I have moved well over twenty times across four states and eight cities since I first left home as a teenager, which was almost twenty years ago.

Spent the weekend with chronic digestive issues and possibly food poisoning. Couldn’t eat or keep food down since Friday. Plummeted almost 10 lbs I did not need to lose. Vertigo, dehydration, fatigue, and confusion too. I’m okay now but please send comfort food and layers for my cold skinny ass. 🥶

I ordered a few heirloom tomatoes with my routine grocery pickup order from Wegmans. They normally are ribbed and uniquely shaped, but this one is a sight to behol(e)d.

quote this post with your chest pics pls and thanku x

Going to MAL for the first time this year. 👀 What should I expect or check out?

Plot thickens: after telling my right wing aunt, who is very confrontational and kept following me for the first half of the night, to leave me alone, she ran around ambushing other random guests and trauma dumped how her nephew, the brother of the groom, was “so mean” to her over “just politics”.

Love it when estranged relatives confront me at family events wanting to know why I want nothing to do with them, and then they clutch their pearls or send their spouses after me when I say it’s because their morals, politics, life choices, and general views are ugly and reprehensible.

Why are you gay? Also a few culprits. Especially the last one. Dallas Green is my dreamy celebrity crush with his angelic voice and we share the same birthday. 🤩🫠

I use this GIF at work more often than I should.

In addition to the shirt the other day, my roommate also gave me this one as a holiday gift. This was written in my app profiles for a long time and I always wanted it on a T shirt. 😂

Quote this post with your four best pics of 2025

If I had to pick four alt Christmas movies… - A Garfield Christmas Special - Batman Returns - Mobile Suit Gundam Wing: Endless Waltz - Die Hard

My roommate, who has been a good friend of mine for several years long before we lived together, knows me far too well and got me this for Christmas.

2011 to 2025. Let the rain wash away your lost days.

Share a TV series you’ve watched from beginning to end more than once. So say we all 🫡 #BattlestarGalactica

This picture is two months old and I don’t know why I didn’t post it then because it turned out pretty decent.

“You’ll be visited by three spirits” The three spirits:

STOP. This is a selfie checkpoint. You must repost with a cute selfie to proceed. From werking remote at a cafe last week. 👨🏻‍💻

You know now that I think about it, having sex with random men has lead to so many great friendships

Post the last 4 games you played. Currently playing Tears of the Kingdom and replaying Resident Evil 1.

I really want one of those shirts that says “Feed Me to the Bears”. 👀🫠🐻

Steam and mirrors.

⚫️ with 🟣 to 🟢 tendencies. Like an oral top, but vice versa: I’m a bottom who is a total ass man, and I love a top who loves having their ass played with.

Throwback to November-December 2020 when I was living in NYC with pretty punk COVID hair.

Honestly, I am scared of circuit parties and seriously wish I wasn’t. I love hearing every detail about them from friends and I’ve always been lowkey curious to try going to one. But imagining standing in just underwear or naked in a crowded sex charged environment makes me so anxious I shake.

Leathaaa jacket.

Taking an app hiatus. ✌🏻😌

Queer BlueSky: how old were you when you came out and how old are you now? I was 18, I’m 36 now.

Quote you from a different era. Circa 2009, freshman year of college (and yes, I was over 18). So many lifetimes ago.

Quote this with a selfie if you’re Gay Dead (single and over 30) Honestly, I have always despised the term “gay death”. I prefer Gay Resurrected: single, over 30, been through and overcome some shit in life, but now free and fiery hot like a phoenix. 🐦‍🔥💅🏻

Bang.

Deleted the last picture because Bluesky distorted the image quality to where I looked like a holy ghost. Snapped this in Hell’s Kitchen on Monday night.

Three of my friends treated me to a lovely birthday dinner. Still don’t know what I got right to deserve these guys. ❤️

Today is my birthday. Made it over the hump and into the latter half of my thirties. It’s good to be here. Now off to NYC for the week.

Obligatory outdoor shower selfie.

- Off work until Tuesday. - Leaving for a weekend of scenic driving and gay campground shenanigans with several favorite friends and chosen family. - Will be in NYC visiting friends and working remote all next week. - My birthday is Monday. Happy Friday to me! Eagerly awaited after a shit month. 😎

When people think I’m a top

Random daddy type on Scruff: “Hey handsome, are you a finsub or into findoms?” Me: “Child. As my fiercely independent momma taught me: never rely on a man’s money. 💅🏻 Spend yours on therapy instead because those are wildly unhealthy power, control, attachment, and codependence dynamics. Not a kink.”

Monday night out with this good boy - @rineva.bsky.social #cigardad #cigardate

Had to pick up a pint to show a little support and eat some feelings about it. 🇺🇸 I’m vegetarian, but not vegan or dairy free. I just like a lot of non-dairy stuff.

See a tattoo, post a tattoo (or three)

If you see this, post the most recent photo of yourself from your camera roll. No cheating!

Honorable mentions: - “One Hot Minute” - Red Hot Chili Peppers - “Heaven or Las Vegas” - Cocteau Twins - “Queen of the Clouds” - Tove Lo - “Ghost in the Machine”’- The Police - “To the Faithful Departed” - The Cranberries - “Take Me When You Go” - Betty Who - “Little Hell” - City and Colour

Happy pride month to them