I can't take your critique of patriarchy too seriously if you follow a ton of cishet men. I don't think it makes sense esp given it's the bare minimum.

so is FOOD. but if we criticized half our food being poisoned, people would know we weren't saying STARVE but to be careful with the things you ingest. when it comes to sex, ppl don't seem to realize that it isn't entirely a necessity? and that it can be weaponized in terrible ways.

not the other way around. her parents controlled entire publishing houses that shaped and controlled entire countries' narratives for decades. we're talking about power, who wields it, who controls it, what it's used for. and sex is often used in this way. to control women and children.

it's not about nudity. it's about patterns of predation. rape is not about sex. it's about control. it's not nudity and sex feminists have an issue with. we have issues with the tools of patriarchy being disguised as pleasure. and women going along with it. ghislaine maxwell ran epstein.

one reason i consistently end up isolated is bc i do not make excuses for men. my spidey sense goes up, i block & refuse to engage. most women don't do that and they ostracize women who behave the way i do; bc they want MEN. after what i saw in the epstein files, i'm gonna get more strict & honest

but all forms of predation i've seen where vulnerable girls/women are charmed into coercion begin that way. majority of their interactions are with women. majority of the ppl they regularly conversate with are women. most convos abt sex or going thru some situation where they're a victim. i know men

the next day he posted something about "i'm looking for a woman to make my size queen." and in the comment someone compared him to a horse. the next day multiple posts abt being fertile. i blocked him then. a CHM doing that back to back is not proof of predation.

i was talking abt trying to pay my rent when i refreshed the TL and at the start of the page was his full frontal nude, with dick facing out. i was really thrown off, i don't follow straight men like that, i don't normally see that. i ignored it but decided to wait and see if my senses were wrong.

im gonna actually talk openly abt this; i recently blocked a CH mutual who is a man. i actually stopped using this site bc every time i opened it, someone was talking abt sex, it felt gross. when i logged back on here last week, my TL was flooded with ppl talking abt sex for hours on end for days.

QTNA

That's so disgusting

I always feel like context is important. He said that shit after comforting a woman who told a story about her dv.

As cis Black men, what are some of the ways you assimilate aesthetically that reflect your self-hatred?

I want all women to be safe.. I am scared for my trans sisters especially Black trans women!!!!

Being stuck with having periods most of our lives is some bullshit and I'll never get used to it or be okay with it.

And they never factor in the men in the women's and little girls lives how much of that line of thinking comes from men

Yet, somehow, to prove yourselves means to make us your victims oftentimes. So who gets the shorter end of the stick? It isn't y'all.

Good lord this app is trash

Men are some vain motherfuckas, slim.

I'm just not a fan of men for many reasons. But one thing I learned from being disabled for 23 years, men are very superficial.

I hate that people can be insecure about having a "flat" backside bc it's literally just a body part. What even is the significance of having a big butt? Seriously.

Nobody has to imagine. They get blocked multiple times a day. This was last week. www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news...

Please help Kimalah out, y'all! Even small donations add up!

I really feel like the people who actually have the ability to do something to stop this read these kind of articles and just go “well I’ll be dead by 2100 so who cares”. And they know well enough that their own kids will inherit all their wealth & property so will more than likely be fine.

This is what Jhordin has been trying to escape for over a YEAR! If we collectively decide that we're going to help take care of this young Black artist and lift them out of this hell they've been living in, we could get them to safety sooner than later. #ProtectJho

Please contribute if you're able or share the original if you're not. Note that the most effective way to get help for people is to directly ask people you know

I love finding out about old boogie/electro records I haven’t heard yet

NO ONE DESERVES TO LIVE LIKE THIS!!!!!!!!!! #ProtectJho

Going on 2 months worth of overdue bills but the RN URGENT is $2715 storage bills b/c all their stuff will be auctioned if not paid in full by May 13. Black. Trans. Enby. Disabled. In SSDI appeals. No income until won. Any combo ppl x $ = $2715. Pls RS/QS. Pls do what you can. #HelpFolksLive2026

Making another mutual aid update after 9 days! I’m still in need of a total of $4,711 to cover this month’s expenses. None of my bills have been paid yet, nor am I close. Thank you for everyone for giving eyes & circulation on my recent post, but the virtual traffic has yet to translate into funds.

Please continue to support however you can in order for me to get through this month’s financial goals. Thank you! 😊

$0/$4,711!

Either "That's What I Like" by Joe or "Ooh Ahh" by Avant would be the least likely to annoy me until I tune them out lol.

Let's pls get more eyes on this ask!

[EMERGENCY] 🆘 I haven’t been able to keep up with my storage fees. ALL OF MY BELONGINGS WILL BE SOLD AT AUCTION UNLESS I PAY THE FULL PAST DUE BALANCE OF $2,715 BY MAY 13. Donate: linktr.ee/jskylerinc #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdFund #BeAPatron #BIPOCMA #HelpSky #BlackSky #LGBT 💸💕🏳️‍⚧️

GFM is still holding my money. I still haven’t been paid for a March speaking engagement. Raising $500 by 4/30. Going back to the doctor this week; it seems that the meds I’m on aren’t working. I need a fucking break from illness.

see you a funk lover like me!!! cause YES

The way I don't expect a single one of my peers to know what I'm talking about if I randomly sing out "you got to work! that! neck!" Like damn I really am an old young huh 💀

One of the best bands idc sry not sry

Since this is Doing the Numbers, let me link a few folks who could do with some help, if you got a few to spare. bsky.app/profile/unho...

A great number of the harms in this country would not have happened if this society protected Black & Indigenous folks the way it does white people. It covers environmentalism, education, healthcare, financial scams, workers rights, surveillance, police violence, wage theft, everything.

Lookin for the good stuff! Why dontcha tighten up on yo backstroke!

why is this labeled as explicit?? @safety.bsky.app @support.bsky.team

this got labeled as adult content.