"Feminine energy" and it's just letting men treat you like trash without consequences.

Can anybody think of a plausible good reason why a doctor would not tell you how much a procedure costs right away? I have been dealing with a surgeon since the summer, had to travel for the first time in years for an injection, not knowing if I could even afford the surgery if I was approved...

Sometimes things get lost, or taken, and it's just the way things are. There's no getting them back. Sometimes you scour eBay until you find two different listings to put the pieces together and remake the light up reindeer you loved for 38 years before someone walked out the door with him 🥹🥹🥹

Watching The Summer I Turned Pretty, and is this just a story about the two most obnoxious people alive being assholes to everyone, and that means they're meant for each other? Fuck them kids

I played a game with my roommates tonight & one pulled a card that asked her to tell her first impression of someone in the room. She said to me "Everyone likes you. My friend you called one time for a roommate reference still asks about you" 😭😭😭

I'd be so much better at Spanish if I could just use my damn hands. Writing by hand has always been key for memorization for me. I can often remember something after writing it down only once. Word memorization is easy as pie, but also grammar rules and conjugation. But I can't write. Not anymore.

I hate being banned from Reddit. Even my VPN won't help me get around it. I know there's a ton of false info on there but there's still nothing comparable to the crowdsourcing ability of a reddit forum. You can be pointed to so many resources so quickly.

Taylor Swift's current album might be even worse than the last one. This is according to someone who enjoys her old stuff as fun, unabashed pop. I think it sucks so much because I figured there was no way she could produce a SIXTH sad girl mid tempo album in a row with Max Martin on board. Nope.

I thought it was illegal to threaten the President. www.yahoo.com/news/article...

I just paid $300 to be told "he's fine" again when I just know he's not. 😭 I know what it's like to be sick when there's no one to help me, or no relief to be had. I couldn't live with myself if I didn't keep trying. When I'm sickest, he sits on my pillow and guards me. I'll take care of him too.

Who knows a lot about Tijuana??? I have a lot of questions and a VERY short amount of time to get them answered in.

Months later and I'm still discovering fun ways someone uses my disability to abuse me, knowing I couldn't find out what they were doing. I keep thinking it's all over & then another lie is uncovered or damage is found. I'm so tired.

I understand I'm old now and I'm the one who's out of touch, but I feel like in 5 years I'm not going to have any regrets about not hopping on the long jorts trend.

I remember this. The Conservative Political Action Conference would prefer you forget.

I have never book an Airbnb in my life (I stopped being able to travel right around when they became a mainstream option) and now I'm like "why don't they announce when they have stairs?! 😭" I don't know how to pick a good one.

I told my Uber driver, young guy, to play whatever he liked when he asked if I had a music preference. He changed the Top 40 to Sinatra & has been singing along from his chest the whole way there. It's nice.

I'm so tired of being in so much pain. I have to rip up floorboards and have someone fix water damage. I need to install a cat door and arrange a surgery, get a car ignition replaced and get a consultation on a contract. And my pain is so extreme it's hard even with help, cuz I can barely think.

One of the worst things about being old is how often it turns out you need a lawyer & how hard it is to find a good one that you can also afford. "Are these terms favorable? Empty your bank account to find out now!" Lol. Ugh 💀🙂

Someone I love has cancer. I volunteered to handle the bills cuz I can't go physically help & it's killing me that I can't do anything. But I know the insurance system, & I can manage this from bed. I feel like this about Democracy. The solution to feeling scared/anxious is action, however small.

I just saw that Fox News has 22,000 followers on here. What the fuck people. We KNOW they lie and spread propaganda. Why spread it for them?

"I hate ICE so I'm gonna shoot the people they kidnap!" Sure, Trump administration. Sure.

We know Trump is lying when he says Tylenol causes autism, but why? The FDA is set to approve folinic acid supplement Leucovorin to "treat" autism. Over 50% of American kids are covered by Medicaid or CHIP, and states will be required to cover the cost of Leucovorin Guess who sells Leucovorin?

Can y'all give me your favorite microwave meals from Trader Joe's? MUST be microwave or eaten cold Nothing with ovens or toaster ovens, nothing with any prep. Health is in a bad way. Someone is doing a grocery run & I don't remember the names of things it's been so long ❤️

It's funny how you don't hear the phrase "alt-right" anymore because what was "alt-right extremism" in 2015 is the GOP party line now The term alt-right was made up by the nazi Richard Spencer. It's only purpose was to slap a new name onto Nazism & make it's ideals more palatable to the mainstream

"Wow you guys just call everyone you don't like a Nazi!" If you copy Nazi Chief propagandist Joseph Goebbel's speeches term for term, say hail victory (that's sieg heil, for those who don't know), & refer to the "storm" then yeah... you are a literal Nazi.

