Blythe Davis
@noooooothanku.bsky.social
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🤷🏼♂️™️ Hyperfixation: gluten-free sourdough
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"because the more fluent you become in other people’s needs, the harder it becomes to locate your own. you lose sight of where you end and they begin. you start performing yourself in ways that earn connection but cost authenticity. "
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who are you when you’re not pleasing anyone?
on fawning, fatigue, fear of being too much, and the emotional cost of making yourself easier to love
https://open.substack.com/pub/softperception/p/who-are-you-when-youre-not-pleasing?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=tsr2v
6 months ago
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I hate head colds. So overstimulating
2 days ago
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Mike
4 days ago
Name is identity Misidentification is disempowerment
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Ele Willoughby
4 days ago
This linocut shows an improbability of puffins in all senses of the words. The collective noun for a group of puffins is an “improbability”. 🧪🐡🪶Isn’t that marvellous? Puffins look rather improbable to me, with their tuxedo coats & tails & their red, Roman noses... I mean beaks. These are Atlantic 🧵
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jamelle
4 days ago
recorded this last week
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Why Congress Needs to Treat ICE Like the Ku Klux Klan
YouTube video by Takes™ by Jamelle Bouie
https://youtu.be/WptX5i2_O1U
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The way my taste buds love blue raspberry flavor is concerning. Is it because we are in times of crisis or because im a product of the nineties?
4 days ago
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What gain do people truly get by not being straightforward about their needs & wants interpersonally? Control? Temporary social favor? Like it seems like a not worthy investment but what do I know🤷🏼♂️
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MinnPost
about 1 month ago
A little, 3D-printed whistle is making a lot of noise among those protesting ICE actions.
www.minnpost.com/metro/2025/1...
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How whistles became a 'tool of resistance' against ICE raids
Twin Cities activists have distributed hundreds of whistles to help warn neighbors about federal immigration enforcement.
https://www.minnpost.com/metro/2025/12/not-just-a-toy-how-whistles-became-a-tool-of-resistance-against-ice-immigration-enforcement/
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"The report warns that AI's echo chamber can stunt a child's emotional growth: "We learn empathy not when we are perfectly understood, but when we misunderstand and recover," one of the surveyed experts said."
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The risks of AI in schools outweigh the benefits, report says
A new report warns that AI poses a serious threat to children's cognitive development and emotional well-being.
https://www.npr.org/2026/01/14/nx-s1-5674741/ai-schools-education?fbclid=IwY2xjawPUuxJleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZBAyMjIwMzkxNzg4MjAwODkyAAEecKwS7WiHODdRwaAIHc0IKKgTPLsJUcv1Kn1LgZAuoB0ZnJTB-Tp9n44BIDQ_aem_KrYngXgaYQPHa9asL3-0LQ
8 days ago
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Seeing bugs outside in January....in the Midwest is creeping me out. Like im in Wisconsin
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Hometown/home state doing me proud🥹
www.reddit.com/r/minnesota/...
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From the minnesota community on Reddit: At the Minneapolis, Minnesota rally and protest against Trump's ICE, the crowds are huge, begging for justice for Renee Good: Say her name! Renee Good! Show me ...
Explore this post and more from the minnesota community
https://www.reddit.com/r/minnesota/s/3CnBmdSUWL
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"So for those of us who were taught to “just be nice” rather than how to be clear about our needs, desires, preferences and intentions(...) While the goal of pleasing others might seem satisfactory in the short run (or at least keep us out of harm’s way in the moment), it is actually unsustainable."
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Nice is not an identity- it's a Trauma Response 🤦🏻♀️
A Neurodivergent Ritual for Jan 9, or whenever you have the spoons.
https://open.substack.com/pub/practicalmagicforneurodivergents/p/nice-is-not-an-identity-its-a-trauma?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=tsr2v
13 days ago
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@hamzam.medsky.social
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Cancer full moon had a rainbow when I looked at her 🥹
19 days ago
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I am willingly wasting time trying to figure out why people get offended when I tell them im not having another baby because of my mental health, disabilities, and wallet. Like It would legit be unfair to imaginary child and my real kid. Anyway.
19 days ago
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Okay stranger things finale I experienced all the emotions and didnt sit down so WELL DONE, DRAGON
22 days ago
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Truly.
28 days ago
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ACLU
29 days ago
We ❤️ arguing. If you do too, here's everything you need to navigate holiday dinner table discussions about immigrants’ rights, transgender rights, and more.
