Current situation. Unfortunately I have to pee!

Film you’ve watched more than six times with a gif. Hard mode: no Star Wars/Trek, HP, LOTR, Marvel.

Main goal of returning to grad school achieved! I feel young and stupid again. Mostly stupid. 🤦‍♀️

It's funny but it took me transitioning to even begin to see the facial resemblances between my biomom and myself. (This post will self-destruct.)

Something instead of nothing

Fucking clowns haven't even put the permits in with the Township yet. Another week and a half without plumbing at least. FML. 🤦‍♀️

Another semester in the books! Might be the last time I’m on campus for a long while. I will miss it. Now just need to write a 15 page paper by the 4th…

One week of a broken sewer line and I can't stop thinking of Dr. Amp. "Shovel your way... out of the shit!" 😮‍💨 (One of many genius touches in Twin Peaks: The Return)

There’s no reason to read the self hating trans person. This is also why I don’t subscribe to people on here who hype up the views of horrible people. Leave that stuff on Twitter.

we all know I have no life, so:

This is what they call “commitment to the bit.”

Oh my god it’s @torificallytori.bsky.social’s birthday!!! 🎉 🎂💜

#Happy420 from Sonny Bono, and everyone at Dumb Industries!

TLDR for now: the MCU sucks because of Batman, Batman sucks bc of capitalism, America’s COVID response was the inevitable result of capitalism, capitalism is fascism, nostalgia is fascism, fascism is your dad, and Dwayne McDuffie’s death was a systemic hate crime alright I’m gonna go make coffee ✌️☕️

The ever-present threat of veggie wraps during work travel. 😱

I have “mother hen syndrome.” I get super invested in people. And that means I get super sad when they choose to suffer. As they often do. 😮‍💨

Course I've been humbled by the void Much of my faith has been destroyed I've been forced to watch my foes enjoy Ceaseless feasts of schadenfreude

I have to say, I really hoped transition would help with this feeling. And it sort of has? But things have worsened so much faster than I had anticipated.

Constant existential dread, or, another day doing my job.

i have one direct report on my team and he is 23 years old. every Friday we have a non work-related chat and it makes me crumble into dust every time. "i wasn't born yet when Fellowship of the Ring came out in theatres" wtf i'm dying over here

This is truly one of the best things ever made and you have to watch it to the end. I don’t make the rules. 😭

Getting gendered correctly by someone looking directly at deadname.. ngl, feels pretty great.

An army of people in hazmat suits descended on my basement in a kind of 5-hour Breaking Bad montage. Weeks without plumbing, though… 😔

Literal 💩show as the “power rooter” guy covered our basement in sewage. Fml. 😭

Pretty sure this is exactly the kind of thing my mom was working on in the late 50s and early 60s! She was one of the first computer programmers. Of course the second she got pregnant with my brother, they fired her, because sexism.

panel from 2020, from a cartoon about time traveling Sparky(s)

transphobia is a luxury belief, which is why it’s so prevalent among beltway types who don’t have real problems

I just saw somewhere something calling Joy Division's "Ceremony" a cover of a New Order song so officially the internet is fired and can come back when responsible humans are in charge

Hard to say goodbye to paradise… or to the amazing @rebeccabluestone.bsky.social 💞 🐈🐇

There are two kinds of trans millennial: (1) The kind who soothed their panic attacks as closeted teens by listening to bleeps and bloops, and (2) the kind who did the same listening to real loud guitars. Like, I'm talkin' ballpeen-hammer-to-the-skull-loud guitars. Not me tho; I was a bleep-blooper

She is risen!

Lamenting the passing of our dear @rebeccabluestone.bsky.social at her “funeral wedding.” 😂 (yes, she is in there!)

Also how awesome is it that @rebeccabluestone.bsky.social’s birthday is Confederate Surrender Day!

Traveling to Asheville for this amazing human’s birthday celebration!!! 🎂🥳🥰

Making some changes around here. The truth is, I feel a tad exposed rn with this whole social media thing. I would hate to leave but… it feels a bit risky to have the profile I do now.

I think it’s unfortunate that the world is bad enough that we’ve all had to talk about politics because I really don’t think the inner heart of this website for most longterm users is in politics, it’s in saying weird shit and yelling at each other for unclear reasons unrelated to anything important

Because I am a dumbass I got the date mixed up, but yesterday marks one year since I came to shul as myself. So now it's been a year of "Lila everywhere all at once." 👀 No regrets. Not a single one. I did this at age 53. It is never too late.

5 word tragedy: Teleportation not yet invented; Transphobic

In all my dorky glory. My “I fixed the toilet all by myself” dance and spinny!

Welcome back Brian of Nazareth

Lunch is the worst meal and it's not even close

Don't give a shit, let's run this place into the ground

No one needs to know what Graham Linehan thinks in 2026, you can stop screenshotting him now

I don’t hate that a lot of annoying media people complain about Bluesky because they come here and are met by angry pedantic weirdos because that keeps annoying media people out of here so the rest of us can chill. It’s some hidden elf village bullshit, they just met Glumpo the Bluesky welcome orc

chag pesach sameach to everyone & may all who have been imprisoned be freed & all those who need find a laden table for their hunger tonight

Just to say That if your kitchen is not as clean as you would like Or your matzo balls are not homemade Or your Seder is smaller than you hoped for Or your Seder plans didn’t come together at all Dayenu. It’s enough. More can always happen next year. Chag Sameach!

Filing at the prothonotary to legally change my name. Next step, waiting for a court date! #TDoV ✊