I need to start meal prepping 😭

I look “let’s grab coffee” date fine for work today 😊

I’m just not in the mood to break my heart this year.

I hate when I’m not certain if someone is trying to send me a hint.

Grateful 🥹

I do not ask for things that I can acquire myself or do myself. I do not ask for things I do not need. I rather never ask anybody for anything, ever at all, and that also applies to God. Hyper Independence is not a flaw if you were raised by the capable and unwilling.

Being in a healthy relationship truly taught me there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. When you genuinely love someone, you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings – you adjust, grow, and heal together.

I’ve been saying there are certain places I’m not going in 2025 and “there with you” is one of them.

I’m at the stage of my month where I want to cry at the slightest inconvenience.

When I’m world leader women will get the option to take time off for their periods and a free care package 😪

Whenever I get an overwhelming feeling of gratitude I share it because despite everything I am grateful, because in spite of everything I am grateful, because in the midst of if all. I am grateful.

You don’t need to know someone’s story to be kind. The human experience reminds us daily that we’re all navigating something. The something may vary but the weight of navigation is familiar. It weighs heavy. I’m holding y’all up in the light of grace. ❤️

Things I’d like for my birthday: MacBook Pro, Apple Watch, New AirPods, Spa Day…

I have a hard time getting the fuck on somewhere. I overstay all sorts of shit - jobs, friendships, relationships, cars, parties - even when I want to leave. Analysis paralysis is a raggedy ass bitch.

I been wrong a lot and I been right at times. I tried shutting up a lot more and trying to be more patient with the world and myself. I tried to hold the world in less contempt and myself in less of a cage. I'm trying to be more at peace with my humanity in the midst of inhumanity. I'm trying to be

I’m not a soft girl and I think for a few minutes I thought I was but I’m cured.

People will create the conditions for you to act like a cunt and then be surprised when you do you exactly that.

Dating men can be annoying sometimes but then I realize there are women (in fact most) out there who date men who aren’t even good at sex and I get really sad

It is already the third day of 2025.

Do any of you who are empaths feel things that are sad so profoundly that it makes you cry?

I absolutely WILL mute ANYONE to protect my peace! And it doesn’t always mean I have anything against anyone so much as it’s me exercising my right to curate my online space in a way that is conducive to that peace

Can I get a tattoo?

I’d date for cuddles, hugs and lattes 😭 When I figure out how to cuddle myself…. I’ll no longer be dating.

(I Personally Don’t Want To Hear R.Kelly’s Music)

My first day outfit already pick out. Gotta get my mother to buy my school bag.

I enjoy shopping for work like it’s the first day of school.

A lot of people don’t know how my heart fills with gratitude every New Year’s Day. Just so much gratitude because a couple years ago I didn’t think I’d make it.

My favourite part about 2024 was really just learning the parts of myself that I need to work harder on. Ready to tackle them in 2025.

Looking forward to a new year, this year was such a learning experience, grateful for the lessons.

And with that the 2024 season comes to a close… ✨

My love language is coffee and a good book 😊

We just want to control the uncontrollable, but the wind has no saddle.

If you really respect women you'd respect the strength it takes to speak up after you've had your humanity and bodily autonomy taken violently from you. You'd not try to silence them further to protect predators. #believewomen

I should go on cute solo dates in 2025. Flaunt my closet that catching dust.

If you don’t trust your partner that’s a matter for you and your partner but at least be grown enough to admit that.

It isn’t difficult to understand why a random request for a DNA test would upset a partner. The same way it’s not difficult to understand why a partner would request one.

I’m allowed to fail, to make the wrong choice, to fall apart, to put myself together, to cry, to be angry, to feel disappointed, to sleep it off, to try again, to want more, to want less. I am allowed to exist. In whatever form that may look like.

Most times when men ask for a DNA test it’s because they don’t believe the child is theirs. If a partner has always indicated that they would like one, ok. However, if you pop out the blue asking, I’ll believe you don’t trust me and you have the right to ask and I have the right to feel a way.

There will be no grey areas in 2025. Either it is what it is or it’s something else and if it’s something else I’m happy to remove myself.

I have this gut feeling… and my gut is rarely wrong.

“I could wake up tomorrow and… be a puddle.”

Isn’t it crazy how do your dreams come through 😊

“We can disagree and still love each other unless your disagreement is rooted in my oppression and denial of my humanity and right to exist” James Baldwin

This is why I did not believe that UWI should have been allowed to enter. I am disappointed but not surprised.

Whatever happened yesterday is in the past. Today is the now, a minute from now is the future. I can’t undo the past but I can make sure I focus on the joys of today.

Today is going to be a good day

Coffee isn’t enough for this day. But cocaine is a bit too much. So we have a problem.

Same!

Do you ever feel like the best Christmas present would be sleep? Uninterrupted sleep, with no distractions, no responsibilities, just your atoms floating through the vast echo of time and space?