The ideal BDSM relationship style is the one that best suits you and your partner or partners. 24/7 TPE isn't THE GOAL, it's just one way of doing things.

Newsletter subs.. to your inboxes pls.🏎️🏎️

Wake up and smell the leather. 🖤

Your scenes will be disappointing if you're not realistic about the physical and emotional capabilities of all involved.

We have approximately three more days of work left to do here provided the weather and machinery behave. For those good girls and boys awaiting my return I am hoping to be able to announce a Sydney visit for next weekend on Monday.

Thanks @candytrauma.bsky.social for the rope care goodies. ❤️💋

"Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others. If you have that awareness, you have good manners, no matter what fork you use."~ Emily Post

"Severe personality problems find *camouflage." -Johnathan Shedler BDSM concepts, words, and traditions can be used to cover abusive behaviour. Not everyone in a Dominant (or submissive, for that matter) role is here for the right reasons.

"The swordmaster is as unself-conscious as the beginner. The nonchalance which he forfeited at the beginning of his instruction, he wins back again at the end as an indestructible characteristic.

Some subs serve to access the things they want, and some serve because the act of service genuinely satisfies and sustains them.

Me and who? (nobody will hear you scream) 🔗🔗

I know a lot of you have been curious about when I'll be back at the dungeon and I have some good news! We have about five days of #Harvest2025 left and then I can look at booking in some Sydney dates. Mid-November looking highly likely.

Girls can be cruel. 💋

Sunday is for worship. 🙏🙇‍♀️🙌

Creating a set ritual for beginning and ending scenes helps create a container and trigger headspace for both Domme and sub. This gets better over time!

PSA: If I’ve blocked you on a different social media platform, and you come on here to ask me why, I’m just going to block you here too. If I’ve blocked you elsewhere, it’s because I don’t want to interact with you. And quite frankly, I don’t owe anyone an explanation for why I’ve blocked them.

Aftercare is important, but it doesn't necessarily need to be lengthy or elaborate. Everyone's needs are different.

Words have meanings, and titles in the scene? Very much so‼️Each honourific has a slightly different flavour, chosen by and indicating things about the person who bears it.🏅 That's why it's impolite just to start addressing someone with random titles of your own choosing.

One of the reasons people crave pain is focus. Intentional pain will demand your attention and clear your mind. Want focus? Pain will deliver.

"Manners are what vex or soothe, corrupt or purify, exalt or debase, barbarize or refine us, by a constant, steady, uniform, insensible operation, like that of the air we breathe in."~ Edmund Burke

A Domme who clearly and genuinely enjoys her work makes all the difference.

Discernment is essential in Domination. Sure, that thing might be hot, and yes, the sub might really want you to do it, but how does that sit with the larger picture or their (and your) wellbeing?

Smiling big right now! One of my Inner Circle pets has just sent me his special edition themed morning cage check, and it most certainly has pleased me.

"Leather challenges a great many of our assumptions about pain and pleasure, about morality, relationships, integrity, fetish and taboo, sexuality and sexual orientation, and about power and authority.

Slow down! More and more, our culture trains us to expect immediacy, but kink thrives on intentionality and anticipation.

In D/s, punishment can be used for closure. When there's been a lapse or disobedience and it's been noted and discussed, punishment can be a valuable step to finalise the matter and move on.

Want to genuinely serve? You need to be a student of your Dommes' likes, dislikes and needs.

Moisture levels✅ Lunch packed ✅ A jacket because my aircon is broken✅ Another day of farm Domme. 🌾🚜 Let's go! #harvest2024

Male centered behaviour in Femdom is so confusing to me. Babe, are you just here because someone told you about "the ratio" ?

Keeping very busy with #harvest2025 including random mechanical dramas, cows (and bulls) where they're not supposed to be and extremely poor mobile reception. The farm Domme life!

When I am privileged to be in Mistress Jadis's presence for one of Her epic erotic thrashings, there is never any suggestion that She is merely acting out a role. It is obvious that She is relishing the expression of a central part of Her being.

“Ultimately, it is the desire, not the desired, that we love.” feat @athiedoll.bsky.social

Being truly comfortable in your dominant self will allow you to be more fluid, creative and perceptive in session.

For real. People have different reactions to things day by day and going non-verbal when previously stuck emotions are brought up is so common. I always ask anyone new I’m playing with what it looks like when they have a panic attack or feel too uncomfortable to talk.

Having a safeword in place doesn't remove your responsibility as a Dominant to monitor your submissive and their reactions.

Worship is not optional. It’s a daily practice. A ritual. A privilege. An honor.

I’m not spoiled. I’m just loved well.

A lot of you THINK you want to be wrecked to the bone by a Domme, but in reality you just want someone to stroke your ego. Your eyes are bigger than your hole, and it’s such a pitiful waste of flesh. It’s giving poser. I’m not here to stroke your ego. I’m here to consume it.

Real confidence in Dominance comes from comfort in where you are in your dominant journey. NOT from grandiose, puffed-up behaviour to cover a lack of skill or belief in oneself.

Why do I prefer that the bulk of scene negotiation happens in person? Because in this context, how you say things is just as important as what you say.

So it begins! Not without adversity. #farmDomme #harvest2025

💯💯💯💯💯 If there are any potential clients, submissives, or slaves out there “on the fence” as to whether or not they should book a session with an experienced and established Pro-Domme to explore their desires…. ➡️ Absolutely do it, there is no safer way…and you will not regret it!!!✨

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One of the benefits of sessioning with a ProDomme is that it can provide a clean container for your D/s desires that does not impact the rest of your life.

Do we think she's going to be a good Doll for me? feat @athiedoll.bsky.social

Heading home this morning after a very busy couple of days! I'm not 100% sure when I will be available again (estimating 4-6 weeks). If you want to be the first to know sign up to my newsletter here. thankful-mode-23696.myflodesk.com/bvg9b6ppn7

It's certainly been a great couple of days Sydney! Suspensions, beatings, knife play, soundings, vac beds, body bags and edging galore. Love this for me and all the subs I shared it with. 🖤

Desire is vulnerability. Your D/s relationship is the perfect place for that vulnerable desire to flourish. Sure, playing it cool is safe, but yearning is it's own reward.

I sense tradwife corruption role play in my near future.

Something I don't hear much about in the "gatekeeping in Professional BDSM" conversation is that what is behind the "gate" often is the time, energy, emotional labour, spaces and personal possessions of experienced Dommes... and we are people not just "resources" to be consumed.