You're allowed to exist. You're allowed to take up space. You're allowed to want nice things. #comics #mentalhealth

Traumatic grief is like you died and now you're a cicada shell trying to go to work and pay bills and celebrate birthdays and attend events. #ptsd

It's been a while since I drew a cute clown!! I got a cute clown bjd from a blind box, and I love her so much, I had to draw her 🩷 #ambart

My novels are light and funny, but under the facade they are deeply meaningful and I really hope that resonates with people. I put my whole heart in it.

Saw this on tiktok and it reminded me so much of #candlelighter... The story starts with a prophecy that all the characters journey to avert and only the "villian" accepts the truth. It's heartbreaking and I LOVE IT.

Happy #caturday

Beau enjoying the sunshine this Sunday. He's 13 this year. We're spoiling him.

Happy Mother's Day. Sitting in the sun, watching the wind blowing through the treetops... the day is so beautiful, but I my thoughts and heart are still with the two of you. I miss you so deeply. I wish I could hold you again. 💔

I miss her She was so perfect

We said goodbye to our sweet precious Ginkgo today. She gave us two months of time after her diagnosis. Rest in peace, we will love you always and forever. Thank you for being in our lives. 💐

Today was nice. Met some kittens, went on a 5 mile hike. Saw a fence lizard, a checkerspot butterfly, and a huge bird with a yellow tail that looked like an oropendola-- but there's no way, right??? Not in California. It was too fast for a photo.

Scientists: You should get 7-9 hours of sleep a night. You risk disease and higher mortality rate if you don't sleep enough. Me with my 5.5-6hrs and high cortisol wake up calls:

Wife and I do everything together, but today I went for a walk alone to escape chainsaws and she's at work. I forgot how fast I walk when alone. My legs feel like jelly.

Found a tiny bench on my walk and took a pic of the dog on it— he looks HUGE, HAHAHA!!! He's only 20 pounds!!! 🤣🤣💕

Office mac email tried to correct bookkeeping as "bookkepping" and "properly" as "properlu"... SIIIIIGGHHHHHH

Cw ill animal. Ginkgo update. She's been declining this week. It's come to the point where we need to consider whether it's time to transition from active treatment to simply keeping her comfortable. Hard to believe this photo is from only three weeks ago. She looks different now. Sweet baby girl.

Happy #caturday! Here's a photo of a mama cat in a pet shop, begging for a break from her six rambunctious kittens. One of my dreams is to one day adopt a mama cat and one of her kittens.

I only have two things that have been crucial investments: One is my car. The other is our carpet cleaner. How many times has this thing saved me!? Big problems become small problems. Especially when animals are involved.

Really grateful to the person who told my boss that it may not be appropriate for me to sit in the interviews of my potential replacements. 🙏 One week left.

The car in front of me on the drive to work was covered in flower petals. They'd scatter toward me every time we proceeded past a stop. Literally drove on a flower path this morning.

Folding laundry, cat on my lap.

Happy International Asexuality Day!

I only say I'm in my villain era when the sun is out.

Today is #AsexualVisibilityDay, also known as International Asexuality Day, which is celebrated every year on the 6th of April. Interested in learning more about #asexuality, building up the courage to come out, or want to support a loved one?

Happy International Asexuality Day! Ace erasure in the cis community is very real. Ace erasure in the queer community is very real. Ace erasure in the Ace community is very real. Anyone on the Ace spectrum is valid.

Indeed!

On this day, 49 years ago.

I never thought "I love real art" is something I'd ever have to say.

thinking about this today. i wish us all a very No Raisins

Happy #caturday! Here's Cinder enjoying her hidden sleeping spot under the window and behind the couch. 💕

Day 4 of inserting "Weird Al" Yankovic into a Star Trek screenshot #WeirdTrek #StarTrek #StarTrekTOS #WeirdAlYankovic

Trans women are biological women. Trans men are biological men. Please stop using the phrase “biological” to distinguish cis from trans people. Cis does just fine and you’re also revealing your own ignorance of how biology works, as well as underlying inherent transphobia, even if unintentionally.

Witch who wears a construction cone as their Big Hat

I love my wife. Get yourself a wife. Not my wife though, she's taken.

Happy World Autism Day

Happy World Autism Day

Ginkgo was playing today 💕💕💕

Gave my notice today. It was heartbreaking. They don't want me to leave. I feel sad. 😞 Change is hard.

I wouldn't get into a strangers car if they offered me a ride, but the way my wife and I would disappear forever if a stream train rolled up and offered one.

There's just a few days left on this awesome bundle of queer books! My co-author @elibisme.bsky.social and I have a charming fantasy novel in here with sapphic and ace rep and I'm seeing a lot of other wonderful books by amazing authors! Don't miss out! itch.io/b/3545/a-ver...

Their shows are on.

Happy #caturday! Here's Ginkgo looking up from lying in front of the heater, with bed head and twisted whiskers. Unfortunately, we received mixed news about her condition yesterday— but she's still strong and happy!

We went to our dentist appointment recently and the office was closed, dark inside. Left messages. No response. Dentist vanished. Today we finally get a voicemail from someone saying they can explain what happened, but we were busy and missed it— ohhhh what was it?!! Have to wait until next week!

Ahhhh lying down feels so nice, my sheets feel so nice, this week was so exhausting. Is 6pm an insane time to go to bed or should I just go to bed...

Thinking back on #witchsprince with new hope on the horizon. ML is a lunatic mage cop that uses murder for problem-solving and MC is the only one who can control him.

The positive thing rn is that the new job gives me hope that I can get my novels back on the road to publishing instead of sitting in poverty limbo. Should I start aiming for the end of summer to get eyes on The Witch's Prince??? Dare I be so hopeful?? I dare.

I have a new job lined up (congrats, me!), but I haven't even been able to give my old job notice because no one is here this week. This week has been so hard. I'm ready to be done with this. 😩 No more operations, please!!!

Keychain commission for @cadenzadaze.bsky.social !