The other day I realized it was after 8pm and I hadn’t taken my bra off yet. I just completely forgot about it. I truly cannot overstate the joy of having a bra that actually fits.

I know this is not enforceable but I think anyone who says anything like, "I believe women but I am suspicious that this woman is particular is paid/coming forward for attention" should have to cite examples of multiple women who have made money & success out of accusing high-profile men of rape.

Something can be bad and still make you personally happy. But it’s still bad. People struggle with this one a lot, so we have to twist ourselves into pretzels going “wait no it’s secretly good actually!” when ultimately it just boils down to “because I like it and don’t want to feel bad about it.”

"Working class" in 2026 means a blue haired barista with they/them pronouns, a Asian immigrant nail technician, and an undocumented hotel cleaner. And we are going to keep having the same fights until we let the midcentury illustrator mirage of the white guy in plaid with the lunch pail go.

Owl, mermaid, mushroom.

I went to the gas station near work for my daily slushie, and the clerk who checked me out today seemed *so* familiar to me, but I just couldn’t figure out a non-weird way to ask, “Did you by chance ever play Pathfinder in a church’s basement, maybe ten or so years ago?”

We REALLY need to get back to regularly mocking people who seriously use the word “misandry.” Oh nooo the men are sooo sad that women don’t like being killed by them and sometimes make mean jokes as a coping mechanism :( Alas, I simply do not have a violin tiny enough for this occasion.

this is very funny as well as good evidence — you know, beyond what we can see with our own eyes — that there is not some epidemic of anti-white discrimination

I am baffled about why this pizza was made with the pepperoni UNDER the cheese. Why is the pepperoni a secret? Is it forbidden pepperoni? A coded message? Is there a rogue society of cured meat enthusiasts who break into pizza places and remake all their pizzas in service of some mysterious agenda?

At 7:47 today I told my cat to come back “in about thirty minutes” and then it’d be time for breakfast. Why did this mf show back up at 8:17 ON THE DOT? Sir, you are a cat. Stop having a better understanding of the passage of time than I do. It’s unsettling. And also mildly embarrassing.

I have definitely reached the “idc about attempts wake me if it ever actually happens” stage as far as reactions to these incidents go.

The thing about this insistence that rape victims have some terrifying moral power that ruins men’s lives and compels the public to do anything to avenge them is that it has never once happened. What actually happens is that victims who disclose are ruined and men who are accused gain.

Did this game really just give me two love interests who are antagonistic but basically two sides of the same coin & THEN have them start bicker-flirting with each other & bonding over their mutual adoration for my character??? Why thank you, game—what a lovely, personalized gift! #BestServedCold

Another day, another need to self-soothe by writing silly little stories where men repeatedly stomp all over expected male solidarity in order to *actually* protect the women in their lives. You know. Wild, epic fantasy type shit. 🙃

Everything is terrible but at least my cat is cute? (And also I am kind of a dork.)

I’m not the only survivor noting this today. 👇🏼

It's #transdayofvisibility and I would not presume that my opinion *matters* -- but it appears we're in a time where everybody should make this clear: trans rights are human rights, I support my trans friends and fellow creators. Everyone deserves the right to flourish as human beings.

Anyway you can’t get men to buy into feminism by promising them that a more gender equal world is one in which they will have greater sexual access to women. It’s not true and it does not net women useful or sincere allies.

I have therapy tomorrow, so thinking about it a bit, and definitely had to spend a moment like “wait were we even at war yet last session” so like. I don’t love that. 😬

MY SISTER: …oh god THAT was an emotional rollercoaster. ME: What was? MY SISTER: I just finished the original Leverage finale! ME: (nodding sagely) Ah, yes, one of the best series finales of all time… and also a psychological war crime. John Rogers knows what he did. #Leverage

When they say Me Too "went too far," they mean "got too close."

signs left at alex pretti’s memorial in minneapolis: “i love you so much / i’ll miss you forever” photo with a friend, “i would have done the same. RIP alex,” a stethoscope and “we’ll take it from here, alex” and a tshirt for the minnesota nurses association

Atmosphere-wise, today really feels like a M*A*S*H New Years episode. Just the ultimate vibe of “well that year sucked and the next year will probably suck too, but at least we have each other and maybe we can make it suck slightly less? Fingers crossed.”

