IDK who needs to know this, but here y'all go ...

I love being a romantic perv, I love sighing wistfully when my long-distance partner says “I just can’t wait to hold you… & then beat the ever-loving fuck out of your ass” 😍

goonicide

honey. i’ve got a confession. i put your freakin penis in the dryer. i put your freakin penis in the dryer and it shrank. a lot. we’re gonna have to get you a new penis.

As a lover of alt-timeline sci-fi, I can't recommend this enough... www.reddit.com/r/UFOs/s/W03...

Every time I see/hear a #TNG reference, I recall the severe & lasting damage caused by losing an entire generation of #queer elders to AIDS. 😬 at the lack of wisdom of these folx intentionally doing the same to themselves bc the concept of #BDSM play w/people older than them is… Icky. 🙄

Learning that this is a fungus called "stinkhorn" is sending me

Once again I'm feeling sorry for the most of the Western-tastes world who hasn't experienced an excellent cornbread and sausage dressing. ❤️

Anyone can walk on water when everything around them isn't holding them down. No one is where they are bc others weren't involved. Our culture weaponizes hardship and failure as personal fault *so that* it can celebrate ease and success as personal excellence. This is emotional poison.

#BDSM Social events aren't a waste of time bc... Increasing your opportunities to connect is never bad when you're *checks notes* seeking connection. 😉 I'm so happy for him. ❤️

OMG the obliviousness of those born-into-wealth infuriates. 🔪 From an adult child of a $42m net worth murder victim: "People are arrested and receive death every day on MUCH less evidence than my (suspect) nephew, so why didn't they even ARREST him‽ 😡” $, bitch. $ helps suspects, not victims. WTF

"Western" beauty standards my ass.

Y'all, stop lying to your SOs, bc you cannot be part of a unit if you're hiding something. If your SO can't accept something abt you, the match is doomed anyway. Things done in darkness have a way of rising into the light. Honesty and authenticity are crucial to an integrated life. #BDSM

Kay Jewelers, miss us with another winter of painfully idealized cishet vanilla social programming, m'kay?

*This* kinda of scene is why the experienced can be harpy about safety plans, y'all. Ask us our stories; listen and learn. ❤️ #BDSM #SafetyFirst

I'm glad I'm in a 💨 legal state bc holy 💩 is "The Plot Against America" (the Wynona Rider one) has uncapped my wellspring of existential panic about American fascism, frfr.... And I'm only on episode 6 😬

Someone needs to make me a Dickey Twister animated GIF, stat. #Cyberpunk2077

ma’ammaries

Schrödinger's Woman: Both precious, untouched majesty *and* ugly, diseased harlot until she answers whether or not she'll date him. 🙃

That's an affirmative, GhostRider.

The Roku Channel is a might frisky today 🤣

I won’t gatekeep, but I also I won’t abide the idea that anything you’re into is your kink, that oral sex or diddling nipples is kink. Kink means non-mainstream by definition. Don’t invalidate the shame, the discrimination, the difficulty finding partners that so many have suffered over decades.

Feeld is frustrating af. Today's gem: "Submissive yet dominant" English, MF, do you speak it‽ *grumble*

Yup I bought these. Now accepting ideas for what to slap ‘em on.

Lolsnort

This is a friendly, subby reminder that not all submissive men like being called a good boy. Don't assume. If you don't know, ask!

I'm convinced that Children of Men and The Handmaid's Tale take place in the same universe.

Add geographic determinism to the list of myriad structural fuckeries so often ignored/dismissed. From whence and whom we hail sets the boundaries of our lives, regardless of the stories we tell ourselves and the world.

@drdannypenman.bsky.social, since we're recent moots ☀️, what are your thoughts on mindfulness for the obstreperous ADHD mind?

if conversion therapy is a constitutional right then my domme has a constitutional right to turn me gay i'm so fucked 😬

Humps in the road ahead?

🚨 This is not a drill 🚨 ICE is alreadyfull-on fascist. The rest of DHS (inc CBP & CG) could likewise turn on a *dime*. ¹ Start figuring out what kind of thing is going to be your bail trigger ² Make your plan ³ Build your go bag

Men: Stop being all about YOURselves, YOUR desires, YOUR needs, YOUR dreams, YOUR goals, and YOUR genitals. I will never again fight for my humanity within a romantic relationship, full fkn stop. Every day that men speak/write is another brick in the #4B wall. Link in alt.

Very uncool! Don't involve others without their #consent. #ConsentMatters

Great BDSM isn't one person doing stuff to or for the other person. Great BDSM is collaborative and mutual.

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Interesting Friday night activity just dropped

Too damn many men think that this↓ is dating. 🤦 What too damn many *actually* want is casual sex, and think that "dinner" is their audition. 🙄

Can anyone recommend any published resources for submissive men who are struggling to overcome their shame? Books, articles, blogs, etc.?

How many struggling finsubs could be "cured" by spending their money on in-person prodommes instead of online findommes? Serious question.

Iterations leave footprints. Questing fulfillment, Emotion echoes bear weight. An auditory illustration: -The Air That I Breathe (Hollies) -Creep (Radiohead) -Get Free (Del Ray) Rarely do we replace. More often, we layer. Remember: Layers wear, revealing what's beneath.

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guys i used to take tinder hookups to the middle of the texas boonies to have sex in an unmarked cemetery and i didn’t die somehow