Over the next few days, Rhea would have gone back on her word on everything. She would reconnect with Oracle, memory-holing every receipt that she had been shown, taking on and fully embracing Oracle’s narrative of being a poor misunderstood lonely autistic queer who didn’t understand social cues.

The next day Rhea asked RAYN4 what happened. RAYN4 pulled no punches explaining how Garm had thrown her under the bus by litigating Slushy's denial, which made discussing the sexual abuse Oracle did impossible. Rhea left RAYN4 hanging for several hours, before inviting RAYN4 to continue.

Earlier, we mentioned Slushy. They were one of the folks who reached out to us after our departure from Rhea’s server. They specifically went to Poes, likely thanks to its reputation for keeping receipts, and Poes, as it had done with Rhea, made sure to mentally prepare them for the receipts.

On July 2nd, after discovering the litany of personal and sexual boundary violations by Oracle, we, along with Poes decided to take a break from Bluesky in order to distance ourselves from her, and to heal from the psychological damage sustained.

Fast forward to June 14th, Oracle had just experienced a traumatic breakup with her own polycule, and RAYN4 had just discovered a new kink of hers. RAYN4 was able to explore said kink in an environment that she thought was safe. However, Oracle’s jealousy once again came into play.

We later learned that right after that conversation, Oracle messaged Poes, and misrepresented what happened. She claimed that RAYN4 said she didn’t love her, when the truth was that RAYN4 simply did not feel romantically towards her.

Upon learning that her romantic feelings were not returned by either Poes or RAYN4, Oracle sent a private message to RAYN4, expressing feelings of inadequacy, jealousy, as well as expressing deep-seated internalized transphobic and fatphobic statements about herself.

Back in April 14th, Poes had been dealing with the new discovery of being a plural system, with Isabella as its headmate. After a week of playfully flirtatious banter, RAYN4 and Poes somehow managed to accidentally fall in love with each other.

Before Lenneth would’ve had a chance to sleep and process things, Oracle went to the group chat to declare that she would be taking the time to look inward, work on her trauma responses and her “borderline brain.” Oracle recognized that she fucked up, but failed to touch on the core issue.

When Poes woke up the next day, it realized that it felt more hurt and violated by Oracle’s boundary-pushing and jealousy flare-ups than it realized. it said that it would be gone for a while and muted the group chat to give itself some space.

At the beginning of July, someone very close to us and Poes, we’ll call her Oracle, started to act very weirdly around the flirty banter between Poes and one of our headmates, RAYN4. Oracle seemed to be avoiding RAYN4 whenever she was around, despite having been adoptive siblings to each other.

Hello, it has been a while. We have been thinking about our traumatic experiences during our time on this platform, and we have come to the realization that the best decision for our mental health and safety would be to depart permanently.

i know it might not seem like it, but the working class has *a lot* of power even now. the thing with laws is that they are a social contract we all agree to instead of outright violence & militarism. if you pass unjust laws, it doesn’t mean you win. it means you are weakening your right to rule.

pro tip for other leftists: anyone actively hungering on bluesky for violence & war is either delusional, a fed, or both. in history, even relatively successful leftist revolutions only happened after the ruling class rejected multiple attempts by the working class to reform their conditions.

I was asked to share this along to help a trans person living in a refugee camp! If you could spare some time and donate or share, id appreciate it! www.gofundme.com/f/save-a-tra...

It’s still Disability Pride Month. Remember not to touch people using mobility aids without their consent/permission. It’s paternalistic and rude. If someone needs help they will ask for it.

It’s Disability Pride Month y’all. I’m Autistic. I’m neurodivergent. I’m neuroexapansive. I’m Disabled.

July is Disability Pride Month! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️♿️ According to the Human Rights Campaign, one in three Queer folks have some sort of disability, compared to one in four Cishets! As such, Accessibility & Disability Rights are ESSENTIAL to 2SLGBTQ+ Rights! Alt-text is a simple & effective accessibility tool!

「 commission 」illustration for PurpleBappsky 💫

RAYN4: I am gonna be taking a break from social media, period. This is too much to handle. I can't deal with the realization of how someone so close to me had been violating mine and Poes' boundaries so intensely and so persistently.

an improvement on an old design

The weather is slightly nicer this week. Have a comfy, breezy #FursuitFriday!

ANY help is appreciated! to help me get out of here faster! if you donate, i will doodle something for you! ko-fi.com/stellamewsing

I, a random sister in some part of the world, love you, despite any of your flaws and missteps. I believe there is some value in you inherently, and I believe that you can always strive to make amends and positive changes in your life - and you never should be scorned for trying to do so honestly.

Form a tighter community with those who will treat you with honor and respect, even when you fail and misstep along the road to perfection. Cut off those who would demean you and demand you humiliate yourself more for the public with every subsequent reply to your apologies.

YOU make a choice and perpetuate this toxic culture, unfortunately, if you continue to flagellate and play into these demeaning demands. You, my trans sister, are worth so much more. You do not deserve to be demeaned publicly for every misstep you make. Treat yourself with respect and love.

Someone with empathy and respect for you as a human being wouldn't spit in your face and publicly demand more and more and more of you as you flail to try and make amends, all the while exerting their social influence on you by writing more threads, self reblogging their replies to you, etc

I'm not advocating for not apologizing for when you do something wrong. We're all flawed. These past few weeks are a testament to the fact that many of us dolls WERE wrong in major ways. But look inward and assess how cis people especially react when you offer them apology for your wrongdoing-

@kallekatt.bsky.social yo they did a tier zoo about you 🥰

This is anti-intellectualism, and it's one of the big features of fascism.

We need to do more than give eachother a break. We need to take a hard look at ourselves in the mirror and understand that we should not let our flaws and missteps guide us down a path of feeling like our only recourse to avoid social ostracization is to roll over on our bellies and be humiliated.

This but it's also more complex in that we (transfemmes) have on this site been conditioned to accept that in order to "properly apologize" we need to flagellate and be humiliated publicly by cis people especially in order for us to be treated with dignity in our admission of wrongdoing.

i see it all the time on this fucking site and i hold my tongue bc i think "Well we're keeping accountability. Well it's fine they're just angry about the wrongdoing" but it's not that. It's a persistent pattern of trans women never being allowed to be flawed without flagellation to cis people.

If you apologize for a perceived wrong to a cis person there's a high likelihood they'll spit in your face and degrade you for not groveling in the right way. I'm sick of it. I'm sick of seeing my sisters have to cower in fear bc we know deep down many of you would side with cis women over us.

im in my fire and brimstone arc fr right now it's unreal how the cis keep acting towards our trans sisters and every day we sit by and let them act like little moral lordlings over us is another day we submit to their implicit stance that we aren't "real women" we're something lesser than them.

im channeling evil transfemme summer or whatever we're calling it

It's okay to make mistakes and be a little messy! That's fundamental and universal! Just listen when people who care about you try to help you make better choices, and for fucks sake learn from your mistakes so you don't hurt people the same way over and over

Being allowed to “fuck up” sometimes is really important

a quick comic about bein’ trans. happy pride motherfucker!!!

It's a crass thing to talk about money, because we've heaped so much shame on poverty. But Ashton struggled with finances, and I'll never know how many years that carved off their life. Most of your favorite creatives are hurting. Support them when you can.

Got no help overnight, so we're going to be pushing really hard for this again today. PLEASE HELP US, if you can't spare money, SHARE MUTUAL AID, SHARE THE POST! YOU ARE LITERALLY HELPING JUST BY SHARING, THERE'S NO REASON NOT TO HIT REPOST!!! -V #Helpsky #MutualAid