Ask Dr. NerdLove: Help, I’m Addicted To Porn!

A question for people who date or have sex with men: what are some of the non-physical qualities that are important for your partner to have? This can be general (entertaining, adventurous, compassionate) or specific (plays music, religious faith, politically active).

Meet Women Effortlessly

Y'know, it seems apropos at the moment that Clair Obscure was actually an interesting take on what it would be like for a culture if The Rapture was actually a thing and had a definite day and time...

Now live on Patreon: her partner asked how many people she'd slept with... and then he got upset at her answer. What's going on and how should she deal with his jealousy? www.patreon.com/post...

Hey so it turns out the wifi in Heaven is really good so I can get back on my account to tell you this: THE KEY TO GETTING INTO HEAVEN IS YOUR LOCKER COMBO FROM THE EIGHTH GRADE. DO YOU HEAR ME? IT'S YOUR LOCKER COMBO FROM THE E ....#####NO CARRIER###

They've been overcoming a lifetime of emotional, sexual and religious trauma and live their best life. Now they want to know: when will they be ready to date? ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Know When I’m Emotionally Ready To Date?

Ok, I’m sorry but watching Libs of TikTok trying to do her outrage farming thing to fucking *GWAR* of all people is hilarious. I, uh, don’t think that’s gonna go the way she expects.

Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #26 – How To Conquer Shyness

Ask Dr. NerdLove: I Was A Creeper, How Do I Fix it?

The second letter in today's column is a prime example of why you can't shame or hate yourself into being better. Self-hate and recrimination doesn't motivate you, it just takes up all available space and saps your drive, your resilience and your ability to even appreciate the progress you've made.

They've been overcoming a lifetime of emotional, sexual and religious trauma and live their best life. Now they want to know: when will they be ready to date? ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Know When I’m Emotionally Ready To Date?

Trying something different this afternoon. Come hang out while I deep dive into some con loot and other baggage (literally) so I can declutter a bit. twitch.tv/cypheroftyr

It still amuses me that this is where Megatron's original gun form came from.

I adore Vincent, I love that he's a lap cat and wants to snuggle whenever possible, but how does he ALWAYS manage to pick the exact moment I’m about to get more coffee?

Good morning to the men who are doing the work of dismantling the toxic structures installed in them by violence!

They've been overcoming a lifetime of emotional, sexual and religious trauma and live their best life. Now they want to know: when will they be ready to date? ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Know When I’m Emotionally Ready To Date?

Why We Need To Talk About Stealthing

Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #27 – Dealing With Oneitis

Turns out yes, you *can* be arrested for driving drunk in a Power Wheels jeep. I mean, in case you ever needed to know that. For some reason.

Now that I've made the Witcher "...and three Ends-of-Days" joke, I'm trying to honestly think of how many times I've seen the Apocalypse get canceled. 12/12/2012 was an obvious one, but what was the date of the EOTW that was on all the billboards for a hot minute in the 00s/10s? May something?

I think the surest sign that even the TRVE Believers don’t think The Rapture is coming on Tuesday is that they’re *selling* their cars and belongings. Because as we all know, money is super important in heaven.

Instead of an account blackout to protest BlueSky’s anti-sex T’s and Cs update, how about you share content from adult creators whose work you love? We’re drowning. It’s not just me, I don’t know anyone who produces adult content who is doing well right now.

It's that time again...

It’s official, either they smell blood in the water or someone dosed me with a heroic level of hallucinogens… www.thedailybeast.com/maga-star-jo...

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Find New Friends?

What Women Wish Men Knew About Good Sex

I know we're all hurting right now, but any assistance to get this covered is really appreciated. Crohn's disease is no joke, and it's taking its toll on Mary Ellen's physical and mental well-being. Let's give her a boost today. #MutualAid #MedicalAid #HelpSky #SinglePayerNow 💸💕

Whatever Cousin Brucie was spinning that day

NEW COLUMN: Making friends and connecting with women was easy and effortless when he was in his 20s. Now it’s an unending struggle. What changed? ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I’m Struggling To Connect With Women. What Am I Doing Wrong?

Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #28 – What You Need To Know Before Getting Back With Your Ex

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Help, My Drunk Friend Is Hitting On Me

NEW COLUMN: Making friends and connecting with women was easy and effortless when he was in his 20s. Now it’s an unending struggle. What changed? ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I’m Struggling To Connect With Women. What Am I Doing Wrong?

NEW COLUMN: Making friends and connecting with women was easy and effortless when he was in his 20s. Now it’s an unending struggle. What changed? ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I’m Struggling To Connect With Women. What Am I Doing Wrong?

I’d say I’ll never be out of work, but the way folks latch onto the plagarism machine that just validates everything they say or think makes it less likely for them to be willing to anyone that disagrees… futurism.com/chatgpt-marr...

NOW LIVE ON PATREON: It used to be easier to meet and talk to women. Now it seems like they're all either uninterested or uncomfortable with him. What changed and what is he doing wrong? www.patreon.com/post...

This is great advice for people of any/all genders. The way to be interesting is to be interested and follow those interests. Plus it makes life way more fun.

Level Up: How To Be The Most Interesting Man In The World

Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #29 – How To Talk So People Will Listen

Rich people, especially rich people in the media & entertainment industries right this moment: The point of having fuck you money is saying “fuck you” when it counts.

NOW LIVE ON PATREON: It used to be easier to meet and talk to women. Now it seems like they're all either uninterested or uncomfortable with him. What changed and what is he doing wrong? www.patreon.com/post...

NEW COLUMN: It seems like everyone she dates seems to think she wants to get serious right away. Is she somehow sending the wrong message? ASK DR. NERDLOVE: Am I Sending The Wrong Signals to People I Date?

the advice in this column is spot on. not surprisingly, the relationship i'm in where the person told me "hey, this is a little intense, let's pull back, i need some space," turned out better than those where people were too afraid to be honest about that they needed.

NEW COLUMN: It seems like everyone she dates seems to think she wants to get serious right away. Is she somehow sending the wrong message? ASK DR. NERDLOVE: Am I Sending The Wrong Signals to People I Date?

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Get Comfortable Talking About Sex?

How NOT To Handle A Bad Date

NEW COLUMN: It seems like everyone she dates seems to think she wants to get serious right away. Is she somehow sending the wrong message? ASK DR. NERDLOVE: Am I Sending The Wrong Signals to People I Date?

The universe is just MadLibs now.

Now live on Patreon: every time she starts seeing someone – or even just flirts with them – they move at light speed towards commitment. Is she sending the wrong messages to her dates? www.patreon.com/post...

Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #30 – Dealing With Jealousy