New Holiday!

I know it's not the best language learning app but does anyone wanna split the cost of a "Family" Duolingo membership? It's basically $5 a month if I split it with one other person, & gets cheaper from there. Far from perfect but I supplement it and it motivates me to stay on top of studying.

I didn't watch the Charlie Kirk memorial either (ew) But for the sake of knowing where this country is in terms of Nazis unmasking I think some of you need to see what was said at that memorial. This is a very mask off, open Nazi propaganda speech. Plan accordingly. www.tiktok.com/t/ZTM8Dc7yu/

Disney adults with literal walls full of mouse ears canceled their subscriptions. They canceled their Disney cruises. One cancelled a $150,000 Disney wedding. All Disney cares about is shareholder value, so hit them where it hurts, it WORKS. deadline.com/2025/09/jimm...

I need those weird TikTok freaks predicting the rapture to be right. GTF outta here, Jesus can have you.

If you come on here trying to mess with my safety, I will destroy you. I'm very, very good at finding people and rarely talk about it because I'm not about to train you on how to avoid me. No profile pic, 10 followers? I will find you. Don't fuck with me, you will not enjoy the results.

Me any time I see a man:

This is what they are trying to do with Charlie Kirk, btw. Straight out of the Nazi playbook. en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Horst_W...

On a trip to get me some injections in my leg, my brother opined that if I ever get healthier and can re-enter the dating world, it's great that I'm bisexual because "Why would anyone in their right mind want to date some 40 year old man?" 💀

If women lose property rights, is the only way to protect ourselves to hand it over to a man we trust & hope he does right by us before that actually happens? I've been working on setting up a trust but trusts count on the law that we know, that exists. I need a lavender protection marriage.

Did well for a month or two. Don't even know what I did, slept wrong maybe? And I'm crushed back into being unable to move from the bed. Can't shower. Can't get to the kitchen. Can't pet the cats I've started finding grey hairs & it dawned on me that it'll never change. I'm going to die in this bed

Finally saw Superman. My sole takeaway is that David Cornsweet can get it in a way Henry Cavill never could. James Gunn understands people *extremely* well. Superman needs to be cute. THAT is the hometown boy next door thing so many edgy remakes couldn't capture. Gunn is for the girlies.

Can people advise me where to find legal information about my rights & limitations informing people of someone's status as a sex offender? I think everyone in his girlfriend's neighborhood should know, but it's not his neighborhood Yes, she has multiple children and yes, she knows and doesn't care

“You used to be able to say anything” comedians never been more quiet in their lives

I've had this funny thought recently about how Hollywood & Las Vegas aren't going to last forever. I grew up in LA, thinking they were these sort of eternal fixtures, but when you think about it, they haven't been around that long. Eventually, history shifts, and things change. Strange to see.

"We are all going to have to live here with each other"? Honey, that is only something you can say when you are under the delusional assumption that the future of America is business as usual. A nazi's plan is not & has never been to allow us to live alongside them. They don't stop at "disagree"

My dad disappeared for a bit, something he's wont to do, but it's so frustrating. He's older & chronically ill. If you lose your phone, borrow one! Tell your daughter so she doesn't have to send emergency services to your non responsive ass & wait until they let her know if you're alive or dead 😭😡

I think many people are still under the comforting delusion that there are institutions and norms that will save us. The thing about fascists is they don't ask for permission, they just plow through laws and norms daring anyone to do more than express annoyance. Historically, this is always true.

Looking at old text messages with a person I can no longer stand, wondering how it was possible to ever be so happy with someone so ridiculous. Then I remember that a crush is just a lack of information. And boy did I lack a lot of information.

Have you *ever*, in all the thousands of shootings in America, heard a word about a friend, roommate or partner of a shooter?

Evergreen.

Can somebody tell me the best way to get a cheap flight to Mexico City these days? I used to be giving great a travel advice but I haven't been able to do it for a really long time.

I'm watching Euphoria and I find it really weird when people don't pick up right away on the fact that certain show runners are dangerous creeps. I'm two episodes in and there's like three different plot lines about porn. Graphic sex is one thing, but this guy is *obsessed* with porn. Weirdo.

The right is working overtime to turn Charlie Kirk's death into their "BLM" movement. Cuz apparently "guy who mainstreamed Nazi ideology shot by groyper who didn't think he was Nazi enough" is exactly the same as "Police routinely murder Black people and have for decades, we'd like them to stop."

I have CRPS. 10 years ago the diagnosis was usually "lady who is insane". These days I am what they call "textbook". Medical science continues to advance, pretty rapidly at that. Runaway technology has been bad for many things, but the advances in healthcare have been enormous.