Garth Marenghi is my gender identity.

if boobs were a dick i’d be all set

middle aged career transition question! i’m thinking about applying for a peer support specialist certification program in OR. anybody out there have experience with these roles/know what it’s like to work as one? (on unemployment now bc the tech field broke my brain 🤕)

ready for the inside of my head to stop being a shirley jackson novel any day now 💀🫖👻

me (after smoking a bowl & saying something smart about language): how can i be *so* smart at language when i struggle *so* hard to use it to communicate with people 😖 @midnightmasseffect.bsky.social: that’s the literal definition of autism, babe.

Sayonara Wildhearts is like the Celeste of rhythm games. It’s giving me lots of good gender feelings. 🏳️‍⚧️🎵💓

I'm a genderqueer trans woman who is still suffering long term unemployment and severe depression/fatigue. I need a *LOT* of help for June. Please help me ko-fi.com/kofisupporte... #ko-fi #helpfolkslive #urgent #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2025 #HelpSky #TransRights #Pride #mutualaid 💸♥️

Catch 🥰 (3:01 - 3:04 of the vid are the most adorable 3 seconds ever committed to film) www.youtube.com/watch?v=JWPn...

i hope you know how important it is for CIS WOMEN to be saying this right now

anybody got favorite stims/sensory toys to recommend? (mine are mostly subtle/ highly masked/picked up unconsciously during decades of suppression, so i’m still experimenting with things i can do now to feel good as an autistic adult without having to hide it 😇)

Applying for unemployment. I’m 42, tired & broke. AI bros plagiarized, harassed & displaced me at my last IT management job. I could prolly qualify for assistance transitioning into another field. But are there any lines of work that are stable(ish) to go into in this hellscape?

It's possible she may be guilty of this crime, but it's unreasonable for her to pay too high a price for 20 seconds of action. Think of her future! Girls will be girls.

I am begging for a Hollywood movie or TV writer to make something that features realistic 'artificial intelligence'

Would you like to see something funny www.ft.com/content/6b52...

my dad found my lesbian porn history in high school (it was the early internet so browser history wasn’t common knowledge). he told me after school that he found the browser history and that he’d be talking to my brother about it. my brother blamed his friend. none of us ever spoke of it again.

guess who’s HOUSED :D we have absolutely no furniture yet (had to leave our stuff behind when we got evicted) but we’ve got an accessible neighborhood, a space that we feel safe in, and a sweetie pie queer landlord. joy and relief is unfamiliar lately but i think that’s what this is 💚

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what wishlist apps do y’all like to use? @midnightmasseffect.bsky.social and i are gonna be working on a housewarming one for our new home 🏡💚 would prefer not to support bezos, tho i found throne to be kinda buggy/labor intensive when i used it for sw and ease/accessibility is key for us rn.

adhd and autism

idk if she’s let y’all know but @midnightmasseffect.bsky.social has a special ability of being able to: - recite lyrics to any song that was on the radio in the ‘90s from memory - tell you the exact year any movie or song from the ‘90s or ‘00s was released from memory ask her anything lol.

idk if she’s let y’all know but @midnightmasseffect.bsky.social has a special ability of being able to: - recite lyrics to any song that was on the radio in the ‘90s from memory - tell you the exact year any movie or song from the ‘90s or ‘00s was released from memory ask her anything lol.

Change a letter, ruin a band Dinosaur Sr. Yolk Implosion Sebado(n’t) I couldn’t do Sebadoh with one letter, but Lou Barlow has been my special interest for the past 2 years so his projects are always top of mind lol.

I don’t care if you hate porn. Please for the love of god don’t get stuck there cognitively. Anti-porn legislation + how trans and NB people (even cis drag queens/kings) are being consistently described as sexually deviant = the groundwork is being laid for all queer expression to be made illegal.

Wasn’t gonna show my face on here but these before/after pics of @midnightmasseffect.bsky.social & me getting our hair done are too cute not to share. Might delete later xoxo.

Delicious.

this is a little piece of what just happened to me at my last job 🤡

The vibe walking to Plaid to get Juul pods/the vibe walking home (for context we are staying in temporary housing in the woods on top of a v steep hill)

before i answer, i'm going to open the floor to my trans fem friends if they want to offer any advice as well, the more the merrier, these threads can be massively helpful i got 10 little bits of thoughts below, feel free to add your own xoxoxo

you will never live in, cannot even visit, the world of your what-ifs. all of us can only live in the world of the is, the world of the now, dreaming of the worlds to come. so don’t torture yourself trying to live in these what-ifs, when yr the best you that this world has ever seen.

CONGRATS, BABE! 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 ONE LIKE = ONE CELEBRATION NO ONE SHOULD HAVE TO CELEBRATE THEIR TRANNIVERSARY ALONE 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

The average American has three friends

I think Wade Wells from Sliders is gonna be the inspo for my next haircut.

I think Wade Wells from Sliders is gonna be the inspo for my next haircut.

Finished up the outline of a new poster. Gonna wait till morning to finish it so I can get some natural light up in my space cuz the porch light isn’t quite cutting it right now. Really enjoyed making this one so far.

The average American has three friends

i'm so frustrated rn this video of my own hand is doing it for me

May

Today, i should be celebrating a year since my bottom surgery. Instead i'm waiting for updates on my cat while she's in an animal hospital. She is with the best animal neurologists i know of and they are doing everything in their power to help her. Please help us. www.gofundme.com/f/support-ca...

The "medieval peasants worked less than you do" myth is going around again, and it's one of the things that prompted me to write this series, so...🧵 1) No, they didn't. Work worked differently, but medieval elites exploited commoners until they were stopped. Sources are pretty consistent on this.

Read more today in the bath with the Sea of Stars soundtrack on and it was a ~vibe~. (I haven’t been able to enjoy reading for reading’s sake since 2020 for some reason so this is a big deal for me)

This is a thread worth reading But this post right here is my entire motivation to get up every day. For someone else to never have to live the life I have To have it easier than I do, and to never have to comprehend what we have to go through Because that means we won

Picked this book up as part of my middle aged late diagnosed autistic journey (looking for material that my hyperlexia can delight in). Just a few chapters in & already so enchanted/validated by the way the main characters anxiously and charmingly over explain to each other. 🪼🪸✨

Less: Disabled people being forced to apply and pay to prove their disabilities to non-disabled people to get accommodations. More: Non-disabled people accepting that disabled people exist, wanting them to be included, and therefore offering accommodations freely and easily.

hi, slowly becoming human again.

If you turned bad, what horror movie villain/monster would be?

we have an extension until April 6th if you can help 🫶💜🙌

My workplace is only offering 4 weeks severance pay for a year and a half of career ruining discrimination. 😪

"it had to be cooler than that" — it was not

when i say i'm thankful that i'm trans i'm not just talking about having boobs.