This sounds like when I was trying to let my MIL figure out on her own she's racist for supporting policies that out me, a non-white Puerto Rican man, in danger.
MIL "I don't see you as different than us"
ME: 'Well MIL you're not an ICE agent are you?'
MIL: "oh. I'm still not racist"
Me: "🤨"
add a skeleton here at some point
about 19 hours ago