why bother asking men why they uphold something meant to benefit them? it's the same reason white people are racist and cishets are lgbtqphobic. like...why are the people OPPRESSED by it WILFULLY upholding it? im not talking about people who haven't learned. i mean the ones to learned and dgaf.

i am tired of people acting like only men uphold patriarchy and misogyny. women was on THIS APP defending patriarchy a few months ago 🙄 you are delusional if you think you can abolish the oppression of women/lgbtq people but somehow keep PATRIARCHY, the NAME of the system of said oppression, intact

now at $403/$952 raised, thank you!! 🛼🛼 please help keep this momentum going, i still have $549 to raise today. can 28 people match $20? 💕💸 ca: $adrianmica v: lex-thee-lovely pp: [email protected]

hello, im back to ask for more help! 💸💕 i found a place that’s $952 with taxes and fees for a week so i need to raise funds to book it before it’s gone. please share, thank you! 🌺 ca: $adrianmica v: lex-thee-lovely pp: [email protected] bit.ly/40KRJ83

TW: gender dysphoria mention I feel like my son has given up on his future and it breaks my heart bc idk what the future holds for him as the young Black trans man he will soon be. He still doesn’t have access to gender affirming care and that really causes him to have extreme gender dysphoria

I just published issue 6 of my Lost & Found Black Child digital zine series & it's my Black Southern Gothic issue that I've been working on for a few months now. I put off on working on it for awhile but wanted to publish it this month since it's Black History Month #BHM ko-fi.com/s/8aef613303

TW: RAPE I created a zine to creatively process my experience with rape. In the zine I discuss rape culture, victimhood, & the ways society expects survivors to perform resilience w/out real support. This is the 5th issue of my 'Lost & Found Black Child' zine series. ko-fi.com/s/893a877eb9

If you want to know more about me & support a black queer single mom please consider checking out my Ko-Fi shop featuring my digital zine series called Lost & Found Black Child ko-fi.com/lostfoundbla... Here's the cover of the 1st issue & one of the pages in the zine.

$275/730 All I need now is $455 by Thursday morning for the divorce to be filed by my attorney! If 23 people send $20 by tomorrow evening I should have all that’s left. I already sent my attorney the $275 towards my balance. #divorcecrowdfund #divorcemutualaid #dvmutualaid #mutualaid #crowdfund

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You don’t have to know what to do. Listen to your loved ones and get a sense of what they want and need in those moments. It’s okay to feel scared and not want to hear someone you care about say things that scare you. Decentering yourself in that moment will help, but don’t go beyond your scope.

It’s asking open ended questions: “What can I do to help you through this moment?” It’s being honest: “I am not sure I’m able to help you in ways that will be beneficial. Can we talk to someone together who can help? Who can we trust?” It’s being present: “I don’t have answers, but I am here.”

It’s wild being online and seeing the thoughts of people throughout the years. You see exactly how and why we’re here. You see rape culture, the anti-intellectualism, capitalism, the indoctrination, celebrity worship, homophobia/transphobia and so on. Every single day.

See also: Barack Obama

What do you think should happen to ultra-rich Black folks, who allow filthy rich white folks and the government, to use them to keep the Black community from rioting and truly liberating themselves?

"You need therapy" sounds a lot like "You need Jesus" to me the way ppl use it. Because y'all really don't give about mentally ill ppl fr. Just wanna be morally superior.

"need to submit to" WOW NOW do y'all see why you can't be telling people "just go get therapy"? THESE ARE THE THERAPISTS

if you have relatively easy to manage mental health issues, or get GOOD therapy/psych help, stfu telling everybody else they "need to get therapy." especially poor, black people. be fucking serious and grow tfu.

the "health care" system in the united states is set up to make sure certain people don't even SEEK help. this is another of my 1000 reasons i roll my eyes at people who always got jokes and comments about how people "need to go get therapy." y'all are NOT serious at all.

just gunna say it aloud, before it inevitably happens : Non-Black people ... do NOT paint yourself for "accuracy" to cosplay my girl Queenie. use your own skin. cuz I swear to GAWD, i cant go thru another "Garnet is an alien so this isnt Blackface" fiasco. #tadc #TheAmazingDigitalCircus

My son will text me anything while he's school. Just today he's sent the following texts: "Saw a ngga wearing a cozy blanket and a sheisty" "These morning announcements are overly going. Like holy yap" "Wtf is Solo Leveling Ragnarok?? Why he is still leveling???" 😂

There's so much talk about emotional intelligence but I never see folks discuss emotional attunement. As a emotionally sensitive person both are equally important for me.

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The animated Maui has wet and wavy type hair. They didn’t even try 😭

It be so funny seeing yall talk about romance on here and knowing personally you not doing that shit in real life ❤️

“Send her some money for…” nigga stfu, you the WYD man

Aesop: I TOLD YOU

Good.

White supremacy has to be so tightly and rigidly controlled and maintained that we can't even have ONE movie. We obviously have more, but this one is tough for them because they can't ignore it. That's what this crash out is.

Thanks to friends like @sapphberry.bsky.social & kind strangers, I raised over $700 for Trans Legal Aid Clinic of TX. Thank you all so much!! If you wish to donate, its not too late! Fundraiser is still active! Yesterday, I ran for my trans loved ones. For their right to exist & be themselves. <3

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Good morning, everyone! My friends are raising money for the Trot for Trans Visibility race happening this morning! Although they’ve already reached their individual goal, the event needs around 3k to meet their combined goal! Please pledge if you can! ⬇️ Link Below ⬇️

One thing about me when it comes to horror I LOVE the aesthetic of creepy dolls. LOVE.

If you are a highly sensitive Black woman that isn’t afraid to be emotionally expressive, I encourage you to watch this video. I really enjoy this creator and she always makes me feel validated in how I feel about existing in the world as a highly sensitive Black woman 💕✨

That one time I painted a painting to accompany me while performing a poem I wrote on stage for the 1st time about a getting my heart broke. I even wore a pink dress and got my nails done to match. One thing about me if Ima go through shit Ima make art out of and make it beautiful & poetic. Lol.

Please help Jho escape their abusive family. They’ve been asking for a very long time and ppl are so used to black folks suffering for a very long time that it becomes background noise. PLS DO NOT LET THEIR PLEA FOR HELP BECOME BACKGROUND NOISE 💕✨ #protectjho

We post people are who are struggling with overdue bills/rent/evictions/groceries in the Black Community. It’s cleared the goals of 250+ people so far. We’re trying to get faster to help more people per day, so please follow us, and repost when you can, it would help extremely.

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