[chat pile voice] waiting to die

Telling a client they are "riding me hard and putting me away wet" and that can make a horse sick and sick horses don't answer the phone next time, they'll have to find another horse to ride and it won't be as good of a horse

this too explains the "what do you identify as" and "preferred pronouns" shit at their core, they think our very identities exist solely by virtue of *their grace and goodwill* rather than innately from within ourselves they "put up with" our charade but they don't believe we are who we say we are

how i feel asking if im clocky

oh, so you think your shit don’t stink? that’s kind of weird man. maybe you should get that checked. yea it’s probably nothing but like maybe you should get that checked out

happy Mother’s Day.

ok actually it’s fine IM the big beefy boyfriend. uwu. whatever

im so hungover and all I want is espresso goddammit fuckign AGH

it would be soooo awesome to have a big beefy boyfriend to OPEN MY FUCKING CAFETERA FOR ME

this is literally how it feels to be a #boy listening to #music

Men get through a whole day without comparing a minor problem one of you is having to one from a group you’ve systemically oppressed challenge. Difficulty level: impossible.

I think im gonna watch Friedkin’s Sorcerer tonight! eek!

stupid steak too juicy problem but i dont think im built for having the amount of friends that digital comms can technically support. if i get too many texts i play dead (bad, inconsiderate) but my brain just short circuits and idk how to even begin fixing it! let's go back to carrier pigeons!

i love you tinned fish on a bagel with lemon. save me. lox is so expensive. ugh

so bsky staff read over a trans woman’s post describing how she was harassed for her rape and banned her for it, and also banned or suspended several other trans women after their favorite special pet called to “clean house”. you people are depraved

so every palestinian banned was banned by a human, who looked at someone desperately trying to survive a genocide, and decided to cut them off from any access to support

> No account is suspended or removed without human oversight. there you have it. every trans woman banned by staff was manual and not automated. someone on the team decided that a woman complaining about being harassed for her rape was worth being banned for and sent that out as an email

fatness does not indicate health, but also: health is not virtue and no one owes you health.

cis men love to take notorious examples of cis men collectively abusing and terrorizing women and marginalized genders, strip away the misogyny, transphobia, rape threats, bomb threats, doxxings, stalking, CSAM, etc., and pretend they're the actual real victims and criticizing them is the same thing

the government coerces people daily by either jailing them pre-trial and/or by making it extremely expensive for folks to fight their cases.

The Sargent at Arms blocks Representative Justin Pearson from Memphis from entering a committee meeting about redrawing the map specifically for the district he represents.

should I get a switch 1 for tomodachi life and smash and animal crossing and probably like cooking mama or something

I knew Star Trek was gay but my goodness everyone is bronzed tf up in a funky neckline and acting like they’re on some kind of aphrodisiacs

smoked the character actor blunt and now im getting rained on in vancouver what the hell dog

it’s so fucking disappointing to see trans men refusing to acknowledge that real harm, stopping at “we deserve support and spaces” and refusing to engage with the idea that it cannot come at trans women’s expense, and that this was at their expense. fuck me guys

I’m gonna try to let go of the minnesota soccer story after this, but it truly boggles my mind that some other trans men think keeping a pro soccer career out of college is worth bolstering transmisogyny in your viciously transmisogynistic career area which is currently being weaponized like it is

I see tons of cis "allies" (as well as very unaware trans men) saying "wait for the GOP to come up with a reason to oppose this!!!" They will not do that. They will use this as proof they are right.

lgbtq people never exorcised the ghost of michfest, only buried it, and now michfestism returns with a vengeance. since american culture is now global culture, michfestism is everywhere

ik the article is totally bait but i just wanna say a sturdy canvas totebag will make your life soooo much better. there is a world where you carry multiple big ass hardbacks and will be happy about it goddammit

From the heart of Gaza, amidst the rubble and the fear, we raise our voices to you. We ask for nothing… just a chance to live, just a moment of safety for a child who knows nothing of the world but pain Please, I need $150 to buy vitamins and medicine for my child Soad💔😭 chuffed.org/project/soad

Hey y'all, Mira is a friend and comrade who consistently does amazing work but — like so many working class transfems — struggles with poverty, especially as costs are going up. So, please, share this and help as you can.

The reason they give out Bigot Wizard Game for free so often is becuase they want to improve it's "sales" stats to justify making more. If you download it and play it, you are directly contributing to giving that crone more money to hurt a minority that has never done anything to her.

here's allegedly what happened when a trans woman tried to play in the exact same league btw

Like come the fuck on, this is the way you sell the story? Conservatives confused and triggered? Tokenizing, embarrassing

It is such wretched and intentional journalistic malpractice to give the token nod to the "broader push that has largely targeted transgender women and girls" but spend no time reckoning how this story fits in with that issue and will directly affect those women and girls

i think there are some good thoughts in this thread but is there no obligation *not* to publicly undermine the fight against trans genocide and segregation? isn’t that the obligation all people have in any of the senses that matter?

the framing of transphobic policy as a “win” is disgusting and it’s telling that the story doesn’t mention if trans women are allowed to play on this team. I think it’s also well past time that trans men consider playing on a women’s team that bans trans women as an act of treason.

i simply don't understand why this is being treated as some sort of accomplishment in the queer press. this is quite grim!!!!!!!!!

the environmental cost framing of the thumbnail and title here do not convey how fucked up it is that chrome is downloading and redownloading 4GB for a non-essential feature (fuck their AI), invisible and very difficult to remove for the average user, without any notification or consent requirement

god I wish I wasn’t allergic to raw apples and pears, two of the few fruits im not fucking weird about. i have been cursed

"your lot is to suffer, how dare you not let me, a real person who matters, get away with inflicting upon you" is always galling but rarely so openly stated

I will never forgive my work for forcing me to use microsoft edge that shit should be illegal under the geneva convention

why does windows run like malware holy shit

The Pulitzer Prize Committee placed in their finalists an overtly eugenicist broadcast aimed at wiping out transgendered kids, if you want to know how well anti-trans propaganda is working.

Why weren’t the voice of trans families represented in her podcast about trans kids? Well for one thing, she is profoundly untrustworthy so no one is willing to talk to her.

anyone have movie recs about being ugly worthless and gay. and also lonely. thanks in advance

it's actually insanely transphobic that transsexual surgery and hardware to self-host a media server both cost a lot of money