Holding a Kink & BDSM consent workshop at the local university's sex week, and am blessed to have ex-GF @logandria.bsky.social sliding in for the art assist. I love being a gay sex freak with a weird life 💜

Awaiting the Franchaela season of Bridgerton like an oceanographer watching a deadly tsunami heading for my city. Not sure what will kill me first: The excitement, or the impact. #franchaela

The orchestral covers in Bridgerton S5 are going to cause so many lesbian conniptions, it will practically be a hate crime. #franchaela

Missed Bad Bunny’s halftime show? Want to rewatch? (4x and counting for me). The NFL posted the whole performance on YouTube: on pace for 500k views in the first 30 minutes.

That halftime show is what people mean when they say "joy is an act of resistance."

Some serious projection going on from people calling Svetlana & Ilya a “situationship”. They are loving, platonic friends who have sex! This is a real thing that adults do, especially queer adults. #HeatedRivalry #SvetlanaVetrova #IlyaRozanov

Some serious projection going on from people calling Svetlana & Ilya a “situationship”. They are platonic friends who have sex! This is a real thing that adults do, especially queer adults. Acting like Ilya is playing with Svetlana’s heart does such a disservice to her character. #HeatedRivalry

If I had a nickel for every time a romantic lead on a worldwide popular TV show invited their love interest to “My Cottage” and it turned out to be a small mansion, I’d have two nickels in the past two months… Which isn’t much, but still more than I was expecting. #Bridgerton #HeatedRivalry

Me at sapphic events and house parties, deploying some fuckass line that no self respecting straight man would dare touch in the year of our lord 2026:

Two hour return trip via public transport to pick up a Marketplace find: I’m going on an ✨adventure✨ Two hours stuck in traffic to pick up a Marketplace find: I’m about to start scalping people.

Me getting all my work admin done on public transport because I focus best in a moving vehicle: ADHD whomst? The unfortunate soul sitting behind me: … is that bitch admiring her own nudes right now

You literally could not pay me to wear headphones on the bus. The eavesdropping opportunities are simply too good. #aotearoa #nz #bus #train #PublicTransport

About to undertake a long-ass bus trip to pick up a monitor stand from Marketplace, so you know what time it is. (Stream of Consciousness Posting Time)

A lot of people call Aotearoa New Zealand the Canada of the Southern Hemisphere, which while reductive & not always a compliment given our shared colonial history etc, COULD be made true with some state funded home grown organic rugby yaoi 👀 NZ on Air, I am looking at you. Lock in. #HeatedRivalry

I spent this entire past week fucking my wife, doing bush walks, writing sapphic smut, swimming in the ocean and going on dates with girls (barely pausing to do the dishes). So far ‘25-‘26 has been the Summer of All Time. #sapphic #queer #wlw #summer #nz #aotearoa #lesbian #bisexual #australia

Our synchronised “aaaaaay” is absolutely sending me. Btw I fucking love my city. Art by Brendan Grant Artwork. #wellington #pöneke #tewhanganuiatara #aotearoa #nz #outdoors #outdoorenrichment #art #landscape #art #scenery #view #landscape #harbour #scenic #newzealand

Thoughts on algo-speak, censorship, and whether online discourse sanitisation is really the fault of the people who use silly words for serious topics. www.tumblr.com/bridferchgly... #SocialMedia #ai #instagram #twitter #tiktok #threads #censorship #OnlineCensorship #algospeak #linguistics #meta

I’m having a great time on Tumblr because all my most popular posts are long, passionate & wordy. I forgot how much fun social media is when I don't have to try to be aesthetic, unbothered & minimal in order to reach an audience! #blogging #writing #textposts #tumblr #bluesky #cringeandfree

Since The Events of Christmas Day (a.k.a. the Heated Rivalry season finale), my dash has been flooded with recs for similar shows. Mostly it’s… www.tumblr.com/bridferchgly... #HeatedRivalry #hollanov

Oh shit, the next full-season rewatch wil KILL ME, re-meeting those boys knowing the men they become and their mutual devotion. (which, yeah, I knew from the books, but now it's made flesh) But now I can whisper to them, it'll all turn out great for boring and asshole alike. #HeatedRivalry

Thank the cosmos that I am off work until 1/5 because I genuinely may need that long to process and digest and reflect and attempt to fuckin' recover from [gesticulates wildly] all of this emotional wreckage and unstoppable queer joy. #HeatedRivalry

I still can't believe that these callow little doofuses we met a month ago have, a mere 8.5 years later, now taken their place among the greatest screen romance duos of all time.

