Honey, put on your best dress, it’s gift card dinner night

I don't want to jinx it but I think I accidentally solved a logistical problem by having a margarita and a daiquiri instead of staying home.

I said I wouldn't leave the house today so I don't get caught in a boxing match but I left the house so now only time will tell what happens from here. youtu.be/cbxxcqIYZN8?...

We are now entering the weird liminal space between Christmas and New Year's Eve. Anything could happen during this time. You could feel weirdly nostalgic, you could see a photo of a cat, you could remember to feed your Neopets. The possibilities are endless.

Jesus told me to take mushrooms and play skeeball so I did because who am I to deny another man's God and it seems that on this front he was correct.

Xmas dinner

The local Chinese place is closed tomorrow so I went tonight (tomorrow's brunch is leftovers) and the cookie blessed me with the news I wanted to get.

Courthouse weddings are only cool if both members of the couple want something that simplified. Extravagant weddings are only cool if both members of the couple want something that involved.

I'm nervous. I'm leaving them in front of their door overnight. I hope I don't run into the couple that owns her for a while because I'm embarrassed at how much this cat means to me and I don't want them to feel like they owe me access. I'm just so delighted when I happen to see her.

Oh my stars, I am only giving ONE gift this year and it is to Hallway Cat.

Trees being the best part of the season is grounding. Mine are tiny and plastic so I can't turn mine into ice cream, but this guy successfully did. youtu.be/fgNzmw42FmU?...

This handsome holiday goth says "hey".

In tribute to Santa's upcoming all nighter, I've been awake for over 24 hours. youtu.be/VnT7pT6zCcA?...

A Jesusmas miracle

I already love Gumbus but a Christmas Gumbus is super incredible. youtube.com/shorts/tKXVh...

Merry Merrymas from this sassy little bitch! Werk, werk, werk.

Took out the holiday trees. Glamming a tree is so camp. youtu.be/wj5bIFi2Sz8?...

Something INSANE happened to me tonight.

22 hours until Winter starts! Inching closer to Spring!

The answer is two-fold: have the boundaries to offer support from only a safe place and only help those who are open to support. Something about my presumption that he was in need of support getting out of the road really bothers me because I wasn't really honoring his truth. I was meddling.

Lots of reflection on how I will put myself out to help someone who is suffering without the self preservation to not harm myself to do it. I have reacted by completely turning inward and not having anyone to worry about. Probably an overreaction, but this frames my errors that puts me at risk.

Last night I was walking home and saw that a car had stopped on a busy road because a man was shuffling in the middle of the road and wasn't making an effort to move out of the way of a lot of soon to be oncoming traffic stopped at a light a block away.

Be extra nice to strangers and retail workers this weekend. Make a point of it.

We live in a weird time. It’s only right to get weirder yourself

"Has feminism failed women brought to you by bank of america" is my MKULTRA sleeper agent activation phrase

I have a credit at my neighbourhood record store that just expanded! What is essential listening?!? Probably not what I have on hand.

I need to curate my physical media collection so badly but I don't trust myself and want so few people in my home. A project for the new year? Why do I make room for a Vampire Weekend vinyl?!? I should have something more impactful taking the space.

One unexpected delight of growing older is you forget SO MUCH boring shit

The few I have stay in the packaging as art. This packaging is art.

I am sensitive to many fragrances so I try to chill out on how much scent I am exposed to but I love ridiculous car air fresheners.

Good night, Scroodle.

Eyes darting across the cluttered room, searching for what I can work on next to attempt to clear the chaos. Pool noodle with scrunchies. I don't know how I'm going to mount this storage "solution" in a renter-friendly manner so I turn away and vow to return to the scrunchie noodle another day.

Clean yellow shirt Iola, KS — Lake Village, AR

"Belonging" is more than just being allowed to stick around. It requires acceptance, consideration and respect. Being conditioned to seek where you belong will only allow people to take advantage of your vulnerability. Being included only to be insulted, used and degraded is not connection.

Incredible that 6 years ago I was desperate for peace and connection with people I would have given my life for. Now I realize that their "love" for me had been injuring me for decades and I'm delighted to now know it so I can grow away from it. I only let genuine intentions into my orbit now.

Jacques Heim, Netherlands (1965) #SweaterWeather

I'm still a cishet woman that chooses to be childfree but I feel like the most profoundly sexy thing I could do right now is embody single dad energy.

Low self esteem is how someone else's actions become a reflection of your worth. "She won't take accountability because I'm not worth the effort." The lack of ownership gets filled in with your own projections about deserving poor treatment. It isn't fact.

palmist boardwalk, seaside heights, new jersey, 1978

WINTER SEASON TEA TOWEL TIME

Okay, we'll coast on this to survive at least another 24 hours without needing to scream. youtu.be/0Mg-cGeFXh0?...

"At" "mos" "pher" "ic" "RIVER"

Morning Sea at Shiribeshi — Hasui Kawase, 1932

Animals with misleading names. I'm seeing this go around as part of a viral tumblr thread so I thought I'd reshare it.

I bet this was the best show of the 10 cities. I can't believe how heavy this album turned out. I'm here for it. youtu.be/li0nqM1ww_8?...

I guess this has probably already gone viral somewhere but I am simply dying at this picture of a bear that looks like it hired a photographer to do a glamour shoot

Solstice in the distance In a place that has short days Everything is ✨️upsetting✨️ Lose my calm again and again Lose my calm again and again Lose my calm again and again