and my cravings become non existent. It was like a switch was flipped in my brain. So many times over the past decade I tried to cut back on drinking and all I had to do was come off SSRIs? Who else knew about this

- govt forces through under-16 social media bill - i have to go through a retinal scanner every time i want to tweet because i post too youthfully

Only one of these things has The Post deemed worthy of front page coverage.

GPLV3; You can use me for any purpose You can change me to suit your needs You can share me with your friends and neighbors

Now THIS is front page news. JFC. “other allegations…he misused a police credit card, made use of police property to further a sexual relationship, and threatened to provide an intimate visual recording to other people if the woman made a complaint about him.” www.rnz.co.nz/news/nationa...

girls, how much T are you taking

girl who goes under your desk but can't bring herself to suck you off because your cable management is just so messy

environmental hazard waste producers that exploit the medical system's refusal to treat adhd humanely

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i'm reclaiming the term "pathetic transsexual"

keeping up to date with local politics this term is going to be difficult bc i find the two main guys in charge completely insufferable

a silly jpeg that i have created

🌙 hey post op girls, what lube do you use for dilating? i was very specifically told to get ky jelly but they only come in small containers and i wanna get shit in bulk cause it's always a pain even i run out

🌙 thinking about rich girls (bank account above 0)

Are the "legal reasons" because it would make David Seymour and the ACT Party look bad? Fucking farcical.

part of the zoomer/millennial intergenerational mating ritual is the millennial making a joke they know isn't funny to see if the zoomer will play along and just how badly they'll humiliate themselves for a crumb of pussy

universal healthcare includes medfet

putting my sons thru female socialization (teaching them how to do basic household tasks and form deep, meaningful, fulfilling relationships with other people)

no offense but if amab non binary people want to get they/themd they should take estrogen for years, get ffs, legally change their name to a girls name and sex marker to an f, tell people theyre a woman JUST like everyone else

transmedicalist puppygirl: okay but did the vet *tell* you that you're a puppygirl? were you *diagnosed* with tail dysphoria??

This is an entirely uncontroversial view in international law and usually taught in 101.

Sunday is a really nice day to go out on bikes with another person. fewer cars make it safer to take it slow, and quieter so you can take your earplugs out and talk to each other

i'm sorry yanks but "chapter book" is a term for children

The energy created by two girls with BPD revving up each other's bad opinions could power a small island nation

pre-writing a devastating obituary for your enemy is god-tier hating of a kind you don’t often see anymore. renaissance haterism. beautiful stuff.

All the people saying that 'we need to do something about rough sleepers' are imagining putting them into a wood chipper #NZPol

Also 40 years since Huey Lewis sung "Don't need a credit card to ride this train" and we're still waiting for the national ticketing system to let us buy train tickets on our cards.

marriage is meant to be between a femboy and a tomboy. it says so. in the bible

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i'm reclaiming the term "pathetic transsexual"

started reading whipping girl and am somehow surprised to learn that de-gendering trans people by writing it as "transwoman" and "transman" is a problem that goes back so far that it's addressed in this book

part of the reason some early transition trans girls have brainworms is bc they don't know anyone who's been transitioned for longer to disprove the "changes max out at 3 years" myth

think most left-leaning folks underestimate the importance and impact of having your cadres in the bureaucracy as well as in elected positions

goddamn water tastes good when you’re thirsty

obviously I love that we've been building out a cycle network. but it's kind of phenomenal how if you go from Newtown to the city via the official cycle paths it puts you in more conflict with cars than if you went via Tory Street instead

I do NOT like these fireworks that fire a series of bangs in quick succession

if you are trans i love you btw

how to be more futch?

Reminder if you’re cis to not just check in but to to offer trans people in your life material support

"i don't experience dysphoria" —person who doesn't experience anything because they're constantly dissociating

I was cynical going in, but I was really impressed with the book Supercommunicators: How to Unlock The Secret Language of Connection. explained a lot about why online conversations go nowhere. validated my recent thoughts that discussions go nowhere bc we're not addressing the underlying emotions

Healthy relationships need one person who smokes weed all day every day and one person who can never ever smoke weed again even once. Sometimes there are a bunch of other people too, no judgment

my getting back into reading books has been picking up steam and I feel my brain coming back to me

btw how is it legal for jobs to incentivise driving recklessly (courier, taxi, etc.)

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If you aren't seeing skeets from some of your fave people, they might have been labeled "Rude" by bsky mods. Idk what they are thinking, I don't need a mommy to tell me who to be buddies with. Anyway, go into Settings > moderation > bluesky moderation (advanced) and turn Rude off.