I went to the cottage and came back convinced that we need shows like Heated Rivalry more than ever. "Sometimes the most radical thing you can do is to have a good time on purpose." newsletter.sachajudd.com/archive/a-tr... Thanks @carlylane.bsky.social & @readingtheend.bsky.social for their posts.

Appreciation post for the Christmas treat that is going through an octogenarian’s bathroom cupboards & finding vintage antihistamines.

I can't stop laughing at this Tumblr post because 1) homosexual Chernobyl, but also 2) look at lil' Hayden going after Cliff Marleau who is holding him back like Bugs Bunny holding Elmer Fudd back by his forehead

“Is he okay? Fucking tell me!” “Get to your bench, Rozanov. I’m not going to tell you again.” There are a million reasons why Heated Rivalry’s concussion scene works, but what hit me the hardest is that it emphasises one of the biggest costs of being closeted: Not being considered Next of Kin.

I'm loving the fact that Jacob Tierney's every breath is an indictment against at least a dozen showrunners who have overseen fan-hating trainwrecks during the past decade. That's before you even talk about hundreds of movies made by people who hated their own source material.

Can I just canonize Heated Rivalry music supervisor Scotty Taylor here for a sec? Holy shit! Yes for all the great needledrops, but in Ep5 in particular, listen to all the little music cues and snippets. Faves: 1) the sweet plaintive waltz that begins when Shane "confesses" to Rose.

Nobody should be surprised that sapphics & lesbians are obsessed with Heated Rivalry. We love queer shit, we love love, we love explicit consent, we love good art, we love yearning, we love hot female besties pulling their idiot bros up by their bootstraps. 🫡

Svetlana “she has such good style” Vetrova needs to fuck Rose “I wish I was a lesbian” Landry POST HASTE, I do not make the rules. #HeatedRivalry

“A randomized trial withholding a proven, life-saving intervention from newborns would not be approved by an institutional review board in the United States or Europe. Ethical standards do not become optional because the participants are African.“ 💔 Absolutely worth your time ⤵️

Being able to do incredible and frequent sex scenes when the story calls for it and NO sex scenes when the story calls for it, and absolutely knock it out of the park both ways… Jacob Tierney, you are a master of this craft. #HeatedRivalry

🧵🪡 Dear childfree adults, Dreading the future? Afraid of, or afraid for, the next generation? Feeling hopeless and powerless in the face of… *gestures* all this? Anxious as hell? Doomscrolling constantly? Let me pitch aunt or uncledom to you.

THIS article.

There are plenty of reasons to be obsessed with Heated Rivalry, but the one I can’t get over is the JOY of finally seeing sex scenes taken seriously as an interactions. As a way to convey thoughts, feelings, neuroses, fears and deep fondness between characters. It’s so rare & gorgeous to see on TV.

🧵🪡 A (very late) message to the English colonial project circa 1940-50: When you import a bunch of Welsh miners halfway across the world into Aotearoa’s most physically dangerous natural environments to work for fuck all pay, set their families up in shacks instead of houses…

insanely good thing to say when you enter a room

it is just so fascinating the way 'sexual fantasy' is a part of our lexicon and the moment sexuality actually gets fantastical folks believe it must be fake, or a joke, or a parody. if some day buckaroos look back and i have had a small hand in changing that perception i would be so honored

thank you it has been a beautiful journey that i am so proud of. long ago i recognized folks thought my art was a joke, and while one path would be to change myself, i decided to choose self love and make the world come to me. some day i hope my work is seen as a shift in the way we see erotic art

One hilarious thing about being a pro domme in long-term therapy, is that CBT has *such* different meanings depending on context.

I’ve seen a number of people sharing this story with the comment, why didn’t he tell Stoppard, and I think the answer is probably “because people either don’t think to or think there will always be time to.” If someone has done something you admire, tell them.

One oddly specific part of being siaradwr cymraeg (a welsh speaker) born & mostly raised in Aotearoa NZ: My brain automatically reads social handles of targeted ads from Australia, as being plural 😂 Then usually files it away as “fair enough mate, I guess you do have more than one of the thing”.

The more myself I become, the more practicality delights me. Last week I bought a towel mumu a full coverage swimsuit with sleeves & everything to avoid sunburn. All my pants have a minimum of six pockets. My partner went on a trip & brought me back a themed pocket knife. I am deep in my aunty era.

Illustrated headshot by @logandria.bsky.social

Just wrote a sex scene so delicious, desperate, and above all, *stupid* that I kind of want to frame it.