While I certainly don't want what's happened to me recently to happen to anyone else, one positive from it is that seeing so many friends stick up and support me, and not let me forget that the way I've been treated is unacceptable, has made me accept that maybe I'm someone worth sticking up for.

a bizarre added wrinkle: seemingly, navreen is now trying to cozy up to prominent trans women on here and pretending not to be TME. they added "trans woman" to their bio. moving to the next scene to wreck and more vulnerable transfems to abuse and then attempt to get socially murdered, i suppose.

Just realized that while pasting posts over to Bluesky, I missed out the post that was meant to precede the one I'm quoting. I am a fool. It's really important context! Here's what it should have said.

one thing that became incredibly clear both from navreen's cycles of abuse & control during the relationship, and from their obsessive transmisogynistic stalking that followed after, is that they see their survivor as something in between an ”effeminate boyfriend” and a “woman you can hit”

Because they possess a worldview predicated on entitlement to power and control over others and being forced to confront the reality of permanent loss of control and their own powerless to regain it...

*specifically* through the vitctim(s) exercising their own autonomy, is experienced as an assault on their sense of self worth, which is derived from holding power over those they view as lesser than themselves.

I never wanted to do this. Navreen Satsangi** is my ex-partner. They are an abuser, a stalker, a liar, and a danger to survivors and movements for liberation. There is more info about their behavior in the linked doc and I will give a few details below. Doc: drive.proton.me/urls/PA2ZND5...

The stalking and harassment by Nav has been horrific and as usual it sucks that any survivor has to make public statements like this

The incredible amount of DARVO that Nav has deployed both for their own abuse and in favor of other abusers has been staggering. My incredibly sweet friends have faced the huge brunt of it but also anyone willing to still stick up for them got targeted to further hurt them.

As someone who has experienced dealing with Nav and who was also targeted by egregious lies and deemed a "token" (relating to my ethnicity as Métis), I can confirm.

Love and solidarity to @lohse.bsky.social. I vouch that this statement only covers a small fraction of the horrible abuse and harassment deployed against her over months, harassment that has only escalated. I’ve witnessed her and others Nav has targeted go through it and it’s been horrific 🖤🖤

who went into hiding, versus who sends emails bragging about contacting all the universities in at least four cities to discredit their survivor and cut their targets off from resources? and how DO these two messages engage in blame? left: lohse right: navreen

second thing i want to talk about: one thing in the document that is kind of passed over quickly by necessity is the abusive email nav sent to the survivor gloating about how no one will ever believe her because they (nav) contacted "real expert" nicole bedera, a researcher, and got her to say >

the comment lohse left that bedera claims to be able to “just tell by vibes” is proof of being a “perpetrator” is not only expressing a completely standard anarchist position (so is bedera suggestion no anarchists are survivors?) but is also AGREEING with her. i cannot fathom what she was thinking.

Please read @butchanarchy.bsky.social 's piece on abuse/intimate authoritarianism and support @lohse.bsky.social who's going through it right now... Stay vigilant about DARVO and support victims ❤️ butchanarchy.medium.com/intimate-aut...

Watching the abuse, stalking, and harassment go on for MONTHS has been awful, Navreen has been making the lives of multiple people, first and foremost Lohse, hell. It's absolutely horrific.

one thing i’ve been genuinely shocked by in the past months is how blatantly nav will lie about shit even in the presence of concrete evidence. or how they’ll post some outrageous lie and add a “receipt” literally showing the opposite of what they’re saying. it’s a power move. like an assertion of >

and that’s how much work it takes to deconstruct just ONE of nav’s gaslighting distortions. i'm not exaggerating when i say that *every single individual sentence in that passage* is context-collapsing and misrepresenting a totally different incident that requires this same amount of work to >

please read the thread and attached document. it’s short and mostly images. some of you already know this because navreen tagged you in their harassment and stalking efforts, but nav is the reason i deactivated my account and have been gone the last several weeks. drive.proton.me/urls/PA2ZND5...