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The ACLU's Holiday Conversation Guide
Pass the yams and the politically-fraught chatter, everyone - it's that time of year again. We know many of us will find ourselves gathering around tables this holiday season with a wide range of folks in our lives - loved ones, friends, chosen family, and the family you'd only choose to spend one day a year with.
https://www.aclu.org/the-aclus-holiday-conversation-guide?initms_aff=nat&initms_chan=soc&utm_medium=soc&initms=awr-social-bsky-social-nat-blog-civilliberties-blog-blog&utm_source=bsky&utm_campaign=blog&utm_content=awr-social-bsky-social-nat-blog-civilliberties-blog-blog&ms_aff=nat&ms_chan=soc&ms=awr-social-bsky-social-nat-blog-civilliberties-blog-blog
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I think i may put, " im not here to socialize" im my permanent scripting rotation.
29 days ago
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Celebrated Jólabókaflóð at MPL east side with the refreshing
@hamzam.medsky.social
about 1 month ago
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In February it will be one year off of Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok and my only regret remains not doing it sooner. I still have room to grow with how I am present &mindful I am and im glad I left. Also just because this feels good for me dosent mean thats the same for you.
about 1 month ago
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MSO holiday concert with
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🤍💛 the hanukkah song was the best
about 1 month ago
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This semester I broke part of my foot and two toes, had kidney stones, my dog, uncle and guinea pig past away and I found out my mom needs open heart surgery so God bless starting my break early and GOOD BYE FALL SEMESTER.
about 1 month ago
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Stunning
add a skeleton here at some point
about 1 month ago
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There was a time where I truly believe because I struggle to perform and like, "small talk" it was because I was anti community and a bad person all because some "cool" people on Instagram said that. Anyways, im autistic and it turns out struggling with small talk dosent mean im the anti christ. 🤷🏼♂️
about 1 month ago
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When people remember that im a teacher and a parent it makes me feel more human.
about 1 month ago
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Im not typically a praying human but baby jesus please give me the strength and discipline to not pop the f*** off this week and remember to be responsive and predictable as we head into the last school week before winter Break. Amen.
about 1 month ago
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Costco hotdogs without the buns anda berry smoothie for lunch because idk protein and fiber 🤷🏼♂️💖
about 1 month ago
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Eating shrimp cocktail and watching period dramas from my bed. As God intended me to be in my luteal phase
about 1 month ago
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Shout out to Maddy for convincing me to not force quit my occupation.
about 1 month ago
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Me everytime someone gets mad at me when it "takes so long for you to process something" Yeah hoe its called DELAYED PROCESSING DISORDER and it's deeply affiliated with many neurodivergencies. Yiiiiish
about 1 month ago
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Fidget dinner pizza rolls and edamame
about 2 months ago
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Real Af thank you to the people of reddit
about 2 months ago
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Just two introverts lounging on a snowy sunday.
about 2 months ago
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Happy comfy cozy to everyone expect people who end e v e r y text with an emoji. Who hurt you and why are you like this?
about 2 months ago
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I really felt EVERY inch of this Gemini moon transiting my 7th house while aspecting the north and south node. Delightful and dreadful at once. Yay multidimensionality
about 2 months ago
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In 2 years ive lived in Wisconsin longer than ive lived in Minnesota. What a thought.
about 2 months ago
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First sizable snow in a while. My spawn is holding our dogs boots incase she wants to come play in the snow with him. 😭😭😭😭😭😭
about 2 months ago
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I adore snowy weather.
about 2 months ago
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Richard Pettigrew
about 2 months ago
Finally getting some theological clarity on the ethics of reclining in one’s plane seat
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Weeping at socially inconvenient times (Less so today) We have our first real snowfall where I live.And seeing the backyard without my dogs footprints or remnants that she played and explored the joy of snow had me weeping on my way to the gym. Bless solo time in the car.
about 2 months ago
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Things that made me weep openly in public In menards because I need salt for my driveway and I see someone with a cart of dog things talking about how excited they are to spoil their dog. Darn right you are. Please ignore my face
about 2 months ago
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Things that unintentionally made me weep in public
about 2 months ago
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Birdie girl. Knowing you was like seeing colors or hearing for the first time the world made more sense because you were in my life. I dont remember much until you came into my life in 2016. Thanks for making life magical and bearable. Rest in playfulness and power, my girl.
about 2 months ago
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Sometimes I read books to my kiddo before bed. Sometimes we do yoga, or math or spelling. Last night he asked me how to head bang and if we could do 2 handstand before bed
about 2 months ago
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First thing I read on my birthday and tbh its a win. " But here’s the thing: they don’t need to understand you to love you. And you don’t need to be understood to live in your truth."
open.substack.com/pub/hasifff/...
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Let them be wrong about you
Living Beyond the Labels: When Perception Doesn’t Define You
https://open.substack.com/pub/hasifff/p/let-them-be-wrong-about-you?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=tsr2v
2 months ago
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Few minutes into 36 feels like a whimiscal reality check.
2 months ago
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I feel this in my bones. Especially in college
2 months ago
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Admittedly, i was a bit annoyed when my dog started waking me up for walks at 430 am. Im still annoyed AND I know the world is less overwhelming for her so she has an easier time so ill keep on.
2 months ago
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