When you gradually start to realize that your desire to be more visibly queer/gay might very much be rooted in a desire to be less distinctly man? That maybe those funny nice feelings at the thought of being seen as "big, soft, fuzzy, warm, f̶u̶c̶k̶a̶b̶l̶e̶, friend" than guy or gal might mean something.....
18 days ago