is there a word for when you coax someone into going to do something that you’ve done before, you two go, and while their experience was lovely and they had a fabulous time — yours went pear shaped?

I had an unofficial uniform during my MLIS and I think that people thinking of me as being at my most stylish during that period is a direct result of that

I can make fun of dark/light academia posters as much as I want but at least they’re having fun and maybe making friends on tiktok over their cute outfits and personal curricula. meanwhile I don’t even have time or energy to look cute or be that social while I’m in final year crunch 😭

Thinking abt the time I wouldn’t stop seizing and the hospital gave me this helpful infographic.

Vous en pensez quoi la team j'achète ou pas ?

unfortunately my natural hair color is just light enough that it greying will never quite look sexy

thinking about him again

I was kind of trying to astroturf an obsession with Helsik on my end for a writing project (I do really really like the character so it’s not too much of a stretch. it’ll come.) but tbh I think I just need something important that I should actually be doing instead

I use this acct so frequently as a tavqotd soundboard that sometimes I think people forget what I’m *really* insane about and I feel the need to fire some rent-stabilizing threeleaf gunshots before going back inside

posters madness can be cured with enough weed

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that meeting might’ve scared me so bad that I might start fucking around even less

on a video call w/my family and had to kill an absolutely massive spider and literally all of them yelled at me for it

critical role pet peeve is when someone says something like “Molly/Kingsley” or “Molly/Lucien” as if they’re interchangeable when the whole point is that they are three distinct separate people that just so happen to share the same body

we got flurona shots today and Olive keeps delicately putting her paw on the injection site. ow.

spent some time perusing an old geocities site that was all anime screencaps today. effervescent

one day when I was about 26 I looked up and went “if I get everything of mine that touches the outside world (bags, luggage, jackets, wallets, shoes, cases) in black leather with gold toned metal accents when required, I will never feel a need to replace it.” and you know what. he was right

just like ambiently asking people to light a candle for me or something bc these past few weeks have been A Lot

ultimately, zohran mamdani is a reminder that politicians can be younger than 80 years old

They’ve dubbed me “The Digital Twerp”

"Women don't like the vehicle."

Long story short, an actual Nazi doxxing ring. Enough people reported them that they went away for like 12 hours and then Elon personally brought them back. The site is dead. If you’re still on there, go lock your account right now

should I update my strawpage layout. the parlor setup is cute but it feels stale lately

made some really excellent pizzas last night

He did it again for the 5 year anniversary

just saw some yuri that made me do what can only be described as an old man cough

you'd think a prominent news outlet like the New York Times might mention that "antifa" isn't an actual organization in a long story about antifa, but nope! and the subhead helps props up a false claim this professor was up to something seedy as something up for debate

My favorite armchair comment is Americans don‘t understand authoritarianism, because so many of you don’t count Black people as Americans. Learn the history or shut up.

i commend people for being principled enough to pull up their stakes so soon but i will likely not be going anyplace else tbh. unless the bsky mods also hit a sieg heil on national television in the near future

“its so refreshing to see depictions of women eating whatever they want” i agree! but are any of the women in question also fat though

Charli should post sth like “it’s racist to assume I’m a drug addict just bc I’m brown :/” and then turn off her phone

I feel like getting into a beef with Charli XCX is a losing proposition. You'd work hard on all these lyrics. Meanwhile her song is just her saying, "you're rude," followed by three minutes of breakcore

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Pyaari is so decent 🥺

Once again, Bluesky has deleted my friend Sama'a's account. www.gofundme.com/f/help-baha-...

“did you girlboss too close to the sun” is a real line from a brand new taylor swift song i just don’t believe it lmfao

revna is winding up karlach so that they can melt a path to shelter. gale or halsin would be her worst nightmare. giada would happily spend it with gale. frankly I don't think she'd like halsin either.

we dunk on the concept of historical and fantasy characters somehow having a perfect understanding of bdsm safety protocols but i think we also need to free ourselves of putting modern terms for gender and sexuality in the mouths of characters who would've never seen a pineapple.

well i think if your response to someone writing a confessional track about how you are so successful in the field you share that it makes her feel insecure and anxious is to then write a song making fun of her for her drug use and calling her a whiny bitch then imo you are, in a word, a loser

fw me!!!

me, to everyone who will listen for the past 3 years: we finally got a drip coffee maker. I have drip coffee in my house for the first time in three years. I’ve had four cups. Am I talking too fast?

it is raining. I submitted a chapter draft on weds so I have the rest of the week off. I have coffee set up and rolled a ***** for when I wake up, and there’s still bagels and leftover bagel sandwich fixings. and I have yuri queued up on the ereader. fw me

If you have two minutes free right now, call Netflix and leave a comment in support of this programming and ask them to stand up for their shows against political pressure. Phone number is 1-866-952-4456, and I waited less than a minute before a human picked up.

Just as an aside Bluesky has addressed exactly zero of the concerns raised by the open letter to them about their treatment of Palestinians including the one basically set up for them to have a PR win- providing their TOS in Arabic

it was the most liberating thing in the world to be writing an ungodly amount of fic about a minor character from a big IP while being only tangentially aware of the fandom at large. playing barbies with the council of bisexuals on my phone is the only way going forward. I didn’t know what I had.

Nice titmouse. Tufted?

the moon blinked. instant, easy to miss, but i saw it. now she sees me. the veil has been lifted, that forbidden covenant between man and moon broken; never peek behind the curtain, never know her for what she truly is. now she stares death. oblivion approaches, rising with her hateful tides. lmao