A rare interview with the creators of the always-funny, always-brilliant, and *usually*-sexy—or occasionally anti-sexy—OGLAF! Cooper has kept a low profile over the years, but is legitimately one of the very best artists in comics today. Read OGLAF if you're old enough to drive!

Early Christmas shopping. *Whistling noises* Their NoFrillDo line better than many premium toys I have tried.

If you see this, post your bird art 🐦 #Art

Finished it up. My verdict remains that the advice is solid, but that it remains in the camp largely of assuming you know what you want and are trying to puzzle out what the sub wants. This honestly seems to be the trend of what people think dominants most need to hear.

About 83% into "The Heart of Dominance". It's pretty good, including trying to be aggressively inclusive by gender. It does assume you can detect hyperbole, however.

Zipper dramatic void staring reached equilibrium. On deciding where discontent falls on the spectrum of this is being unreasonable, determined big bulky zipper on delicate latex piece must be either error or some sort of materials shortage snafu?

Opened up a Cathouse Clothing order ready to try it out and forgot that they powder everything for shipping like it's going into the deep archives, and it needs a good bath first before wearing. Good thing there's no pressing social occasion I needed it for.

Subs of any gender pretty regularly ignore that the actual business of submission is as much to inspire and protect their partners as if it is for their partners to inspire and protect *them*.

Politician follows porn stars. < Porn stars follow politician. Is it really still a scandal if a politician follows sex workers? A better question is: Are sex workers following them *back*? Because a good politician's platform isn't legitimized until it earns our engagement and support.

Got around to reading The Final Girl Group. Interesting premise, got a bit too incoherent and silly by the mid point and particularly the ending. Amusingly innocent in places, even as it tries to be extremely dark.

Checking your favorite kink brands to see who is on blusky. I see @funkittoys.bsky.social and @tantus.bsky.social as well as @stockroom.bsky.social but not Restrained Grace yet.

Emmaline! No! But the robot vacuum has found my bra and is helpfully using it to clean the floor. 😓

So grateful for this conversation. Timely topics on age verification, freedom of speech... and why it matters, has value, and is worth defending. Thank you @adamconover.net @siridahl.com & Noelle Perdue! www.youtube.com/watch?v=tjWU...

I still have a hard time not responding back with my reaction when someone posts a caption like "looming over you like a dangerous goddess" or "you find me like this, what would you do?" I don't think anyone wants "oh dear, can I offer you a cup of tea?"

We are about to hit the Christmas rush, during a period when systems are breaking down (dismantled) at an alarming rate. If you have a Nice Things budget this year, I suggest shopping early. Lots of nonesense may occur to everything from the post to the transport networks.

he's so tempted by his gf's strap but he's unwilling to cooperate tsk tsk tsk

Fantasy plot: I was so poor of the slums, my guardians locked me in a closet and only took me out to beat me once a day, but I have successfully ended up in an elite institution. I must do battle with the other elites to secure my elite seat.

I realize that my primary job is helping people sort out their romantic lives but... good god damn at some point I'm going to need to write a VERY long diatribe at how elevating romance to being more "important" than friendship is why so many folks are single and miserable.

Somewhat spiteful plan to use #NNN to force my Property to come as much as possible. 😝

The "tragedy of the commons" economic concept/example is based on a completely ahistorical idea that rich nobles taking the right to common land from poor people to farm it exclusively for their benefit was a good thing.

Kink in public discourse really suffers from a huge swathe of people who cannot seperate just existing as a thing from an invitation to participate. And folks not identifying bad faith comparisons with flashers, and no sense of geographic relativity re: norms.

I cannot emphasize how annoying mental health related brain weasels are when you are absolutely drowning in good things. Like, my completely unreasonable bullshit was hearing my head bitch I had to go to a really nice spa for someone else's birthday last week.

Baseball is my autistic nemesis. It is a thing I have never understood, but has been inflicted on me semi-regularly. Everyone has assumed I already understood the rules, even in childhood and then asked me to play various permutations. And every time I thought I figured it out, new rule!

