i can't believe I'm 39, unreal

sick of hearing "bearded trans men will be made to use women's bathrooms" in misguided pushback against the EHRC guidance. beards don't give you threatening superpowers. as we've seen with countless gender non-conforming folk, if i entered a women's toilet, i'd be the one at risk of attack

the wikipedia image for sexual roleplay is making my lose my mind

I will repeat this as many times as needs to be The patriarchy as NO FUCKING POINT values trans men and mascs, our rapes and murders are jokes to laugh at on TV If you cannot stomach the idea of including a trans man in your feminist framework then you are fucking useless for trans liberation

One of the other reasons we have to fight to include trans mascs in everyone's feminism was because SNL felt comfortable scripting, shooting, and airing this about the rape, mutilation, and murder of trans man (Brandon Teena) And people still see nothing wrong with this segment, or it as a meme

it's my birthday so im getting existential with it

been looking at semi rural housing again. i could be living in a little trailer home for $150 a month just out of the city in a little community, raising chickens in my yard, but i instead am not 🫩

oh kink, grant me the serenity to process the things i cannot change, the courage to modify the behaviors i want to change, and the trauma-informed risk assessment skills to discern the time and place for each.

Who's up at 2am listening to their ambient Catholic 90s synth?

its so funny they write think pieces on economy pessimism as if we haven't spent our lives seeing a cycle of: get paid, prices go up on gen goods, get raise that doesn't make up for the devaluation of the money, make less after raise that fails inflation, rent goes up, get paid

baseball is always some guy who is a physically perfect specimen being guided day and night by world class trainers, nutritionists, and doctors hoping to beat a record set by some guy named Pickles Bitch in 1937 who lived on cigarettes and moonshine and did not exercise other than baseball games

Will always amaze me that women got pigeonholed as "bad at math" while at the exact same time, things seen as women's work: sewing, cooking, baking, crochet are all math based activities, often dealing with complex geometry, as making a garment from scratch, does.

AQUA TEEN HUNGER HORSE

This is my favorite ost from the genesis

I think one of the dumbest parts of the Alberta gov threatening sepratism is that it's wildly unpopular here. You can't take the nationalism out of the good old boys like that, even the right here think this is goofy. That and this whole land isn't ours, you can't remove the land treaty.

"I demand access to the person no matter their wishes, how dare you enjoy a safe space (which doesn't exist) where randos don't show up in the replies to sexually harass you for being trans or disabled" Oh yeah, jeeze, that sounds soooo reasonable

i keep being struck by how affordable these influence efforts are, above all else

my birthday is tomorrow. soju time may happen

i think there's a lot to say about early 00s internet atheist to fash pipeline via egalitarian (read anti feminist) gamer with concerns. I however fear God too much to be the one saying it.

"we need walkable cities" i live in Alberta, who the fuck is "we" in this scenario?

Discussions about women in media feel like this these days

french stoners r like "80"

on my birthday I may have to buy some soju. much to consider

3am bath time!

ok but what if my fursona is a crab that has like, orca patterns tho

I highly recommend that everyone follow artists. If you do, your feed is filled with art every day. Real, original art. It's bonkers that you can even have this. Amazing. Undeniably cool. And then support those artists, when you can, because that helps the delight continue.

(a new object is placed in my enclosure) damn new object just dropped (I glance disparagingly over at yesterday's object) lol y'all still thinking about this huh

imagine if god was a leftist who drinks beer and I fucked them

im boiling hotdogs for your sweet tea

I don't talk about the whys of starting to go back to church and do my own Bible study as an adult queer, because it's extremely personal to me being trans. Legitimately, I would not have picked up the Bible again if I hadn't gotten top surgery.

i hate how tagging things went from: "tag this so people with trauma can filter it out" to "tagging this removes it from the algorithm for everyone, so i will instead spell this traumatic topic wrong to avoid that, and fuck those who needed tags"

Transmasculine erasure also kills. This is a de facto ban on transmasculine people existing in public anywhere in the UK. This is trans genocide. If anyone can help with alt text, I would appreciate it. Safety information like this should be ACCESSIBLE.

Need to make transsexual Transylvania a real country

finally had a big cry tonight. needed it tbh. dad's been off and on since the news. sitting in my yard in the middle of the night cause it feels surreal.

if they made Jesus Christ Superstar today, the American right would get outraged by it's contents. And I think that's a fascinating demonstration of the how right wing denominations in the USA specifically, tend to tint their faith to their politics, not their politic to their faith.

Strawberry economics

When they say you're not that strong You're not that weak It's not your fault And when you climb Up to your hill Up to your place I hope you're well

Sometimes I daydream about a trailer on a rural plot with a pond big enough to fish, chickens, and ducks. Just an extremely simple life. Internet optional.

watched the second Mario movie I actively hated it, but I'm sure some 9yo is experiencing this as their Star Wars

I've seen people on who will take your writing about your own rough childhood as an attack on their idea of their own childhood being a universal experience. It is easier to get mad at someone expressing hurt then to confront the reality that these harms of children exist.

Goodnight

sure was a week dentist grandma died period started haven't decided if church is on the table, cause damn I'm exhausted. maybe just reading at home today. I'm so burned out.

places like depop are absolutely unusable if you're plus size huh? why are these fucks listing xs as plus size?

up at midnight eating cottage cheese and a pickle, disgusting creature

part of me wants to watch euphoria but a larger part of me know all the shock i seem to hear about it is going to be extremely banal, but it's 2026 and sex is scary, I'm just almost 40, so like, lol

i can't take terfs seriously as feminists because they seem to care more about who gets to piss than the actual violence faced by women and girls ever. sorry the nebulous abstract of womanhood "got raped by men", or w/e some of us have had to deal with the real thing in our lives!

i tend to block ai enthusiasts on site. idc what they do, i am however someone who posts art, so I'm simply minimizing my risks of being added to a dataset.