I am so mad at the Referdle today 🤬 It vexed me thoroughly

Learning to gracefully take an L is a sorely lacking skill in a world and culture that values quantifiable success over everything.

Me to Eve a second ago: "The only culture white Europeans have are bacterial."

Going to the gym until someone refers to me as goals

It's snowy outside and perfect temperature to put homemade marshmallows into hot chocco

Going to the gym until someone refers to me as goals

Marshmallows! Homemade marshmallows!!

Sooo it's my parents' birthdays in the next little while and it's bringing up some tough feelings. Gonna try not to poast through it all but it really does suck, the way things turned out. I will just have to try and love and live the best I can with the life I have. It's the best I can do!

I got my hair cut the other day. Still like this style and I really need to retouch the colour 😅

My wife got me some books!!! Hell yeah! Thank you @onelunagoddess.bsky.social

So. Guess what? It's my 5-year transition anniversary. 5 years since the day I first told somebody who I am. And it's been 5 years learning how to be the person. I would always want it to be. Here's to another 500 💜

So. Guess what? It's my 5-year transition anniversary. 5 years since the day I first told somebody who I am. And it's been 5 years learning how to be the person. I would always want it to be. Here's to another 500 💜

I am really freaking strong now... Like way stronger that I was 6 months ago... Can't wait to see what comes in the next 6 months!

This is correct. The show is a little goofy, and very much a teen show but I can't just dismiss it as shallow fluff either.

I literally made beef jerky

Stronger girls make for a better world. And I aim to be at least the second or third strongest!

I am literally making beef jerky

I will turn her into the strongest wife! 🥳

So it's not the best form and it's not the whole lift but I did get 145 lb off the ground for a deadlift Gonna move up to 155 next week!

Weird that I am looking forward to a Monday so much but it's a really important day to me this particular one

🎶 Check your proofs Check them twice Having an error is Never nice 🎶

Listening to the math channel while playing The Outer Worlds 2 is a level of nerdery I was unprepared for

Trans people are cool and good. Also Monday is kind of a milestone day for me so you know... Gonna be poasting a little

/me: "okay... I think I am getting past some of my issues with my parents. Sure the separation is hard and I wish they loved and accepted me but I will be okay!" *Any media with a loving parent-child relationship plays* /me: I'm not crying. I'm in any emotional distress. Nope. Can't be me. 🫥

I've turned my wife into a gym girl. By the ancient laws her gains are my gains now. 😌

what stage of gym girl is it that I'm thinking a lot about how to improve my split squats?

Brisk Zero in the ridiculously oversized can is one of my few simple pleasures in this cold and uncaring world

Anyway, I guess this is a roundabout way of saying: Are there books/movies/games, especially with a trans POV character, which are kind, tender, maybe cozy, meditative, and focused on kindness and healing or things like that? I want to escape this hellscape for a bit.

Mutual aid request! Please help a disabled trans couple survive!💗 We are close to covering the past due bills! January needs: $401 - overdue from Dec $148 - car insurance $56 - prescriptions $86 - cats $128 - phone $260/819$💸 Venmo.com/u/KaideeKat Cash.me/KaideeKat Paypal.me/KaideeKat

You ever get rEFInd dialled in right and just wanna reboot your PC to see the boot up screen again, or are you a normal level of weirdo 😅

Realizing that my motivation to work out may be shifting from aesthetics and self-improvement to a need to be strong enough to fight back when people who vote conservative set up shop looking for trans people with armed thugs inspecting children's genitals in bathrooms is not the most fun thing

You ever work out so hard two days in a row that you feel like you'll never walk again? Because I think I am feeling that today. On the plus side? I added weight and/or reps to almost every exercise I did over the last two days and that's something to be proud of.

Gnome was the move. KDE just isn't quite there for my needs yet. Plasma 6.5 is good but the RDP implementation in Gnome is just way better and works in a headless state without major hacks.

Here we go again

Realizing I am not sure what's gonna happen to the cat I couldn't take with me when I moved... Kinda tearing up a bit over it all. He's my good baby and I hated leaving him behind.

Trying my best to use the modern Linux things on this new set up but getting KDE working only to find out headless remote access on Wayland can't be done is truly maddening. Over to Gnome I guess? 😅😭

Andor is proving wildly prophetic and I don't like that

Launching at CES today: an AI powered chef's knife that will put the correct pressure on the item you are cutting! Cut through fruits, vegetables, meat, bone, and organs all with the help of Anthropic Claude!

Sometimes I remember this song exists and my day is better for it Profanar la tumba, al ritmo de la rumba Con Fenriz y Darkthrone - Norwegian Reggaeton! Esta vida loca, a mirar la foca Asando un salmón - Norwegian Reggaeton!

Wait... Wait... So... Wait... All these metal songs aren't about really enthusiastic vegans sharing their favourite meat substitute?

Doordash. Plane tickets. Rent. Groceries. Utilities. Wages. Every single thing we interact with and want/need to purchase for day-to-day life has a some sort of bullshit computer program adjusting prices to maximize profits over everything else.

Blue checks are bringing the "I paid $8.99 a month to a fascist" energy and they've only been here like 8 months tops... Good lord.

Just me

Like I can curl and stuff too!

Reminder: I am very stronk, right @onelunagoddess.bsky.social

Computers are bad and no one should have them

I collapsed with tears in my eyes

Real question, is there even a good Linux kernel for networking? What made arch appealing was the ability to install the bare minimum of packages. That said? I'm probably sticking with OpnSense for a while on my routers.

So anyway this is gonna eat up like whole day but I am kinda looking forward to it because I'm unable to control myself and demand the new shiny-shiny kernels.

You ever like, get a new computer and have to figure out which Linux distro you're gonna put on and inevitably just land on Arch again? Like it's just gonna be Arch again. I can't help myself.