My cat and I have a deal where if I’m eating something he can safely have a bite of, I’ll give him a piece of it AS LONG as he is “a patient boy” (not in my face while I’m eating, no thievery attempts) and understands that he only gets one (1) piece. It works shockingly well!

“Nate [Ford] is not a long term planner…” said the commenter, clearly coming from the universe slightly to the left of this one and therefore having watched an *entirely* different show. #Leverage

"That can't be rape; basically every guy does stuff like that." - Someone who is so close to getting it.

"This could take down Democrats, too." I know. And I frankly wouldn't give even an itty bitty damn if it implicated every Democratic man in Congress, every Democratic hopeful for 2028 and every Democrat who has even thought about running for office. Down with the sex predators, wherever they are.

Men will twist themselves into pretzels defending the shitty actions of other men because deep down they know they’ve done something similar and they absolutely cannot reckon with the idea that they’re shitty too.

Today is a good day to remember, and to say, that the #MeToo movement was right, and was righteous, and has been vindicated over and over again. There was no overreach. There was no excess. There was no they-went-too-far. So much work remains to be done.

Sometimes it seems like our cats understand a worrying amount of English. One was being picky about her breakfast the other day (she just wanted a different flavor) and only ate a few bites before going to the window she likes to look out of, pawing at it so I would open it.

For real, if the rage inside you couldn’t power the sun itself for one thousand years, are you even trying???

A reminder that this anti-trans panic is 100% bullshit and exactly none of our country’s problems are related to someone expressing their gender identity and everyone who isn’t a hate-filled weirdo knows it.

“The jury — which feasted on sandwiches for lunch on Thursday, according to a person familiar with jury lunches — deliberated the charges for several hours on Wednesday and Thursday before delivering the verdict.” AMAZING

Meet your inner cat 🐾Please open thread scroll through, if you’d like to know your inner cat according to your birth month 🐈‍⬛

The stupid backwards illiterate dipshit convention that masquerades as the town I live in voted down a measure to improve our tiny crumbling library. Humans were a mistake.

If anyone knows the answer to this please have mercy on the rest of us and share your wisdom, I beg you.

“If you exclude a significant chunk of this demographic for no reason other than ‘but the vibes tho’ then the stats say I’m right actually.” Oh, Reddit, never change.

apparently it’s time for another reminder that straight white men also have identity politics, *even the ones on the left*, and we are seeing that very much in action with regards to the Pod Save America bros defending fellow bro Graham Platner

You know what? Fine. They’ve convinced me. Men *are* inherently fragile, morally bankrupt, selfish cowards unable to face even the tiniest bit of accountability without turning to fascism. They ~just can’t help~ but be drawn to violent racism/misogyny in response to imagined, trivial slights.

White men facing consequences for their actions isn't purity testing when everyone else faces consequences for crimes they're not even committing.

One of my least rational beliefs is that if you pull off a heist without hurting anyone or getting caught within a day, that's your stuff fair and square.

Using functional objects as decorative items is largely wasteful and unnecessary. This also applies to buying a functional object that is so expensive you don’t ever want to actually use it out of fear of “ruining” it.

Define your music taste in eight artists (this was so difficult omg): SHeDAISY Bad Religion Watsky Imelda May Madds Buckley Simple Plan Sofia Isella The Cadillac Three

If you tweet something and only men like it, it's a bad tweet.

Okay, if an evil entity wearing your friend’s face shows up at your shop complaining about how your friend keeps fighting their evil mind control infection thing and they want something to “calm the rage,” the correct choice is obviously to do exactly the opposite of that! #StrangeAntiquities

One of the things that’s maddening about this is that *everyone knows* that casting “male loneliness” as a great social emergency—like the “birth rate” panic—is a way to legitimize attacks on women’s freedom. It’s taboo to point this out even though it serves literally no other function!

Tried to get my real ID. I had my license, my SS card and my birth certificate. I was not allowed to get my real ID because my birth name is different than my married name. Now I have to go dig up a marriage certificate. You know who wouldn’t have to do this? A man. Never change your last name.

It shouldn’t need to be said in 2025, but I will never vote for an anti-abortion candidate the same as I will never vote for an anti-trans candidate or in fact *any* candidate against basic human rights for anyone. These people are such moral cowards. It disgusts me.