still looking for these! keep any and all leads coming!

Update: I only need one more laser session in a month and then I will be all set!

I have an appointment with my surgeon in a few hours for probably my last laser session before surgery and to see if I have successfully completed everything else I need to finish before surgery. Nervous!

That statement should be an impeachable offense

brooklyn yarn crawl yeehaw

I’m wearing my favorite pants today I cannot be stopped

I am having surgery in about 10 weeks and I need recommendations on how to occupy my ADHD ass while flat on my back with one arm in a wound vac dressing. All I can think of is a tiny e-reader. Send help.

Sandal also thinks your coworker and/or partner and/or family member was wrong when they did that thing you didn't like and he wants to hear all about it

This may be lost in the noise--this is as impactful or more than the cuts to NIH and NSF 🧪

cats

being trans is so good actually

“The last night I was a pediatric resident, a child came in with Hib and promptly died by the next day. I didn’t work for 50 years to have everything destroyed by one man.” -Dr. Kathryn Edwards, Vanderbilt University This is what RFK Jr. and the anti-vaxxers have wrought.

I almost went to the emergency room this morning for POTS reasons and then I worked for six more hours anyway and I am very tired. Please someone end capitalism.

This is my husband and I love him so much!!! #transdayofvisibility

even now, even today, y'all don't know how to be normal about trans people and you get so fucking mad when trans people don't react to your bullshit the way you want them to. we can see what you said. it's right there. you used trivializing language to talk about a decision that will kill people.

happy tdov please visualize me listening to my pour overs to see if they’re done dripping

I am one of the people who helped edit the last three books in the series, and I agree with this. JKR has shown that she enjoys her cruelty, and no matter how much I loved the books back then, I can't watch this.

JK Rowling is calling women athletes men even after they pass genetic testing. People in her replies are talking about these women having “ambiguous” genitalia. We are in an extremely frightening moment for ALL women thanks to transphobia.

With the HP trailer dropping tomorrow, here's the whole deal: If you watch the show, hell even just the trailer, I will think less of you. I will dislike you. I will think you don't care about trans people. That's it. It's been years. There's no wiggle room. No qualifiers. You care or you don't.

it’s not hyperbole, JKR literally said support for HP is support for her transphobia and she uses the money she makes from it to TRY TO TAKE OUR RIGHTS AWAY if you watch that show please don’t ever speak to me again trans lives are more important than your fandom of a terrible human’s IP

just know that if you engage with harry potter in any form i'm judging you

Hi! If you’re in the NYC/NJ area and can foster or take in a mama cat and/or her four kittens, please DM me. A friend of mine is in an unstable living situation and can’t house them after today. (Also DM if you know of a good shelter in the area that could take them.)

Elliot update: active, healing, thriving

You absolutely cannot separate the artist and the art without contributing to the persecution of trans people. Boycott everything Potter.

A friend/coworker of mine died on the way to work on Monday morning. He was a trans man, but the articles about the accident call him a woman and use his deadname. He was 23 years old and really cool and funny and smart and unique and we all loved him.

Someone who lives near my school posted on reddit last week desperately looking for a new home for a sick betta fish. I had a spare tank. Meet Elliot. He came with the name. I think it fits him.

Look what came in the mail yesterday!!

tired of working so much

A customer just asked me if the band on my shirt is pro- or anti-war. That band? The Chicks.

Hi! Our dear friend and wedding photographer and his husband are trying to recover from a bad living situation. They are both trans and disabled and may end up homeless. If you have money for mutual aid, please consider donating! www.gofundme.com/f/help-louie...

Today, Daniele and I have been a couple for 13 years. It’s also our cat’s 9th birthday. Partying hard tonight (ordering takeout and watching a movie at home).

@heatherhogan.bsky.social Do you have any recommendations for a POTS specialist in NYC?

Not gonna lie, Alysa Liu’s story is helping my inner child (who is is often trapped in the competitive figure skater headspace) start to heal a little bit.

I’ve been talking about Alysa Liu’s story about her quitting skating only to come back and become even better because she did it for herself and this came to me in a dream…

Shoutout to Hilary Duff for being the anti-T*ylor and releasing her main album plus all the bonus content included on the different vinyl and CD versions in one zip file for $7.99. We love to see it.

Hilary Duff album is so good!!!!

How do you even begin finding an apartment in NYC?

Still open till 11:45 pm tonight!

I can’t believe my life has turned out so well (genuine).

I got a single lawn ticket to the Hilary Duff concert in Philly, y’all.

Today I am seeing one if my favorite childhood authors and then getting a chest tattoo.

My 20-year-old coworker watching this entire system overflow at 6:30 this morning: “it’s kinda cunt though.”

trans women are women, trans men are men, and none of us will vote for gavin newsom

So glad the cardiologist has a cure for all these things