i wish i had the money to go to New York and see some shows. i'm not even a travel person, but it's been so long since i've been anywhere

I want billboards proclaiming "you can actually change your sex, it's not even that hard"

the belief that trans healthcare is a luxury, nothing more than a cosmetic change, is core to why liberal "allies" don't actually care about the onslaught against our care if that's someone's only context, it's no surprise that they're apathetic. we need our actual allies to talk about this more

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I'll never forget that in the same time period where Democrats refused to meaningfully support trans people, oppose genocide, offer any real resistance to fascism, let cops beat on protestors they want to support them, and refused to support Mamdani etc., they rallied around the Nazi tattoo mercary.

It turns out that cis people do not want their bodies changing in a way incongruent with their identities... just like trans kids faced with a cisgender puberty

how it feels talking to Democrats in 2026

hot take: the notion that a trans person can be somehow *compelled* by a doctor or their community, into taking hrt, or having a surgery, or anything like that, is a detrans grifter narraritive

bottom surgery for trans teens is an easy thing to fearmonger about but it’s also easy to push back on rhetorically. “no one is doing SRS on teens!” is a weak argument that is also not true and throws trans kids under the bus. “teens can consent to life saving healthcare, dipshit.” is true

if u've ever wanted to try estrogen u can just take it for like a month as a bit it'd be really funny just ask the nearest transfem for help she'll say yes cuz trans women love bits and giving out estrogen to strangers

Dems can't help but throw minorities under to bus to chase the center right voters that would never vote for them in the first place.

Commission for April

Facts.

googling "how to do an erotic photoshoot with a cello"

randomly remembering the first time I walked into an Ulta to buy makeup and nearly had a panic attack. man, early transition was so weird

one of these days I'll post a transition timeline, but until then you'll have to take my word that I look so fucking different than I used to, wtf

it’s not just about momentum. the goal of these initial moves is always to remove the persecuted group from public life for a reason — it diminishes the mitigating effect of proximity to members of the persecuted group, because proximity is humanizing and makes later cruelties harder to rationalize

*tune of "happy and you know it"* i'm so pretty i'm allowed to be insane 👏 👏

"I always feel bad when I tell people my depression made it hard to leave the house because I know it's just an excuse and I just didn't feel like it" babe that's the depression

It can be really had for many trauma survivors to reel in our reflexive apologies. We're not trying to be annoying-- we honestly feel we're making things terrible w/ our feelings & reactions, & we honestly feel awful about it. Easy does it. Think one fewer apology today.

Emotional neglect convinces us that ANY need we have is "too needy." Meaning there's no way we can even exist without feeling "too needy" every second of the day-- because humans have needs 24/7. Oh, but others can have needs, obviously. We're just The Too Needy Exception.

Survivors of emotional neglect often feel like ANY sharing of ourselves is "oversharing"-- because we can't possibly imagine a world in which our experiences, either positive or painful, would be anything but a "burden" to someone else. Thing is, that just isn't true.

girl who refers to sheep shearing as "peeling sheep"

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Where is the evidence of the pharma industry lobbying for trans healthcare? Why would they bother? Cis uses of bioidentical hormones dwarf ours.

If your trans theory is putting a queer-theoretical spin on the fucking 'Transsexual Empire' then you are an idiotic rube at best and a simpering token enabling cissexist academic bias in all likelihood. How's that for fucking "assimilationist".

the belief that trans healthcare is a luxury, nothing more than a cosmetic change, is core to why liberal "allies" don't actually care about the onslaught against our care if that's someone's only context, it's no surprise that they're apathetic. we need our actual allies to talk about this more

Like we're just doing this again. We keep euphemizing, downplaying and glossing over the fact that trans healthcare is specifically an issue because it permits us to change sex, because it moves us from one of society's rigidly bounded categories to another, and that's the whole fucking problem.

If I had reached out to the right people for emotional support I probably would have figured things out way sooner but, I didn't, and that's part of why I do a little bit of annoying proselytization about the whole Just Try A Lil Estrogen thing

a girl who's tired after three hours of rehearsing Carmina Burana

why did you transition, right answers only i wanted a feminine body, to dress femininly, to be called by a feminine name, to love and be loved by women as a woman eventually, the pain from not having those things overpowered the voice saying that my reasons for wanting them werent good enough

a picture of the "i can has cheezburger?" cat but it's me asking "i can has a puzzy?"

a girl who's tired after three hours of rehearsing Carmina Burana

I haven't been deadnamed in so long, I forgot how much it sucks

why did you transition, right answers only i wanted a feminine body, to dress femininly, to be called by a feminine name, to love and be loved by women as a woman eventually, the pain from not having those things overpowered the voice saying that my reasons for wanting them werent good enough

you can also *ask for help* regulating (just bad to assume a yes and unload on people) we're social creatures. we weren't built for isolation.

i hate my disgusting fucking body

i'm not satisfied with my voice as it is right now, but i'll take a bit of satisfaction in 1) how hard it was just now to adjust back to my old voice, and 2) how completely foreign that voice sounds to my ear now i don't recognize it, it's not my voice anymore 💛

sudden moment of panic just hit as I tried to remember if I did my shot this week (yes, three days ago)

It is nothing short of an honor to carry this torch for our community. Onward, together ❤️

ok, tho im shaking with anxiety and guilt before i even post this, i know i can't do it alone, and i owe it to myself to try. im sure it will take a while, but i've never needed something as bad as i need this. so here is my fundraiser for vaginoplasty. please share if you can bit.ly/help-veronica

Yeah, we know y'all are calling him a Faggot. We get it.

i’m SMA (saramisogyny-affected)

is there a show or movie that has the vibe of The Adventures of Pete and Pete, but like queer?

she’s pretty evil I guess, sure

as much as i appreciate the democrats responding with vigor for once, the fact that republicans are using "transgender" as a slur for a political candidate is fucking horrifying and dems need to quickly figure out a way to address it head on. calling stephen miller ugly isn't a long-term fix.

even if I had no other reason to transition, it would have been worth it just to never have to wear a suit or tux again that said, I hope that once I donate my old suits and tux, I hope they end up with some cool trans guys and they all look handsome af wearing them