Lacking curiosity is such a turnoff in dating. In me (or whoever you’re dating), in society and the world around you, but most importantly in the self. If you’re just coasting by chronically incurious about anything that signals to me that you can’t handle complexity in life and I don’t need that…

Indeed; indeed..🙂‍↕️

"I'm finer, and funny than all of the mens on here irl" Ki's, tea, jokes. Ab's 🤣

Food, 'Chef' Wife, Food HR Tips, Food, Drink,Wife Travel, Food, 'Chef', Food Hot Topics, all thee above. lol

I'm allergic, not to shrimp.. Them gulf ones must got sum else Does this include the lobsters?! 😳

I immediately block them from all my social media. newsone.com/6837877/bewa...

Let me know, when the girlies can chime in. skksss

Thee Originals¿¡ I been, to a few concerts. Would.

🎶I don't wanna wait, fo' our lives to be ovaaa do, do, do, do, do, do 🕊️

(dayyumm) 🍿🥤🍸

Love this down!!!

Told chy'all.. 🎶 Hidden Valley Ranchhhhh🎶 *drum beats on table*

It’s 8 niggas telling her how good she look and what they’d do to her …. None of em actually SEE her tho . Do you know what she’s into ? What makes her smile? Frown ? Excited ? No , but Thank God she’s fine. Think deeper and stop seeing shallow

I can’t tell you how many times I get told “I think I know everything” when hyperknowledge & hyperindependence has literally been key to my survival in life.

Y’all don’t ever see something and say “This isn’t worth my words”?

You mfs love patriarchy until it’s time to be a patriarch.

"Inconsistent Communication" Is/Was enough. Throw it, away. It's expired. 🚮

'Hidden Valley Ranch' was/is an actual ranch, and recipe invented by a Black man. It hits harder bc, BHM *plays 2x more* 🗣️

People treat non-romantic relationships in a very laissez-faire way and I’m just not with that. I don’t reserve my best for my romantic partners.

People open up to me, quite often. Complete strangers, tell me, whole life stories in public or secrets. ANY WHERE. It's honorable. But, overwhelming, when, I'm not asked. I don't like, that. Also, rarely do or can they, reciprocate the same level of comfort. A MAJOR reason, I stay to myself.

Booooo What, person wants to parent, another adult? Adoration, can come from your lover/partner/spouse. In no way, can it 'fix', any trauma, one may have from a parent. They're not equal. And, it's 'your', job to heal. NO. ONE. ELSE. ~ It is emotionally incestuous, too. They gotta unpack that.

A swalla' in the container¿¡ Beat 'em

Normalize, being honest. Too much facade, and performance. unless it's ya' thing. It fits for many. Limit, what you share, and whom. Keep mental notes. If need be, for yappers of the gossip kinds. Clock 'em.

I am so, invested in this story. I even put my book down.🫢

I'mma pin this up here.

Everything. (absolute) 'I' created, create, evolve, and maintain.

Why when ppl ask you if you’re okay and you say “I’m not” they shocked. Get a new greeting prompt. Also I’m not venting I’m just telling the truth.

@jerrellxl.bluesky.social You are very, very slow apparently. Heads up to moots who follow it.

80's kid ishh.. 'Brain' done' turned the frequency, like a manual radio. 🤣 music.apple.com/us/album/not...

~AtownstompPraiseDances~

Digable Planets on Front Porch?! Happy Black History Month!!

Fantasia said she lost it all *twice* trynna take care of everybody, and she only got three brothers. Glo don't owe them ppl nothing but love, and even that's up in the air.

I feel like it’s a way for them to keep tabs on you & see what you got going on w/o them having to put any work in. They’re learning you by stalking your stories etc. I created a google number for ppl I need to vet first. You want access to me…you’re going to actually have to communicate

Nothing. And, no one.

I found out, these people keep track of the wildest ish, and doxxin' light damn near. ~ I gave, my 'socials' for the last time. We clique, 'like that'¿ It's Numbas or Nahh

I still, do it. I'm reading, no less than 3 books, at a time with 3-4 cahiers

Matches or soy candle, too.

THE MUPPET SHOW IS ON!

Just because you don't like being confronted about something you did does not mean you're being attacked lol