My wife was cleared to drive again at the appointment early this morning though as she's still on restrictions and lifting and bending it means that a lot of things she used to do solo, like the grocery shopping, require my assistance.

My girlfriend sent this image to me...

Figuring it out how your genitals and orgasms work after vaginoplasty is not helped by the narrative that everything automatically just works perfectly after surgery, nothing changes, and that talking about that not being the case for you constitutes being in league with TERFs and anti-LGBT groups.

Getting your nipples pierced is such a good way to discover just how many objects you bump them into throughout your days. In my case this discovery endeavor is augmented by my most generous assets and that I eschew bras.

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Black and brown trans people exist as well and have had history going back for millenia. If you think someone being trans is a white thing... congrats on drinking the colonizer/transphobic kool aid as well. That is all.

It's such a common behavior, too, and so caustic - share happy or exciting news and you'll have people dumping their shit on you. Worse, it's such a common behavior that a lot view it as normal because of how much it was done to them. It takes a lot to deprogram that.

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Getting your nipples pierced is such a good way to discover just how many objects you bump them into throughout your days. In my case this discovery endeavor is augmented by my most generous assets and that I eschew bras.

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bella has been a victim of revenge porn over the last few days which is extremely fucked up and I hope you’ll join me in chipping in some $ to help pay for therapy and other support 🖖🏽

Also the chauvinism/retreat to campist positions . I’m seeing from non medically transitioning trans people. Is grim. You won’t be saved by sacrificing us. The same way we won’t be saved if we sacrifice trans youth. It’s all of us. Or none of us.

This is terrifying www.advocate.com/news/crime/b...

In retrospect, a white shirt was not a good choice for the first day after getting my nipples pierced. Neither was hauling up a car load of cardboard and unloading at the county drop-off site, but at least I finally have no cardboard awaiting recycling in the house.

I was afraid to do this because so many people spent over 10 years insisting to me that I would regret any body modifications because I regretted getting a pussy installed.

All of this! I was endlessly told "you need to trust your doctors and therapists!" when I asked about being prescribed 1mg/day with no T blocker and all that got me was years of no progress.

I cannot stress enough how important DIY HRT is, gender services are not set up to help you and they will not help you. You will never be the CoRrEcT kInD oF tRaNnY for them and even if you are they will steal years of your life in return for subpar care delivered poorly.

Noticed the outline through my shirt this morning and love it so much!

What I had done.

Today I did a thing that I had wanted to do for years.

Simultaneously, I recognize that I needed the hope that it was possible to get back to that place to be able to get through the work of being diagnosed with PTSD and healing.

Christianity made a terrible mistake including John of Patmos' Revelations in the Bible. Also anything touched by Paul.

I realized this morning that I've spent a decade on a fool's errand. A goal was to find the happiness with having had vaginoplasty that I felt in the initial days after surgery. That's impossible because that joy is irrevocably corrupted by the domestic violence that occurred in response to it.

Trans people fucking rule and you can get fucked if you disagree.

This attitude has been around for far to long. I've been told that it's "in your face activism" to have a license plate and stickers on my Harley that indicate that I'm queer, lesbian and trans

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I lived in Durham or Raleigh from 08 to 18 and not only had a front row seat to all of it but had some involvement in the activism. It was frustrating how much people refused to believe how bad it was.

It's not just Germany. Imposed identification as a member of an identity group classed as both lesser and a security threat is a strong predictor of genocide internationally. See Rwanda. There are not many knowns in the social sciences, but we KNOW this one. Please, Americans, make it stop.

Just a couple of goofballs.

Because many (most) trans people in Kansas aren't going to move, please also look for ways to support those staying and fighting the current regime there. Sadly when a draconian anti-trans measure hits in a "red state," wider support pushes tend to forget those who aren't leaving.

Im gonna be real I think the people in the Kansas state legislature and executive branch that chose to do this should not be allowed to exist any longer This is literally an attempt to eradicate trans people They should be treated the way they repeatedly chose to treat us

"Just move." I am in a GOOD position to move just locally and it still cost me nearly $5000, scans of a valid ID, tons of financial paperwork, etc. It is not that easy, especially if you are a member of a marginalized group the state wants dead.

anti-trans bigots do not only focus on trans women. Stop saying that they do.

I honestly wish that I had done electrolysis instead of laser because of the utter lack of pain from the former

Red majorities in the legislature has them slamming the gas pedal. By no means do I mean to downplay how disgustingly cruel these actions are but the speed of their lawmaking speaks a lot to their present desperation. I don't think they fully understand what the fuck is coming for them after this.

Cis people will keep insisting "It's a distraction! It's a distraction! They want you to pay attention to trans culture war nonsense while they sieze power, make themselves wealthy, and install a fascist dictatorship." Sis, genocide isn't a distraction from fascism that, it's an integral part.

Being too exhausted to do my estradiol shot with my girlfriend and wifey

This is always fascinating to me because my experience was the opposite. Laser was the worst pain I have ever experienced. I put off electro for years because of the endless claims that it was so much worse and then when I finally had it I found that I literally couldn't feel it at all.

*does the math* For what my copays are on my CPAP and ongoing supplies with insurance within a year I will have paid as much as it would have cost to just buy it all outright at retail pricing.

Things that sound dirty but aren't: I'm ready for a key exchange with my girlfriend.

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I love being a butch trans dyke on a bike!

The arc of history is long, but it bends towards…wait…what the hell?! It’s not supposed to bend that way! Did one of you kids put a magnet next to the goddamn arc of history I swear to god you kids this is why we can’t have nice things goddamnit

Hey. Tell people when they do good job. When you like the stuff they make. When you like the characters they’ve created. The stories they’ve told. Nobody hears it as often as you think bc everyone thinks everyone hears it all the time. Trust. They don’t. Tell. Them.

Two designs for similar purposes but so different. The rectangular fob is for a 2020 Kia Soul and getting the battery in and out is difficult because the gasket is in the way. The circular fob is for a 2011 Harley-Davidson FLHTCU and the battery easily lifts out. Separating the case falls similarly.

Just a reminder while this is a victory, it's not over yet until Discord completely gives up on the age verification nonsense. Don't resubcribe to Nitro immediately.

I'm struggling with not being smothering to my wifey as she recovers from surgery. I know that it comes from the way my first wife abandoned me at the point when I most needed her during my recovery from bottom surgery.

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