Dopamine is not an opioid. Nobody is getting a "hit" of dopamine. Dopamine is not a make you happy chemical, dressing or decorating to please yourself does not have a 1:1 correlation with dopamine in your body.

Locktober is coming to an end, so we take a (skeptical) look at what comes next: #NoNutNovember. It might look the same, but it's not, really.   

One of my favorite people I follow swings wildly between cozy real life softness and the most violent non-con fantasy prompts. The juxtaposition is half the art.

Excited to hear how this one went.

Me: I don't like receiving cunnilingus. Them: that's such a pity you haven't met my mouth yet! It's the ultimate dominant act. I am not like those other people, I go down, your pleasure comes first. I could eat your pussy for hours, just swim in it. How disappointing I can't please you.

I absolutely adore Winnowill as a character, but it took until I was an adult to understand why Rayek got so enmeshed in her. She's a very good cautionary tale about making yourself incredibly miserable, and you can see how she arrives at her fuck ups in a place that's rational to *her*.

What's people's favourite resource/guide for doing a frog tie with rope?

🎶You know you're beautiful But that ain't half the gold treasure in your soul What you got, 'cause I want it all? With your fingers in my mouth, I fail to see your faults So please don't let me fall So please don't let me fall🎶 (Yoke Lore - Beige) Random #FemdomVibes

I hear pillow fort is supposed to have the porn, but I have been unable to attach myself to a community so far. Am I doing something wrong?

I think my biggest concern on the "Bluesky not being fun anymore" besides taking a bold anti-human sexuality and queer people stance is that the recommendation section is entirely "political bullshit Apocalypse" by name of politician, sports game, and celebrity. There's less small batch weird.

More Stephen Sinding "The Slave"

This work of art from the turn of the previous century has had the "suggestive" tag for 23 hours and counting. @moderation.bsky.app what's the timeline on your appeals process?

I can confirm I know few sadists, myself included, who do not enjoy the heck out of this.

Come on @bsky.app, get some culture. Can you possibly try harder not to have the sensibilities of Mrs. Lovejoy?

This experiment is expensive, with the only saving grace being that the local thrift shop is getting a bra with tags still on in an unusual size.

"Adoration I" by the sculptor Stephen Sinding, circa 1910.

Yes. My life is full of awesome, amazing men. The position that we lost the men is not only inaccurate (there's always been a rightward bias, women have actually stayed steady since they first got the vote), but always suggests a sort of pandering that's very insulting to men as a larger category.

Doing the online bra shopping nonesense. Did the bra that fits system, for sized into a 32H UK. This is too ridiculously large. Not even "I can't be that big!" But the gore slices into my chest and the cups are baggy.

Btw, if you are among the many folks I know, me included, who *need* kink for sex to seem appetizing, that's one of the "circumstances" people refer to.

What better way to celebrate Asexual Awareness Week than by spillin' the asexualiTEA with @sparklemaia.bsky.social! 1/2 www.ohjoysextoy.com/ace-101-spar...

This is a great time to remind you that @heatherguerre.bsky.social has not one (but two) excellent femdom romances and that "What Was Meant To Be" is cozy autumn vibes AND good autism rep. www.romance.io/books/643800...

Happy Amazon Prime Day! Amazon collects mountains of data about how you use the service, but there is a setting you can change to make it harder for the company to use that data to sell you more things. #OptOutOctober www.eff.org/deeplinks/2...

If you post AI crap, even to promo another writer, I am going to unfollow you and block them. ❤️

I respect this is simply not my kink, but incest feels about as inherently erotic as the participants being transformed into an early aughts glass topped metal patio set. It's not a disgust reaction, per say. More one of bewilderment.

A comic about CNC kink I've been thinking about for a few years, and I finally decided to sit down and make it.

The bonus tragedy is the number of folks who snark, but despite progressive politics, still think a masturbation addiction is real. Self identified sex (and porn!) addicts do not masturbate more than anyone else. They just feel more shame when they do.