Neue Matratze gekauft und muss jetzt die alte irgendwie entsorgt bekommen. Sollte voll einfach und günstig sein, nehme ich an.

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so many of the small indignities of daily life come from us being denied the ability to tell a rich man in a tech company to fuck off. minesweeper has microtransactions. paid services have ads. the opt out says maybe later. the drive thru is a broken chatbot. your car is an ipad. fuck off! fuck off!

When people say "if you have nothing to hide you have nothing to fear." the correct response is: "I need privacy, not because my actions are questionable, but because your judgement and intentions are."

oh cool there is one for australia too. if you want you can sign it, might as well spread it around

Using this piece by @reallygoodwizard.bsky.social in my introductory lectures for my design students.

Scentists are on here too! Check every name and initial variation you've ever published under. My dad has dozens of works listed.

Also my new fabric arrived and I'm delighted about it. I'm just about to overcast the cut edges on the cotton so I can put it in the washing machine, whereafter it will become a long gathered apron because the flat wipe clean/canvas/etc things simply do not do the jobs of a real apron

I love doing little question/meme things on social media it's just. I have a terrible memory and may forget I offered one. Hm.

With that said, I'm not on social media much these days, so....rec me an audiobook? Or ask for an audiobook rec if you want one. These days I'm mostly audiobooks and sewing.

Anyway so I didn't mean to come on here to post about how helpful posts/videos by disabled people (with disabilities I don't have) have been for me but. Here we are I guess!

LRT I've noticed that it's not necessarily that skills/tips for ADHD/autistic people are only for us, but rather that most general tips rely on certain brain things working

I won’t bother people with replying to them or quoting them BUT I think another thing about self-diagnosis for autism or adhd is that even if it turns out you don’t have it but using the coping mechanisms of someone who does and it helps you, that is a good thing and you should keep doing it

Fuckin HATE this shit honestly. I so rarely find new music I like - and more often it's finding older new-to-me music

now that we're in the age of chatbot relationships I'm like, what if the turkeys totally knew the sticks weren't really turkeys, it was just really satisfying to display at a stick that can't walk away

I guess most people don't care enough for it to mean anything, but I personally lost all interest in anything that could be classified as "realistic", in no small part because of ai. I'll be much more likely to like art that's humanly imperfect. Doodles over the Mona Lisa and such.

bummer that “cocksucker” is an inherently homophobic insult because it’s got a really good (i turn and look directly at the camera) mouthfeel.

One thing you will never think after reading a great book or listening to a great album or seeing a great piece of art is, “I’m really glad this person remained cautious while they were making this and guarded against being perceived as weird.”

Man I'm so rarely online these days. I think that's probably good honestly, even though I have mixed feelings about it. I spend a lot of time doing daily life stuff, listening to audiobooks, and hanging out with @casualcheese.bsky.social, and I do think some of my online time *was* escapism

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It turns out I'm not online or in fandom much these days bc I need reading glasses, and without them reading causes me worsening beck pain and migraines. So uh. I'm trying out reading glasses to go over my contacts, tho I know there are still issues with my regular prescription.

usa: wir wollen menschen industriell in ein foltergefängnis in el salvador verschiffen deutsche medien: zoll wirr warr im weißen haus 🤪

every single time a politician bitches about spoiled Americans wanting new tech, new appliances, and new vehicles , the reporter should reply with, “So what progress are you making to ensure Right to Repair?” #uspoli

Mein persönlicher Turnaround Tuesday ist heute einfach umdrehen und gehen wenn jemand was zu mir sagt

wie ich den punkt suche wenn männer reden

the absolutely vital followup: [tongue firmly in cheek] yeah v v real, most queer people are indeed extremely boring and normie! This is...allowed, I supposed 🤡

I'm quickly becoming too old to engage with shows and books just bc they're queer. Like "it's gay" okay cool that's great but is it good? Or interesting? Does it have flavor?? Does it Taste???

After Jean-Marie Le Pen’s death in January, join us in celebrating his daughter Marine’s sentencing to 4 years in jail (including 2 on probation) and 5 years of ineligibility (making her miss the 2027 presidential election) for embezzlement of public moneys Not everything is rotten in 2025

- Sometimes subs are sadists and doms are masochists. And that's fun as fuck. The letters in BDSM are not mutually exclusive.

- Sometimes people who are bad at taking care of themselves don't need to be dommed into self care, they need to dom someone ELSE and that somehow fixes them. Sometimes a dom without someone to take care of is a fucken disaster actually.

Several things I would like to introduce into the mainstream in fandom: - A dude acting gay because they are a gay dude does not make them a subby bottom automatically, it just makes them a dude who is gay. (This is ESPECIALLY relevant when they're surrounded by a cast of straight people.

I....excuse me. ...... I just. The FUCK???? TEN??????? will he plEASE think of my poor brain cells, they're an endangered species over here

TEN........,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Update: I will make a proper post in the morning but I posted chapter 5/7 of my X-EXO kidnapping/identity porn fic. It's here! It's got a massive (somewhat violent) threesome in it! Baekhyun feels nearly every emotion at once but definitely no Stockholm Syndrome! archiveofourown.org/works/543653...

Also look we're not Back RE fandom yet but I did do 3600 words of editing today, which is not nothing! So yknow anyone hotly anticipating X-EXO identity kink porn is in for a treat (as soon as I've edited the remaining 6.5k)

Prompted by s "what was your first ever kdrama?" Post, it just occurred to me that I very narrowly managed to escape having to answer this question with "EXO Next Door"

one great mystery of our age is how the only way to motivate rich people to work is to give them loads of money for no reason but the only way to motivate poor people to work is to take away loads of their money for no reason

Hab heute Lust auf wirklich null und nichts. Kommt tatsächlich nicht oft vor bei mir.

old Soviet joke for our times: Guy stops by the newsstand every day, scans the front page, doesn’t buy the paper. One day the vendor asks what he’s up to. Guy says: “looking for an obituary.” Vendor says “those are towards the back of the paper, comrade.” Guy says: “not the one I’m looking for.”

Planning a visit to the USA? Here's a tip, make other plans.

BIG thing i get teased about over the years (in playful ways, it is fine buckaroos, but a light tease none the less) is the DIRECTNESS of my titles. many who stumble upon my books will immediately comment 'the title is so long it just says what happens'. here are some of my thoughts on that...

I’ve seen some discussion of metrics that tell you if your fic is good, and here is the one that works: It makes one friend send you an email or text that is incredibly long or absolutely FULL of swearing and typos and random sequences of letters. That’s it, that’s a good story.

Die Rechtsentwicklungen in Europa und USA sind nicht das Produkt einer besonders aggressiv geworden Rechten sondern das Produkt eines besonders zahm gewordenen Widerstands gegen Rechts

Sorry I think that's a wolf actually

so much of media seems to think its primary job is to turn a spotlight on the hypocrisy of the audience's own pieties when its actual job is to hit a guy who made one million dollars turning puppies into mulch with a hammer five hundred times

Eigentlich komisch, gleichzeitig auf Deutsch und Englisch hier unterwegs zu sein. Allerdings sind die deutsche Tweets (Skeets? Keinen blassen Schimmer) mm komischer Ja ich hab auch nicht behauptet, Komiker zu sein

Ich lese von „radikalen Forderungen“ der Linken, kann aber das Wort „Guillotine“ nicht einmal im Programm finden. Irgendwas stimmt doch da nicht…