flying back to Brooklyn today for a brief stint & I always think of this bit from Angels in America…

JUST IN: Chicago journalistsa re suing DHS and ICE over force used against reporters: storage.courtlistener.com/recap/gov.us...

drives me NUTS when people say 'intimacy' when they mean sex!!!! that's a different concept!! the two do not always overlap!! use the words that mean what you're trying to say!!

captioned version for TikTok ✨ this song goes out to anyone who’s ever felt like a loser for not having “enough” sex, or “the right kinds” of sex, or sex with “the right people”… the best sex life is the one you want, whatever that may be!

got to do my fave thing tonight: improvise a song in front an audience 🤩🥲 here’s a jazz song about taxes, which was the suggestion I was given 💰

oh right, gosh, by the way, if you’re gay and you use the Magic Wand and you haven’t heard this podcast yet, go binge it right now. makingmagicseries.com

My chronic illness is significantly more tolerable since getting on low-dose naltrexone. If I skip it for even a day or two, the full-body pain comes roaring back, and I think, “I can’t believe I used to live this way every day.” But of course, I only lived that way because I thought I had to. 💙

Alongside @404media.co, we sued DHS demanding they hand over a copy of an agreement that shares the personal data of nearly 80 million Medicaid patients with ICE. We believe it’s important for the public to see this unprecedented data sharing agreement.

I needed to see this today. Perhaps you do as well. ❤️

I wrote a song called FOMOsexual If you had to guess, what would you think it’s about, based on that title?

RIP Jane Goodall www.youtube.com/shorts/O59i1...

writing an article for a client & honestly it would be pretty funny if I just left this one like this

most of the time when I'm writing, I'm listening to this robotscience.bandcamp.com/album/good-l...

Am doing the possibly psychologically messy thing of watching the movie that I just learned my parents went to see together on their first date in 1980; will report back

Cannot stop laughing at this one Reddit post where a woman bemoans her inability to find a man who will be (respectfully) rough with her in bed, and she describes a recent hookup thusly: “He was so gentle it felt like a baptism”

Got all dolled up for a media event and it got canceled at the last minute lol 🥲🤣 If you want to make my night less disappointing, feel free to ask me some anonymous questions to entertain me ngl.link/girly_juice1...

Kate is pretty juicy (and thoughtful) at her default, so when she brings out "The Juiciest," that means something.

not a single news org signed. that's what it takes. stand together. everywhere, every time.

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“If you can beat the oligarchs here…that will send a message to every community in America that real change is possible.” More of my conversation with Bernie Sanders on democracy, oligarchy and his time as Mayor.

This includes BIRTH CONTROL, by the way. As well as a shitload of mood stabilizers. Do NOT eat "spooky" black foods and snacks. Just don't.

“One of the saddest lessons of history: If we've been bamboozled long enough, we tend to reject any evidence of the bamboozle… It's simply too painful to acknowledge, even to ourselves, that we've been taken… Once you give a charlatan power over you, you almost never get it back.” - Carl Sagan

Kate’s written a ton of really hot stuff this year. You should pay her to read some of it.

RIP Jane Goodall, by all accounts a wonderful woman who loved this Far Side cartoon

This is an especially good point about monogamy and polyamory…

I was asked to write a piece for the Babeland blog! Younger me would be so proud; Babeland was the first New York sex shop she ever visited 🤓 www.babeland.com/babe-blog/ho...

NEW on the blog: The 7 Juiciest Things I've Written All Year 👀 girlyjuice.net/the-7-juicie... ...on pussy-eating, love addiction, dorky virgins, recovering from rejection, people-pleaser issues, how to get horny, & why you should slide into your crush's DMs 💅

One of the places that retained the soul of the People of the city.

Went to a screening of Norma Rae tonight (one of my mom’s faves but I’d never seen it). Oof. A Sally Field performance for the ages. Feels very pertinent still to this day. UNION!!!

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Please - stop doing the screenshot no link thing on Bluesky. This platform does not punish you for posting a URL. You picked up the habit from Meta apps? Stop doing Mark Z's bidding. Link ESPECIALLY to authors, reporters, bloggers, etc. where you quote the work.

NEW Dildorks episode: #451 Ass Is in Session thedildorks.com/episodes/ass... People believe all kinds of nonsense about anal play, so this week we’re busting myths about butt stuff.

“While working on this article, it became nearly impossible to keep up with new cases of lawyers being sanctioned for using A.I. Charlotin has documented 11 new cases within the last week alone.”

Just ordered my copy and I'm extremely stoked to read it!!!

Started reading Jane Ward’s book ‘Not Gay’ about straight-identified men who have sex with other men and how they justify/process it… I can already tell I’m gonna be yapping people’s ears off about this book for months

I hope every ICE agent gets visited in their dreams by the Ghost of Nazi Future so they can have the shit scared out of them by visions of their own legacy

We don't get a lot of good news these days so you've got to appreciate it when it comes. This is a big deal!

I felt immediately embarrassed about this Cineplex-themed Hoedown verse I did at the musical improv jam last night, because I got worried that people don’t know I’m gay and am therefore allowed to talk shit about the (excellent, fun, rowdy) crowds at vintage gay porn screenings, lol

there is no fear in America that informs policy so profoundly as the terror that we might accidentally afford someone human rights or dignity without first determining that they have earned those things; and, by extension, the idea that those things must be earned.

movies I watched or re-watched in August (go follow me on letterboxd letterboxd.com/katesloan/fi... if you’re on there!)

for a limited time of now until forever i am offering trans permission slips to anyone who wants to go on a gender field trip. just make sure you sign it yourself too before you pack your lunch to get on the bus. we'll be leaving every day at noon

Call Gavin Newsom's office like you called ABC/Disney/Sinclair/Nexstar

Opposing racism isn’t anti American unless your ready to concede this is a racist nation

On Tuesday, Namesake will be presenting at @chihacknight.org! Tune in at 7pm CT / 8pm ET to hear @eva.town and @mbbischoff.com talk about name changes in the U.S. and how we're building tools and communal support to make the process easier.

You should post this on Facebook or wherever your ICE agent/Military/Cop cousin can see it

I'm dying over Smitten Kitten (a sex shoppe) having to basically be like, "Google is lying about us having a glory hole." www.instagram.com/reel/DPACIxZ...

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More kids are severely ill or dying from the flu as vaccine rates fall, CDC reports: influenza is dangerous, and there's a vaccine for it. Protect your kids. www.nbcnews.com/health/healt... via @nbcnews.com

I told you guys

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