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perfect and upright, eschews evil (she/they)
https://okayfail.com
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https://hachyderm.io/@phillmv
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Last year, the universe sent me a message: it told me to start going to queer raves, and so I did. It’s been a good time! I wrote a retrospective on 2024, the year I discovered that I like dancing, plus reflections on parenting, music, fascism, fashion, and trans joy:
okayfail.com/2024/my-year...
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My Year of Raves
In my third year of being trans, I discovered that I like dancing. This was a surprise. Dancing is meditative, therapeutic – healing even. Now I try to go dancing as often as I can. This the story of ...
https://okayfail.com/2024/my-year-of-raves.html
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Bantership Potemkin
about 11 hours ago
His lost painting The Trench is incredible.
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i didn’t invent the game i’m just trying to follow the rules
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Anna Mehler Paperny
about 13 hours ago
If we had a crime rate trajectory like this motor vehicle fatality chart there would be calls for cops on every corner.
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mandy brown
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I really think the only reasonable response to the increasing prevalence of 996 in the tech world is to organize for a 20 hour workweek with no reduction in pay. They are trying to move the Overton window for working hours; let’s drag it the fuck back.
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one of my kids’ books last night had a character say “I’m not a sissy” and i had to pause and give an intro to toxic masculinity and it’s tricky to get that across to a 7 year old boy. i tried to be like, “a lot of people have a broken idea in their head that it’s wrong to be soft”
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Canadians for Tax Fairness
about 15 hours ago
New report: Extreme wealth inequality is soaring all across Canada — good thing we've got a wealth tax for that! 🎩🥂 See how your province stacks up here:
bit.ly/C4TFProvWealth
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Show me the money: A provincial overview of extreme wealth in Canada
A provincial overview of extreme wealth in Canada New York City Mayor Zohran Mamdani is part of a new wave of global political leaders at the subnational level advocating for and implementing measures...
https://bit.ly/C4TFProvWealth
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Secretary of Defense Rock
about 15 hours ago
What did
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if you run into a succubus it’s important to: - let her bum a cigarette - make sure she’s hydrated & has friends around - tell her you’ll chat once she comes down
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cass
about 15 hours ago
wow i genuinely did not know this, good info, and also very useful rebuttal to the many adult men who are suspiciously invested in believing otherwise
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my mum died when i was 7, and back then 40 seemed impossibly old. i don’t feel that way now that i’m about to outlive her
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“Well, my therapist said…”
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about 19 hours ago
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they want to kill your kids
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about 19 hours ago
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GP
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100 "thumbs ups" on your post may not seem like that much in the grand scheme of things, but imagine those hundred frantic hands dragging you down into the icy black depths of a mountain tarn and suddenly it doesn't seem like so little
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will LLMs be better at churning knowledge than a human doctor? eh should lay ppl rely on them for medical advice? eeeeeehhhhh will an LLM be better at listening to what you have to say and have less of an ego about it oh i believe that 1,000%
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Kenny Logins
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Kenny Logins
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Kenny Logins
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one of the benefits of being a trans parent is hanging out with my kids’ friends and i hope there’s a kid out there who goes “ooooooh that’s a thing i could do!”
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Alejandra Caraballo
4 days ago
I've spent the last two months putting together this exhaustive analysis of the New York Times coverage of trans people. It covers 3,242 articles over 12 years. In 2022, the NYT shifted towards a hostile stance towards trans people in their framing.
www.thedissident.news/exclusive-ho...
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Exclusive: How The New York Times Changed Its Coverage of Trans People
An exhaustive analysis of over 3,242 articles by the New York Times covering transgender issues from 2014-2026 revealed a stark shift towards hostile framing in 2022. In January 2015, the New York Ti...
https://www.thedissident.news/exclusive-how-the-new-york-times-changed-its-coverage-of-trans-people/
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Jeff Baker
4 days ago
The median American driver opposes bike lanes on commercial corridors because they believe bicyclists travel a featureless plane of pure motion and therefore might as well use a parallel side street, even though the parallel side street is not parallel and is half a mile away from the shops.
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Thorne 🌸
4 days ago
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𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒂. 𓆩♡𓆪
4 days ago
new Dafoe pose just dropped
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just called my local Lib MP to complain about bill c-22. i was less informed about the surveillance but i gave him a earful about how age verification is going to harm queer communities & make kids less safe. staffer told me this was the first phone call they've gotten. y'all pick up the phone!
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Jake Cole
5 days ago
He has a name and it’s Alexis de Tocqueville
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Un Bouc Basque
6 days ago
Huang accidentally created a great metaphor to discuss the dangers of AI. Appropriation of public spaces, environmental damage, induced demand, how negatively influenced the way we design around us and how it created awful patterns of behavior. Genius!
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Fatima Syed
6 days ago
"I was coming to the conclusion that by staying inside, I was becoming a tool to justify some of the things the government is doing, which I find to be unjustifiable." Read every word of Stephen Guilbeault's explosive exit interview with
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Matt Elliott
7 days ago
My
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column: To call the island airport expansion idea "half-baked" is an insult to baked goods. There are scant details. No credible projections. And few facts. Toronto is in absurd situation — debating a notion instead of a plan. That won't fly.
