little bit later in the day than i planned, but happy fat slut friday 💜✨ as always, my links are in my bio if you like what i’m doing 🫶🖤.

I'm struggling with an emotional conflict: a desire to be sexually active with my partners colliding with my hurt from my bottom surgery experience and the SA by my ex afterwards. I trust my partners and rationally know that I have no reason to fear, but emotions don't obey that.

I don't have experience with homelessness but I have seen how much people underestimate how bad it is. When I was struggling in the last days of my marriage to avoid being forced into homelessness as my ex wanted to happen I ran into many people who insisted " being homeless can't be that bad."

I’ve dealt with so many people with no experience, but bad advice on how to get out of homelessness. The worst part is they seem to assume the issue isn’t due to a faulty safety net, but due to somebody not utilizing the system enough. When confronted with reality, may will blame you for not trying

Let me be clear: A child CANNOT consent to an adult A child CANNOT seduce an adult A child CANNOT entice an adult A child CANNOT tempt an adult Adults hold 100% of the responsibility. Always. There are no excuses, no exceptions, and no gray areas. Blaming a child is just another form of abuse.

Hi is anyone able to help me out with $12 I spent on food +$5 I gave to a homeless man who needed help to afford a pizza I would appreciate it a lot :3 thank you if so :3 CashApp $cactusgr

I worked in UNC's central IT division during most of the years he was chancellor. It just makes me understand ever more the source of the endless bullshit my colleagues and I had to fight through to succeed.

RESCHEDULED DUE TO SMOKE 💨💨 Beach Ride Saturday 8/1! Meet at 9:00 AM at Sheetz in Sandston, Virginia. KSU 9:30

The gutter press and social media dogs are hounding my friend. Please give if you can. This is vital for Heather, but also so important for liberty and free speech.

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Never 4get I once got this numb skull to block me after telling him he was violating federal labor law. Back on twitter. When he said he’d fire anyone who discussed forming a union at barstool.

When your alarm goes off and you hit snooze and you roll over and put your arm around her and your face is at the nape of her neck and you inhale and it just feels...FUCK I'M GAY!!!

A statement from WIRED leadership.

Rowling: i want to ssee amnessty destroyed Rowling: i want to ssee all the human rightss people humiliated, groveling in the mud Rowling: begging for my forgivenesss Rowling: right before the boot comess down on their throat Rowling: i am a beloved national treassssure and i demand my due!

Dirty little secret of power is that it's a very brittle thing. It relies on people self-policing, because no state has the power to police everyone at all times.

Share this with anyone who doubts the effect of anti-trans laws. Then imagine a kid whose parents are specifically unsupportive and school officials who are the same. These laws are murderous.

QMC ride and social this Thursday. Ride: Meetup at Oregon Hill Overlook at 6, 6:30 KSU Social: Babe's of Carytown, 7 PM

Good morning!

This thread right here, on third spaces When I was a teen, you could go to the mall, get a drink, and just hang out. (Hell, the movie Mallrats contains this premise!) Removing third spaces accessible to teens at a range of times is why teen takeovers are becoming a thing -- it's their only option

Really delighted to say that our article critiquing the Cass Review from Archaeological, Historical, Mythological, and Heresiological perspectives has been published in the Bulletin of Applied Transgender Studies. You can freely read it below 👇 bulletin.appliedtransstudies.org/article/5/1-...

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Democratic politicians have spent more breath lamenting the death of an unrepentant fascist asshole than the hundreds of thousands of innocent people killed, maimed and brutalized both at home and abroad over the past 18 months.

You can and should point out that police killing people daily is the "norm" in America. But that doesn't mean you *accept* the normalization of this violence and the way some people rush to smugly point these things out contributes to collective fatigue. Your horror has been stolen from you.

Of all the bad takes the exist in the world, "women never commit medical misogyny" is one of the most astounding. Those of us who've been violated and had our lives destroyed by female medics now also have to worry about being openly laughed at by alleged feminists who think women can't do that

always worth remembering

Good morning!

