You don't actually need to be perfect to be an ethical Domme, you just need to realise the current limits of your competence and act accordingly.

A few rays of sunshine and some sandy toes for this snowy week. ❄️ I’ve been enjoying more measured time with familiar submissives lately, but have space for more fresh faces in the new year. Make a nice introduction.

The balls to the ankles.. *chefs kiss*

Social media rebuild: The 1st time I performed with NOT 1 BUT 2 sets of silver wings, with Firefly at @carriageworks ! YES THIS IS FORESHADOWING FOR MY SHOW TOMORROW NIGHT AT ULTRAVIOLET for @sydneymardigras ! #sydney #mardigras

🎶 if he tries to touch himself, smack his cock 💥💥 if he tries to touch himself, smack his cock 💥💥 if he gets to feeling flirty, sounds pathetic and so pervy if he tries to touch himself, smack his cock 💥💥 🎶

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My little slut ❤️

There are a multitude of technical skills to master as a ProDomme, but the overarching core skill is relational. Are you able to connect meaningfully with subs? Are you able to safely hold their vulnerability and submission?

Upside down and then I’ll turn you inside out 🙃

Help me celebrate my birthday in style! https://throne.com/princessa/wishlist

the pain she pulled out of me fed her. i saw it in her eyes. she took it from mine. [CW: blood, hooks, intense]

A sub's preferences and habits are malleable; their genuine needs, however, are not. This is why alignment matters.

"Be a voice, not an echo." - Albert Einstein #Quote

Men who say there’s a lack of Dommes or there aren’t enough Dommes for all the subs either: A. Haven’t done any research B. Mean there aren’t women who will satisfy their kink for free C. Mean there aren’t civvie women who can skillfully fulfill their desires D. All of the above

Educational Freaky Post of the Day: Prepping for Anal Play

Desire is vulnerability, and the more taboo the desire, the more intensely vulnerable.

One of my proudest online moments

These aren't the sub denying you your God given rights, it's another human being helping you figure out if they can actually give you what you want... and stay out of jail.

As a Domme, you need the clarity and confidence to hear a safeword during a scene or a "no" during negotiation and process it without missing a beat. This requires the ability to put aside your ego.

Dominants, if you can't control your own emotions, how are you going to control someone else?

Assisting your Domme to put on, or take off, her sexiest boots or shoes can be an excellent precursor to further debauchery.

Unfortunately the product shoot I was gonna be doing tomorrow has had to be postponed! So I've got availability this weekend! If anyone wants to try doing some moody B&W for a discounted price then please DM me for details! Client: @thegrrmanbutcher.com

The logistics or lust, lechery and the lash - of a lithe and luscious, long-legged Lady lavishing on libertines leisurely, liberal, lusty leatherings, lacking lily-livered leniency, and laced with lilting laughter.

Logistics aside, pre-session communication aims to determine what type of experience the sub wishes to explore, what their needs are, and whether those wishes and needs align with what the Domme enjoys offering.

Why should you join us on BDSMProfessionals.com? Reason #3: It was created and run by a fierce FemDom and fellow professional Dominatrix. This helps Her understand and anticipate your needs as providers, what our clients want and look for, and what it takes to be successful in this industry.

Dreaming of the day every site/app has a button to turn off any AI content.

Mistress Tokyo and firefly by @warped.photography ! I’m wearing a #megaboobs #latex #Catsuit , patent #leather tightlacing #corset by @sue_nice , stainless steel strap by @demask_berlin vintage 12 inch heel 7 inch platform patent leather boots by @iliaslittleshoeboxuk

Mistress Tokyo as shot by the incredible Roberto Duran! I'm wearing a @carapaceleather custom patent leather bullet bra, corset by @demask_berlin patent leather corset and @atsukokudolatex driving gloves!

Your dominance should be a safe place for submissive desire to be revealed. It's not a one and done, this is a continual process of revealing layers.🧅

I *love* to see obviously free hand sharps. A lil cockeyed, inconsistent depth, uneven spacing? It’s a fuck yes from Me. If you’re new to sharps, just focus on not pricking yourself and have fun! It doesn’t actually ever need to look any kind of way.

I will have some very rare same day/short notice availability at the studio today. Please read the contact page and text the detail details requested to arrange your time with me.

Validating your sub's submission. Showing them how much you enjoy and respond to it encourages deeper submission. You can do this AND keep the tone dominant!

I don't have a booking form, for the same reason but I do list the information I require from potential clients on my site and my advertising. I don't ask for an excessive amount of information - just the essentials to make the booking happen and check compatibility.

Hey OurSky! I have done a HUGE update to my Bluesky guide here: redumbrella.ch/bluesky with more detailed instructions + screenshots. I also have a LOT of you to add to starter packs. I wanted to update the guide first and I will get everyone added to a pack today.

New Sydney dates announced. ❤️Valentines Tour❤️ 13th-15th February

Stocking fetishists, this is your moment. I've just added lots of legwear to my throne wishlist! throne.com/msjadis #throne #stockings #nylons #tights

Just found a little Cervin treasure trove I wasn't previously aware existed. 🤤

February tour dates organised✅

I see a lot of discourse about the conflict between fetishism and D/s. I see less about how beautifully fetishism can complement D/s when a submissive fetishist is absolutely weak for the object of their desire, and the Dominant delights in exploiting that.

Please.

Do not book a Pro with the expectation /assumption that you will eventually be allowed to play with them for free. It's so uncomfortable for the Provider, you have no idea

YOU CAN'T REINVENT THE WHEEL BEFORE KNOWING WHY IT'S ROUND.

What I see as interesting is the disdain for Old Guard BDSM practice & dynamics by the chronically online. Youth is no excuse for ignorance of the reality of this scene. If you're bringing a fixed set of ideas and critiquing based off that, boy you're going to struggle.

Ah, yes, it's that time when the spoilers start flooding in for A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms, and I need to vacate the internet for a few hours, lest I sully my evenings viewing.

Are you ready? Doubles overwhelm and medfet sessions with @iamyourfetish.bsky.social See our websites to inquire.

That fresh hair feeling. 🖤

💖 My birthday month is a sacred occasion. It’s your opportunity to go above and beyond through worship and tributes: 👠  Los Angeles: Book Me @stellaobscurala.bsky.social LosAngelesDominatrix.com 📲 Simp online: sextpanther.com/justine-cross Loyal2Justine.com 💝 Adore Me:  throne.com/justinecross

There are quite a few men who claim they want women to scream at them. In their minds screaming = powerful. Assertive and slower speech in a lower register is more impactful. Dismantling this misconception and showing them how much they’ve done for me is delicious.

"Yesterday WOW!!!! ... I know you put everything you had into my session.THANK YOU,THANK YOU,THANK YOU. :) Your the BEST!!!!" - slave john

FKA Twigs in custom Paolo Carzana at the #Grammys #fashionsky