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Matt Elliott: How can Toronto debate the Billy Bishop airport expansion plan? Doug Ford doesn’t have a plan
It’s not some NIMBY impulse to wonder if the central waterfront of Canada’s largest city is really the best place for a much busier airport.
https://www.thestar.com/opinion/contributors/how-can-toronto-debate-the-billy-bishop-airport-expansion-plan-doug-ford-doesnt-have-a-plan/article_db803b18-2d86-46e1-8933-52c874b0ca69.html
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Dr. Ishaan
7 days ago
I love my country Toronto
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thinking about this, and tying it into my own family’s reaction, it’s interesting to me how ppl mask disgust in grief
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7 days ago
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live free or die is woke
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Joel S.
about 1 year ago
Me trying to explain fascism to students: "A lot has to do with fear of supposedly stable gendered boundaries blurring, and how that maps onto racial and national hierarchies. But can I really say transphobia is the lodestone to fascism?" Aleksandr Dugin: "Ukrainians are collective transgenders."
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Melissa Gira Grant
7 days ago
the people trying to ban young people from the internet are just telling them that they’ve given up on the internet. “I’m going to stay on a shit internet but you can’t” is not a trust and safety fostering policy, it’s surrendering your own agency and pretending it’s helping
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Adrian Daub
7 days ago
Troubling reports out of England of 30 year-olds being socially transitioned into same-sex attraction without parental consent! One can only hope that the UK bans coming out as gay until a child is at least 35!
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*extremely jaundiced eyes* eric is coyly signalling he’s conservatively oriented? why is everyone who gained attention via local yimby politics kinda sketchy
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JW Mason
8 days ago
If you think that a serious push to decarbonize the economy is going to unacceptably impinge on the prerogative of private power, then you need to cut back the ability to collectively regulate the economy in general, and exclude science and professional expertise from big swathes of government.
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JW Mason
8 days ago
An idea I've been playing with for a while is that one of the core elements of the political economy of Trumpism is that a critical mass of the US capitalist class decided that decarbonization was not worth the costs to them.
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Gravel Influencer
8 days ago
Bicycling is an inherently safe activity. Cars make it unsafe, scary, and nerve-wracking and that's what prevents many people from riding. It's pretty simple!
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The Narwhal
8 days ago
Two former advisors to the federal government called out Prime Minister Mark Carney for slashing environmental rules and ignoring experts in climate science and policy.
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Carney is ‘shredding’ environmental rules, ‘misleading’ the public: experts | The Narwhal
The government shut out its own climate science and policy advisors, they say, while gutting Canada’s environmental protections in favour of oil and gas
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David Reevely
8 days ago
Devastating account of degeneracy in the Ottawa police, which seems to be getting worse. Including that the police lied about the status of an investigative office (they'd killed it and pretended otherwise!) and the police board let them. By
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Ottawa police have a sexual misconduct problem. A decade of fixes have largely failed | CBC News
After 10 years of assessments, recommendations, promises and millions of dollars spent by the Ottawa Police Service to end sexual violence and harassment among its ranks, some current and former emplo...
https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/ottawa/ottawa-police-have-a-sexual-misconduct-problem-a-decade-of-fixes-have-largely-failed-9.7214201
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i asked my local library where the pride display was this year (a measly five books hidden away in the corner) and a staffer shrugged and said i guess they prioritized fifa this year 🫥🫥🫥
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muscular baby jeb lund
9 days ago
What you wish you could be doing in New York right now is what you could be doing when It happens. HAVE A PLAN.
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Xavier Horatio Xinicit 🎉
24 days ago
So tired of blacking out every full moon when I really want to stay up and help the townsfolk hunt for the werewolf
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Dog Date
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ma’am excuse me for the message but i gotta know: if you go raving with dog ears how do you keep them attached??? i’d like to do likewise but i fear having to spend the evening holding them in my hand thank you kindly,
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West End Phoenix
11 days ago
“My God, I've been doing so many VCRs. Everybody wants the tangibility effect now. They want to be holding it in their hands” Greg Thomas visits American Electronics in the Junction, the 53-year-old repair shop presided over by John Fadal and his dad.
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Shopkeeper: Totally Tubular — West End Phoenix
At American Electronics, the 53-year-old repair shop presided over by John Fadal and his dad, older is better.
https://www.westendphoenix.com/stories/totally-tubular-american-electronics
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Razzball
12 days ago
Being against bike lanes is the number one red flag there’s deeper, darker views a person holds that we just don’t know about
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Emma Arkell
11 days ago
Uber drivers in Victoria are the first app-based workers in Canada to have a collective agreement. I spoke to
@thelawofwork.bsky.social
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@verosioufi.bsky.social
about what's in it — including the clause that could be key to building gig worker power in BC
pressprogress.ca/uber-drivers...
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Uber Drivers in Victoria Successfully Bargained a Collective Agreement, and Here’s What They Got
Labour experts say the union's contract reins in Uber's 'largely unfettered authority to do whatever it wants'
https://pressprogress.ca/uber-drivers-victoria-union-contract/
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