"Warn me before you do that! Your rear speakers now know me biblically, almost as much as my battery operated boyfriend!" - my roommate immediately after I turned up the volume on my motorcycle's stereo.

These 2 assholes decided it was a good idea to assault my partner and subject us both to transphobia. It happened in Castle Meadow, Norwich at around 16:55 and the next 15 minutes after they came back twice to subject us to transphobia and tell us to die in a river. . Make them famous.

To be a historian is to speak ill of the dead and the rest of you should take more history classes and join us.

live now playing The Elder Scrolls 4: Oblivion Remastered at twitch.tv/moonhowler98 I’m still trying to raise money to support myself as a trans femme person so if you enjoy my content you can donate here gofund.me/a70ed042a or to www.paypal.me/MoonHowler98

HI, I’m still looking for people to be part of my film Our Voice, which explores the lives of transgender people across the United Kingdom. For many years, conversations about trans people are excluded from the conversation. Our Voice aims to change that.

I described it as "like chucking a hand grenade into your personal life." It was so much worth it but, damn, is it ever impossible to survive unaltered.

Due to my first two endocrinologists I realized that this is an intentional tactic. That I didn't remember the correct date of my vasectomy when they asked in the appointment, which they would only know because they read my file and didn't need to ask, was made into a reason to delay HRT.

My partners sometimes express that they feel that they are difficult to love. Every time I wish there was a way for them to see themselves the way I see them. Loving them is so very far from difficult: loving them is the easiest thing in the world to me. Loving them is like breathing!

EMERGENCY!! Rebeka has cancer and does not have food. Please send them what you can so that they can eat and take their medication? This is not a big ask. Can we help them RIGHT NOW?

🦇 I downloaded this Amnesty UK report. Just putting that out there in case anyone needs a copy

This is the Webarchive link to the (apparently) censored-by-transphobes report by Amnesty UK. I would suggest downloading it now before they go after that as well. web.archive.org/web/20260709...

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My top surgery is imminent, on 17 September! But because of insurance and credit fuckery, I can't do it without your help. Consider helping a gal out via the link below. Thank you so much for helping me reclaim my mountains ⛰️⛰️

So much of what I still struggle with is playing catch-up on what I needed to have processed before even scheduling surgery, specifically the realities of vaginoplasty's effect on one's body. I went into surgery not understanding "I will have a vagina" in any depth beyond saying those words.

Four years ago today was the last of multiple vaginoplasty revision surgery consultations. The result was being told that they would not agree to surgery for me. It was the end of a ten year journey that consisted only of dead ends at every turn. Sex and orgasm were permanently over for me.

hey people, my spouse and I are struggling for money quite a bit rn, I haven’t written about this a lot because there’s an ongoing legal battle, but my employer fired me in april and until further notice I’m only on unemployment benefits which are like 60% of my usual salary.

Looking back on my I see that a critical step forward was when I could say that vaginoplasty had been a mutilation of my body which produced a body horror experience without immediately facing anger about that statement. It was the reality and acknowledging that fact was a critical step in healing.

"You run Arch Linux and you get laid? Impressed! Usually those two are mutually exclusive."

Far too often I deal with other trans people deciding that they're going to singlehandedly find a fix for my botched vagina. It always proceeds the same: they tell me that I need to go to pelvic physical therapy and go for a revision then get angry at me when I say that I've already done each thing.

My view is quite simple. If someone works in healthcare and is a transphobe, he is up to no good and will kill you when you are most vulnerable, even if you are cis.

Because of a discussion I found an ancient video from when I rode an Oilhead and was on Tail of the Dragon in the rain one week before I had vaginoplasty. Filming was with a then current Android phone, probably a Moto Droid Razr Maxx, in a waterproof holder. youtu.be/44xCfNuZTaQ