I don't want to be a good tranny. I think being a ok, but occasionally selfish, tranny is good enough

I finally worked out how to make blue boilers. (That's a type of dried pea) actually fully cook in stew. Soak them the night before with bicarbonate soda in the water. The bicarb is important. Then cook for 2 hours. I am not sure that they are better than regular old frozen peas though.

Fr, even the outright maliciousness of a few years ago was better - at least it was easy to de-bunk. Now everyone in any tiny position of power is so deep in the doublespeak that you need a published academic review just to break down what they *actually* mean to a level that normal ppl understand

I don't want to be a good tranny. I think being a ok, but occasionally selfish, tranny is good enough

can we cancel trans awareness week? I'm done. Shit was better when folk forgot we existed. Even just 3 years ago.

we all deserve family that cries with happiness over getting to be our family.

A house without hooks is like clothes without pockets. Why are you prioritising clean lines over something you can actually use?

My husband asked me to explain this post, and I had to show her Blanchard's transsexualism typology. And she was like "wow, that's super transphobic. So you either like men, or being trans is just a kink?" And I had to explain about Blanchard also thinks HSTs are more attractive in appearance.

I am more attractive than the other alters in the system because I am HST, not AGP. Once you can spot it it is easy to tell the difference. 💅

we all deserve family that cries with happiness over getting to be our family.

I remember reading a thing that was like "parents of trans folk, if you don't want to be involved in your trans children's lives you will be replaced. If you don't someone else will. Your loss" Anyways, I asked a friend to walk me down the aisle for my re-wedding, and she burst out with happy tears

becoming hot was such a good plan

face + scent (I actually wear a dupe, cos $400 is too much)

you know it is proper australian summer, because it is 30C (86F) outside. But the aircon is blasting so hard in my coworking space that i wish i had brought a jacket.

a lot of mentally ill people and professional therapist etc have hangups about the word "broken". I think this reflects disposable non-fix-it culture. Just because something is broken doesn't mean it can't be repaired, or used for something else or even used for original purpose with challenges

If you weren't meant to have w cheeky bit of bra showing some of the time them they wouldn't have put lace on on it

I am more attractive than the other alters in the system because I am HST, not AGP. Once you can spot it it is easy to tell the difference. 💅

no way in hell is my perfume junkie ass getting this down to one scent so here's my top three: • Imaginary Authors "In Love With Everything" • Imaginary Authors "O! Unknown" • DedCool "Fragrance 01 Taunt"

"hate the sin but love the sinner" sure is nonsense when you have defined a core part of someone's identity as a sin. You cannot love someone while hating who they are

face + scent

An idea i think about a lot is a post apocalyptic setting, but the apocalypse was a few hundred years ago all humans shrunk to 3.5mm tall. But whole thing is presented as military fiction. With like squads of shock troops jumping off side of trained dragonflies. "Welcome to the moving city of Dog"

You never see, like, a hard sci-fi Redwall. Like, this cute little stoat has a robot arm and pilots a mech the size of an office trash can.

face + scent (I actually wear a dupe, cos $400 is too much)

It's nice to remember occasionally that when people do clock me they see me as a trans woman which is a kind of queer woman. They assume I have always been a trans woman -- while it is intrinsic in its nature that I was at least at some point presenting as a man. That isn't how they think.

"hate the sin but love the sinner" sure is nonsense when you have defined a core part of someone's identity as a sin. You cannot love someone while hating who they are

We sell croissants! Here they are under the CROISSANTS sign. Ooh, we now sell pan au chocolat. Pop them in the same area of the shop and change the sign to PASTRIES so everything is included. Transphobes: THIS IS CROISSANT ERASURE >:(

👁️ Concept: girl who is loved.

💃Concept: boyfriend

Time fools us We fancy ourselves historians, Or perhaps oracles, But the past is no more real than the future Shadows on the wall of the cave To be, is to be now To live, is to exist only in one moment Trapped in the present like an insect in amber There is no escape without escaping life

Their parents, who were radicalised by hate propaganda from the: Daily Mail, Telegraph, Times, Guardian, Sun, BBC, Conservative Party, Labour Party and more besides. Get the parents off social media, that will do more good than isolating children to be further indoctrinated by radicalised parents.

Calling myself bi because the girl parts of me are gay and the boy parts of me are straight

Joanca is the only trans woman in animated media I've personally seen that is overtly transgender and not in a transmisognistic caricature way, but rather a humanizing way. from 40 years ago btw.

So what did other cultures do before prisons. Prisons were only for people you could not kill...and those people were captives or hostages essentially. Royals. People with money and/or allies. Aztecs would enslave you, but the word 'slavery' means LOTS OF DIFFERENT THINGS. Aztec 'slavery' ...

I want to get deep V french tips like shown in this screenshot. But black, over maybe red, or blue, or maybe gold?? I wonder if my nail place will do it. I feel like the deep V takes advantage of the nails being very long in a way normal french tips do not.

“Oh no we can’t clock her which we means we can’t distinguish her from rea- I mean cis women”

cis-masc HRT is so cool moreplatesmoredates.com/does-boldeno...

*Women receive substantially lower "potential" ratings despite receiving higher performance ratings *Differences in potential ratings account for half of the gender promotion gap *Women’s lower potential ratings do not reflect future performance: women subsequently outperform male colleagues

transition is not something that just magically happens to you. you have to be an active participant in creating your own future

I have been thinking about why I keep drawing patches on myself. I think it is because they are a powerful symbol of bodily autonomy. Patches that can be removed for servicing. Because I am user-maintainable and can have aftermarket parts installed etc, if I want.

i have never seen something more me coded in my life

does anyone remember when i said this and then people told me that it was still harm reduction because there actually could be even more harm because it can always be worse? ahhhhhhhh good times..... good times.....

CW locker room talk: The absolute worst shit I heard guys talking about in the school locker room was doing a circle jerk (no homo bro -- not if you're thinking about girls), and one of them leaving the cum on his hand then high fiving this girl called Jazz. They called her Jizz til graduation.

cis-masc HRT is so cool moreplatesmoredates.com/does-boldeno...

It is a peculiar quirk of the Australian social security system that when given the option to either engage with Centrelink for the disability support pension, or work to death for slightly better yet still poverty level wages, many women will choose the non-centrelink option, and try to hug it

I've long criticised the dehumanising and patriarchal partner income test embedded everywhere in the Australian welfare state. The tax on love really does hurt families, and has a real impact on relationship formation or termination. www.reddit.com/r/Centrelink...

👁️ I hate it here.

MRI soon. I am having a pretty good hair day. Hopefully learn something about my pulsatile tinitus I think my hair just craves moisture. Slept with it wet, with leave in conditioner and tied up, And it looked like this. Gained a little frizz over the day.

I have been thinking about why I keep drawing patches on myself. I think it is because they are a powerful symbol of bodily autonomy. Patches that can be removed for servicing. Because I am user-maintainable and can have aftermarket parts installed etc, if I want.