#Ropebondage #TapeGag #Blindfold

#Goop #Slime #Encasement

11 years. ELEVEN YEARS. Still love him. More than 14 years, too - we didn’t get upgraded on our wedding anniversary, so this is our second anniversary, because queers do everything ✨extra✨

I’m not a pup … but if I were you might catch me like this.

Can report, I also had fun, in case it was not evident from the photo. I was a good boy :-D

*cries in gay hockey fan* 😭🥰

always remember: 1. sending someone a text message is 1000x more meaningful than a social media post 2. a phone call is technically assault

Merriam-Webster’s human editors have chosen ‘slop’ as the 2025 Word of the Year.

For trans people who see this and feel their heart rate rise: it's good. Click through. It's positive, short and direct.

I felt that I looked hot tonight. I am pleased with this.

*slow flail of pre-Christmas work week dragging out fo r e v e r *

love yoooooouuuuuu

Woooo tourism with @rubberboyseraph.bsky.social

Who is going to Hunter? I need a date for the night.

Out buying @pupboihermes.bsky.social ‘s Christmas Present 🥰🎄

It has been pointed out that I now have my first GymCrush 🤣🥰🙈🫠

Shut up, your coming with me

Everyone else talking about the shower scene in #HeatedRivalry but THIS is the one that really made me scramble for the pause button 🍑

I’m a modelmaker - so a designer/craftsman who makes basically… anything, props, sets, products, etc. So it’s either being asked if it’s like playing with airfix (no) or my favourite: “oh haven’t 3d printers replaced you?” (Also no 🫠)

Nope this is too cold and wet and miserable. I’m off to … somewhere, somehow. Or maybe i’ll just go sit in the bathroom that has the radiator.

Last chance to get your event tickets or additional raffle tickets 🫶🏻 Don’t miss an opportunity to win some lovely Xmas presents 🎁

Love this 💚 🥰

We are working on another job which the client has just shortened the deadline and given us way more work then we were contracted for and once again my boss looked offended when i suggested perhaps we should charge them extra for this. I’m so tired.

My friends are so fucking cool and skilled. 🥰😍

Ew, the job opening I was going for (on a company tracked-stage system) closed a week ago… without notifying me I’d not got through. I hate job hunting, it’s so horribly impersonal and unfeeling.

Nope. Just, nope.

Colds can fuck offfffff *cough cough*

*Tuesday noise*

When it comes to weather I am mostly just wanting it to be sunny and warm (with occasional spectacular thunderstorms for balance, and proper settling snow for christmas) But… Very Misty can also stay. Probably because it’s bright and spooky. 😂

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OH COME ON

Okay, cool, thanks for the random very memorable and realistic feeling nightmares, subconscious. 🫠

A thing I often get asked is how to go about meeting people. This won’t work for everyone - we are all different - but let me know what you think!

Righto, who’s coming to this on Monday? :-)

Happy no vember This month, remember: no Don't

Honestly the decisions people supposedly older, more experienced and in theory wiser than me keep making are BAFFLING. Like… how. How do you manage to fail upwards this hard? (Yes yes i know, white privilege/the patriarchy)

Anyone in London looking for tix to @gallycab.bsky.social's Monsters & Aliens Ball at the Clapham Grand this Wed? I have two I'm sadly unable to use. I paid £13 each but would be happy to part with them for £5 each. Reply here or DM, or please share if you know anyone who might want to go. Thanks!

Yeaaaaaa this. Falls firmly under ‘negotiate for what you call me WITH me’ imo

Normalize asking your bottom what their hole's pronouns are because even though blocking men on Grindr who say they want my "pussy" is sometimes better than sex it's getting really old

This is a reminder. DO NOT do breath play on your own. It doesn't matter how experienced you are. If you pass out from lack of oxygen, on your own, when will someone find you? No breathplay item is "safe" when used solo.

Nobody in my workplace seems to understand that communication requires LISTENING TO THE ANSWER FOR THE QUESTION YOU ASK. Honestly in the past day several people have asked me things, got answers and then got things wrong because they didn’t listen to the answer and just guessed/did their own thing.

Has anyone used progesterone gel (progestogel)? I can’t boof and oral prog seemed to give me issues with my IBD so was wondering if gel was a decent route to get the same energy, libido, and boob effects.

I have some great news to announce! GBTQ+ Men Rope Hangout just had an upgrade! From November onwards, we'll be meeting at a new, much bigger venue in Peckham, SE London, with loads of suspension points and a relaxed chill area.

Not every hero wears a cape, etc

Very excellent point, well articulated 💛

That was.. a lot of anxiety dreams. 🫠 Like, a LOT. Unsettled brain, it seems.

Not all mothers love their children; not all rulers deserve their crown. THE FALL OF THE HOUSE OF VALENZIAGA Coming in 2026 (Yes, it’s hella gay 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍⚧️) #booksky #fantasy #sciencefantasy #amreading #lgbtq www.kickstarter.com/projects/tri...

Okay I’m just saying I think a full body massage from someone really pretty and friendly could fix me is all.

Ah, time for the monthly ‘are you sure you still want to have a fixed limit on your data with no option to accidentally go over and pay us loads of fees?’ message. Reminds me of when my mum took me to set up my first bank account, I was asked if I wanted an overdraft and I asked what it was.