I‘m discontinuing my social media use for the foreseeable future and I want to explain why. I woke up in the new year to discover that some guy on here had saved photos I took on New Year’s Eve and used Grok to remove my clothes. I know this because he showed me.

downloaded a GIF keyboard just to text people Ilya Rozanov memes

"ICE invades New York City and is promptly evacuated by boat in a Dunkirk-like rout as New Yorkers line the waterfront jeering and yelling "bing bong."" @hellgatenyc.com

the only true power imbalance in a relationship is between the partner who knows of Long Furby and the partner who is about to

@brosandprose.bsky.social Visiting a friend I got BHAYR for - “I fucking loved it. I could relate to pretty much every character at some point. It was so enjoyable.” Just wanted to pass it along. Happy New Year!!

all lips can be dick sucking lips if you try hard enough

2025 you could have been far worse!!

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If the next Democratic president doesn’t abolish ICE then the Dems deserve to lose forever

I have a date for NYE for the first time in YEARS and I’m gonna KISS under FIREWORKS probably DRUNK on CHAMPAGNE let’s fucking GO

waited at a crosswalk for the light to change with Ben Stiller

My December newsletter is up! I wrote about Heated Rivalry, my cat, my continued loathing of Bill Maher, and did I mention Heated Rivalry? Read here: www.patreon.com/posts/146807...

My December newsletter is up! I wrote about Heated Rivalry, my cat, my continued loathing of Bill Maher, and did I mention Heated Rivalry? Read here: www.patreon.com/posts/146807...

I haven't said this in a while — if you'd like updates on what I'm reading and my thoughts on romance genre discourse, come follow me on insta! www.instagram.com/brosandprose/

Thanks to Pluribus I had a dream that I was traveling via helicopter but I had to help eight kittens jump into the helicopter without us landing 😩

“Jacob Tierney is really doing a service for those of us who hate the prudes who complain that sex on TV serves no purpose. The sex in this show is plot, and it is character development, and it is so necessary to what unfolds narratively.”

I AM SO HAPPY TO BE HOME I LOVE MY APARTMENT FULL OF MY STUFF

About halfway through @brosandprose.bsky.social's novel But How Are You, Really and I hope I can find my own Reece

My cat has the sniffles 😭

so this is what it feels like to be known

Please help

my assistant is slacking on the job

dating someone new right before the holidays is wild because it's like "well I guess I'll see you in two weeks after some family time that will activate all my attachment issues and generational trauma"

I'm so appreciative that Jacob Tierney took the time to chat with me a few days before the #HeatedRivalry finale about finding the right cottage, those new end credits, his broad ideas for Season 2, and more:

uhhhh "President Donald Trump said that he ordered “numerous” strikes on alleged terror targets in northwest Nigeria on Christmas Day."

what are your family's unofficial holiday traditions? I'll start: being passive aggressively reminded to write my thank you notes

I hope everyone’s having a pleasant People Pleaser’s Worst Nightmare Day!

I loved this. And I want to note the whole “there were no autistic people before …” discourse has an answer here: just the people were sent away in the incarceration (yes “care homes” like this), and if they fled, they were just abandoned by society, usually to die.

it is taking everything within me not to send this to every friend in my phone

I hope Moo Deng has a happy christmas

This is not a Best Of list. These are the books published in 2025 that I find myself gushing about and thinking about and stroking the covers of like a pet. Here are my favorite books of 2025: www.patreon.com/posts/my-fav...

This is not a Best Of list. These are the books published in 2025 that I find myself gushing about and thinking about and stroking the covers of like a pet. Here are my favorite books of 2025: www.patreon.com/posts/my-fav...

Here's the page with our Best Of lists dating back to 2019, so lots of really solid choices here! fatedmates.net/best-romance...

Merry Christmas!

It's almost like there's a side of this they want to protect and it isn't victims

Great thread.

Camped out here on Two Things Can Be True Hill: 1. The romance genre has a history deeply entwined with white supremacy, ableism, and the most reductive kind of stereotypes. Like every genre. 2. Painting all romantasy readers as “zombies” is also a reductive stereotype, and misogynist to boot.

This brings Russell Brand up to seven charges.

BOOFY

Proof!!

There’s a lot I could say about this but Jen covers it in her thread. I’ll just say “My hope is not that literary romance discards the concept of a HEA or HFN, but expands what it can be” is very funny to me given I host a podcast where I interview romance authors who ALREADY DO THIS.

Why would you need to put a pause on a story that has been meticulously fact-checked and lawyered? Sounds like the kind of story you’d want to run right away!

sending friends the first draft of my new book like please validate me

It's a good one, folks

John is a saint for this. Get ready to READ!

Hey bluesky! My novel is perfect for folks who love romance novels that engage with themes like mental health, queerness, professional burnout, and still being hung up on your ex from college 💜

The perfect gift for that women who should leave her husband bookshop.org/p/books/this...

“The sex scenes are some of the best I’ve read; they’re both steamy and sweet. I loved how the story ended, but I also wanted a sequel because of how delightful Dawson’s characters are.” Hell yeah let’s go

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It's my birthday this week. I'm going to be 42. This year I'm not gonna ask you to buy my books or leave reviews or recommend them to friends or subscribe to my newsletter. All I want for my birthday is for you to do one damn thing for trans people.