I never wanted to do this. Navreen Satsangi** is my ex-partner. They are an abuser, a stalker, a liar, and a danger to survivors and movements for liberation. There is more info about their behavior in the linked doc and I will give a few details below. Doc: drive.proton.me/urls/PA2ZND5...

I miss The Soup and The Joel With McHale Joel Show Mchale

the wise man bowed his head solemnly and spoke: In this event, I detected the same vile, dehumanizing nature — that one that was being called out in ICE agents — in its own convention. This was the pot calling the kettle black. Where does it end?

BBC report at a headline level that Grok will now not make sexually exploitative images any more. An actual reporter comes on and explains that it will do no such thing, and will just make the images invisible in the UK. These are two very, very different things.

You know who never gets called "a biological male"? Biological males.

Just a reminder that although it's likely that under 16s will be banned from social media, no-one can stop you gifting people Crass CDs.

Emotional: "I'm not mad at you, dude" Not emotional: "You fucking bitch" *shoots someone dead*

A Department of Homeland Security whistleblower has released the identities of about 4,500 ICE and Border Patrol employees Tuesday in what has been called potentially the largest agency data breach for the department.

Hey folks, just got hit with a $230 dental bill that I didn’t know I owed, had to pay it to get out of the office and now I am broke broke broke halfway through the month 😞 Passing around my tip jars to see if any folks can help take some of the pressure off. 🙏💚

This is Labour

Apparently, they're highest and most prominent on the far right; however, they are also rising against specific sectors on the left. I'll repeat this: Jews are not responsible for what is happening in Palestine; it is the zionist settlers and the government who are responsible.

She sounds powerful

Very chill and good that we've allowed this campist brainrot to spread and become the default politics of baby leftists online.

I've been drawing portraits with a more saturated line lately and I'm liking the results. #art #portraitart #drawing

Male to New Yorker / Male to Marisa Tomei

"A message from Lord Young of Acton". Someone who thinks going by that name makes him sound important and serious, and not incredibly fucking silly and ridiculous. Sounds like a character in a mid-tier children's book. Fuckin' Britain, maaaaan.

according to their own website, the *FREE SPEECH* Union got an injunction against BASH BACK to try and stop this data from spreading and being talked about. so please make sure NOT to download this because the FREE SPEECH Union really doesn't want you to talk badly about them.

The movie 'Fight Club' was released on November 12th 1999, and on September 7th 2000 Limp Bizkit performed the song 'Livin' It Up' on TV for the first time. In it, Fred Durst raps "I seen the Fight Club about 28 times" and I think that's very funny. Men, lol.

Always forget how much I love this song. It's not just about them being trans, but it's definitely about them being trans! Everything about it is perfect. Fucking love Kae Tempest. www.youtube.com/watch?v=L5Vw...

If you believe either part of this, please speak up and let me know so I can block you ASAP.

Good reminder that claiming to be an anarchist doesn't mean you are one. Look at this fucking shit. "The Iranian government isn't oppressive". Lmao. Read or listen or talk to some fucking Iranians or better yet, some Iranian anarchists, you clotted rube. bsky.app/profile/fire...

"No fucking AI assets" - a reminder that many good publishers that will disqualify any prototype with genAI placeholders, and that using it is at your own peril. Hooded Horse happens to be one of the best publishers out there at the moment, so this is a big one. kotaku.com/hooded-horse...

Famous child sex abuser is opposed to taking action against the CSA material generator. The Epstein-class strikes again.

Fuck it. We're starting powerlifting again.

Another image that sums up the protest.

Funny, if you kill them you're a domestic terrorist, but if they kill you you're still a domestic terrorist 🤔

Iranian’s have set the first gov building on fire in Tehran

I actually fucking hate “it’s very easy to shave everyday, don’t change your name and pronouns if you have a BEARD” to be a needlessly cruel and asinine talking point.

important message to all bluesky users