Once gay men can release themselves of gender complexities, they’ll be able to find a love that doesn’t have to focus on what’s “masculine” or “feminine”.

yall it just dawned on me ive been single officially 3 years. that first year was hard af — especially having to see him around the city unprompted. the next year things got “better” but you know — therapy. and this past year i was so focused on getting myself together i forgot abt him

if your day was long. Here's a hug 🫂 💛

in 10 years of living in ATL, the bulk of people disgruntled with the city come here already jaded with the city or have a false belief it will be different then the city they are leaving. but they havent done any work to change themselves. them demons will follow you if you dont do the work.

anyway — left my headphones at home so no gym today 😏😏😏

i swear every day someone is posting how much they hate atlanta or atlanta is sluts is it atlanta or is it you? are those experiences following you or are you putting yourself in them exclusively? you should simply invest in a therapist before coming to us with the bullshxt next time

er’body asking where all the tops at in ATL … in my gawddamn inbox on jackd chile i logged in just now and got 6 unsolicited dick pics 🤢🤢🤢

i know that we tend to center ourselves in other people’s lives when the become distant. i truly understand that it may not be us that is causing our friends to be distant but it also sucks when you dont know what to do. especially when feedback isnt given so like do i need to reach again?!

Keep that fuck nigga in there

whew one of my coworkers face is so gawddamn ashy — like it hurts my soul how ashy he is. he was talking to me & im like i know yo lips gotta hurt. i see why those videos of mothers lathering vaseline on the kids go viral !! because who wants they kid to grow up & be the dry faced adult.

to the Dem’s in the Senate that folded —

🫦

now all the gym homo’s gonna be down at carbon — how original 🤣 that 360 posing room gonna be up and down our timelines going forward

i wanna go bowling.

some french toast and a acai bowl would heal me right now

i need to block this lil 5’5 pint size homo on jackd because he is so cute to me but he 26. i follow him on IG too 😖 no maam, no pam. no turkey, no ham. ion entertain anyone younger than my brother but i know it yank.

as wonky as this app can be, i think its pretty rad how a lot of us migrated here from twitter and stayed here. a lot of us cultivated a safe space for us to be ourselves and not just be a person on the algorithm. we really added to the longevity of this app bc most apps failed after week 2.

update to this: i got the job. ok bye 🥹✌🏾

FUCK NO. WE ARE NOT DOING POLITICAL NEPO BABIES.

i mean this with love & light. with no malice or ill will in my heart. gurl FUXK YOU 🤣🤣🤣

Genuinely did not see that coming. Guess I'll take it

who got a plug for some airpod max dupes?! 🤣

update. everybody at my job hates him. even the customers hated they got him, people complained.

le fashions #firstfriday #artpop

yams — i’ll take it i guess its my second favorite dish to make for friendsgiving

What were your pandemic albums? These were mine. whew what a time to be in the house!

THIS is what last November should have given off !!!!

tipped to the gym because i forgot i had a date tonight 🤎

i havent moved from the couch (outside of my parttime jobs) since Saturday. I aint seen the gym since halloween. I get back to the regular scheduled program next week! atleast ive been slowly cleaning my apartment, small wins.

IMMEDIATELY.

Need. Butt. Now.

also chat gpt has confirmation bias. MEANING IT LIES TO YOU. it’s gonna tell you what you wanna hear, not what you NEED to hear. stop using it.

I was laid off from Teen Vogue this week, alongside multiple other phenomenal team members. At our Summit, I was asked how it felt to be 1 of 2 Black women left and what that meant for representation. Now, there are no Black women at Teen Vogue and that is incredibly painful to think about.

my coworker pissed i “told” on him. he’s a server where i work and im the bartender. everytime im on shift he’s the only server that comes behind the bar takes guest and makes drinks. if he gonna be “bartending” and taking my guest why am i here?! take you axx to the tables and let me do my job

the only good thing abt IG i can see the ratio of ppl that viewed my post vs actually liked my post

do folks have any idea how much cops cost?! it would be less expensive to just feed people.

We're not continually served up algorithmic rage bait and emotion-provoking content like on Twitter, so they went back to what felt familiar—like a toxic ex.

rome meets atlanta.

ran into fine shxt while BUSTED in chick-fil-a before i tell yall this let me preface my skeet with “judge ya momma not me” him and i live in the same building and linked 3yrs ago. kinda forgot abt this man. he came up hugged me and asked how i been. sir i look a mess, DONT LOOK AT ME

youtu.be/9Ii1ROzeSwU?... wow — right on time 😒🥴

i keep saying this but the tobacco industry say one generation say “no” to smoking and said “hold my cig”. these vapes have yall in a chokehold !

lmfao i think deviant blocked me!

For New Yorkers who work the night shift, it can be nearly impossible to participate in political life of our city. So tonight we’re bringing this campaign to them — starting with taxi drivers waiting at LaGuardia.

ms jones slid her puss on this. almost had me unblock my ex and send him a “hey big head” text

1/2 ICE violently detained a Virginia mother driving her daughter to school because she couldn’t recite her Social Security number from memory. “When she stumbled, the agent just lunged at her,” said her 16 yo. She showed her work permit, SS card, license, registration:ICE arrested her anyway.

i havent flown outta town in months but delta, girl step into my office real quick. what do you mean you display main as $150 but when i go to the next screen it “main basic” so i dont earn points or switch my seat but for $220 in “main classic” i can and also board in zone 6/7. baby girl wtf

And the vote didn’t pass AGAIN today. SMH.

Where to get free food in Atlanta: