i am sooo cold and mostly hair but my hair sooooo good this time of year

I'm actually sooo sick of having URGENT PAYMENT NOW pop up from my voluntary stuff & having no support to fo any of the financial management

julian bashir has never looked cool in his life EXCEPT when he's in his bell riots clothing

why is everyone so devoid of joy in their hearts in Britain

I've a corner in my room that I have realised needs a bookshelf and now I find myself staring at it, longing for the bookshelf that isn't yet there

2025 highlights include: -going on holiday by myself to Paris -the pride I run won an award -presented at a big work conference -began writing again -deepening my friendships even more including moving in w/ one of my closest friends I'm also cigarette free (4 months) & haven't self harmed in 10.

absolutely mashed surrounded by people I love!!!!!?

"Beyond Gender" photography and it's literally just. Attractive people

“fantasy solutions” is what reasonable centrists say to defend the status quo. our whole society is a fantasy solution, we are accelerating full speed towards a climate catastrophe, and pretend radically transforming society is fantasy while ignoring the laws of thermodynamics is realism.

i think you're fine to perpetuate this kinda take but you then need to offer policy solutions that'll materially improve people's lives and communities. the centre and centre-left are ready to criticise everyone but aren't offering solutions

I'm having a party this evening for New Year's and I've made Blue Cheese Orange Lentil Rolls, as well as Butternut Squash fig pecan cheese tarts. There may be a carrot tart of some kind coming, as well as a potato beansprout peanut salad. If people don't eat my food tonight I will cause a scene

I just saw something so intensely antisemitic in relation to Zack Polanski that I actually think he should sue the person who did it

was looking for my fave pic of me this year and completely forgot about this from a wedding I went to and??? my hair was SO long anyway i think this is a good contender here

The amount of queer people I've hooked up with who've said to me "you were the first person to realise I just wanted a friend" really sucks. Dating should not be your only way to queer people

In practice arguing for gender as a construct while not fully pushing sex as changeable has led to cis people, conservative and liberal, seeing sex as set in stone truth and gender as either fake gay shit to hate or fake gay shit to be polite about that doesn't actually change one's preconceptions

Been watching films, chilling with family, eating nice food and trying not to be On. It's been nice. I struggle so much to switch off and take a break, nothing feels like I've worked hard enough but it's been nice to be with family who love me and want me around as Haf, and no one else.

watched My Cousin Vinny for the first time & mona lisa vito the transition goal that you are

I need to figure out more new years plans for the gals this year! Hmmmmmmmmmmm🧐

Merry Christmas. I'm going to attempt a phone detox until the 27th. Have a good one if you celebrate and a good day nonetheless if you don't. Sending love if Christmas time is a hard time of year for you.

I've three things to write. An MA application to do. Lots of voluntary responsibilities. Housework to sort. Bit none of that matters. I'm on a train and it is fucking Christmas. Simply cannot be on all the time

stood for an hour on my train to Shropshire way & not a drop of water left

"we just stock decapeptyl regularly in our surgey which is why we just rejected your medication and didn't explain that. merry christmas!" AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA so I could have booked in with the nurse already!!!

After re-registering at a new GP and booking in a nurse appointment that completely messes up my Christmas plans it turns out my new GP has not approved my decapeptyl anyway I want to support the NHS but when burnt out workers make uninformed decisions on my care it doesn't make me sympathetic

*sigh*.

Why after booking two different appointments, changing from one GP to another, have I just found out my decapeptyl prescription has been rejected anyway. I've spent all of December trying to get this fucking injection

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These new mary janes are perfect and my first ever feminine shoe. Usually I go everywhere in walking boots so it's nice to wear something that accentuates my femme outfits

obviously passing isn't a moral thing, the goal etc but so nice for strangers to say "let the lady through"!!!

passed in public can I get a W in chat chat

sometimes I must regularly remind myself "most women you're in community with weren't around when Action for Trans Health was, you are showing your age"

My mum got me some shoes for my birthday that makes me nearly 6"10 😅😅😅

these are the people that told us women need to be protected from trans people btw, it has always been an anti-feminist backlash

All in all I had a nice birthday and my loved ones wanted to do their best to appreciate me. I'm feeling accomplished in my organising and voluntary efforts, and somewhat in my own personal growth too. NHS means my medical transition has taken my whole 20s and a bit of my 30s, which is kinda taxing

The great link is queer, the dominion is imperialist. Together in synthesis they form the ultimate homonationalism; one that transcends the stars themselves. They embody and reshape around their colonist intentions. In this essay I will--

I'm watching The Jem'Hadar and it is honestly. One of the best episodes of the show that has such good rewatch value too

I’m so grateful for all the support and would appreciate if you keep sharing this and helping out if you can. Even a small amount will help us out 🫶🏾🖤

it would be super nice if people could share this because in addition to saving for our move we will probably have to pay a lot for joy’s dental bills, we just made an allergy test for materials used in dentistry , and joy is allergic to a bunch of stuff that they had in their mouth for a decade

getting gradually hungover as the day goes on SUUUCKS

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My essence captured now as a 29 year old. Ageing at the end of the year makes me v reflective unfortunately.

29 more like filled with white wine am I right

it's my birthday so feel free to be suuuper nice to me and compliment and flirt with me!

love looking this glam at my woke office job. so funny

I love when men shout at me on a trade union chat

Can't believe I'm getting my anti-androgen shot on Christmas Eve. The NHS really does have a sense of humour sometimes.

I had my egg cracked by watching DS9, finishing my degree and realising I didn't want to be a heterosexual guy in a relationship I realised I was a woman when it felt the world was being so misogynistic towards me, and feminism seemed to be the only thing making sense of my identity

the thing that makes me SO angry about McSweeney is that all these labour right types who believe in incrimentalism and that they're much more "grown up" aren't actually good strategists, they're good liars & ADMIT IT FLAGRANTLY

w-what. Like, post-WWII is the Attlee govt, one of the most successful labour govts of the 20th cen. What tf are you talking about??? should National Labour remain as a dominant political force with the toothless useless Ramsay MacDonald????