"I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." "Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are." Kurt Cobain Died: April 5, 1994, Seattle, WA (27)

A very drunk, frankly stunning woman at the TDOV party on Tues night called me gorgeous and extolled my virtues repeatedly. It wasn't a means to anything happening between us, it was just some wonderful, positive attention. I keep flittering back to it and smiling.

Spring has sprung, TDOV is nigh, and I just spent the last hour or so in a painful hair removal appointment. You're damn right I'll be wearing a cute dress tomorrow.

The forecast high temp for TDOV is 69. That's allyship right there.

Recent discourse reminds me how much fun it was when, nearly 24 years ago, a friend made a Moby pinata for me to smash on my birthday.

Dear AEW, Hello, hi, it's us, your day one fans. We would love to have NYLA ROSE on AEW TV again. And on AEW PPVs. Please and thank you.

Whoever is running that AI slop military influencer foot fetish grift has an opportunity to really go over the top and bump the character off in the war. I bet her death would be more profitable than Charlie Kirk's.

I enjoy the man's films, but this is astonishingly accurate.

Random memory: Years ago, for a Superhero and Supervillain themed burlesque show, I created Doctor Hipster, a petty genius who abused their time travel powers to ensure they always liked your favorite band before they were cool.

Tonight’s dumb napkin cartoon…

Maybe it's because I was reared on 80's media, but a sweater draped over the shoulders like a cape and tied in front will always be villain-coded to me. Like they're on their way to foreclose on a beloved rec center if the battle of the bands doesn't raise enough money to stop them.

Thinking about this.

Trans people want to have sex and make art and talk about sports and do all the shit everyone likes, and instead we have to think about Nazi freaks all day. This sucks eggs.

MAKE AN EMERGENCY DONATION to Trans Continental Pipeline right now. They are a Colorado based org that helps trans people relocate there and they are overwhelmed with requests. CO borders KS, and TCP has the infrastructure to help get people out. GO DONATE. tcpipeline.org

Neither of my parents lived to see 70. So starting a transition in my late 40's has been as much about facing my mortality, and wanting to die as my honest self, as it has been about trying to love the person I am now.

Is the president mocking the U.S. women’s hockey team on a celebratory call with the men’s team going to attract even an iota of the sustained handwringing that the idea of trans athletes disadvantaging women’s sports has gotten

Share your sexiest tongue pic! 👅 (Not sure if it's sexy, but it's one of the very few tongue pics I had on my phone and I like my really eye makeup in it)

Skeletor is a thembo btw

The drunk uncle theory. You don’t argue with the casually homophobic uncle at Thanksgiving dinner to change his mind; you argue so that the closeted cousin at the kids table knows there’s safe people and better possibilities out there

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Getting ready for a sapphic party in Park Slope, in celebration of Me Day. 💝

Just had a very drunk woman insist that I was famous and demand to know where she knows me from. It certainly isn't from Bluesky with the numbers my posts here do.

Cry more.

Hmmm. Louder then.

No Kings includes Draft Kings

At least if I freeze to death today, the corpse will be cute.

The 'feels like' temp is -4 and I need to call upon some serious willpower to get out from under the covers and get ready for work.

That's what I'm talking about.

Random thought while watching wrestling: Somewhere, two talented young wrestlers, looking to become the next Omega and Ibushi, are watching and rewatching Heated Rivalry, planning an epic, long-term, enemies to lovers arc. Wrestling is so ready for it. #aewdynamite 🤼‍♀️

I'm very excited about this month's queer mixer. We're heading into Valentine's (MY) Day with a smut exchange. Sharing the gift of porn feels like a good ice breaker.

It's not that I want him to die. I want him to die broke.

you know vapes be addicting as hell because there aint no way anyone thinks they look cool sucking on a cell phones dick every 2 minutes

This a public reminder to myself that sometimes I can be cute.

ICE shouldn’t have guns, they shouldn’t be wearing masks…they shouldn’t even exist. Governments are firing immigration judges, they’re arresting people at hearings, they’re ending protective statuses. There is no “right way” because they don’t want there to be one.

one of the ways social media breaks people's brain is that they think that someone getting a sufficient number of followers is functionally the same as becoming an elected official who now needs to run everything through a pr team

The Specials had the right response to bigots in your midst. Bonus: it's also a bop. youtu.be/gqH_0LPVoho?...

Congress must immediately act to impeach & imprison Donald Trump. And if they fail to do so, the rest of the world should punish the USA just as heavily as was done to Russia for attacking Ukraine. We should not get to kidnap heads of state & "run" sovereign countries like vassals.

2026 started with a blessing. The deli gave me a very girthy pickle with my sandwich. Happy New Year.

Just saying.

if the mta sold F/M swap merch they'd be funded for the next decade

Once Upon a Time in China

Fine whatever seven years

These are the "good and decent people" who didn't survive the Reagan presidency.

Neither of my parents lived to see 70. So starting a transition in my late 40's has been as much about facing my mortality, and wanting to die as my honest self, as it has been about trying to love the person I am now.

me when it happens

"I'm vers." "I'm a side."

I truly, deeply believe with all my heart, that everyone on this bitch of an earth should make at least one zine in their lifetime. It’s good for your soul.