Very interesting reading and framework.

Indeed, I have the same approach, my sadism, my Dominance does not come with an outfit. Yet, to get access to some clubs, an outfit is required. It's very frustrating sometimes.

I’m seeing more photos of suspension bondage these days but no mention of suspension trauma and mitigation. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suspens... I think you should be doing it so that the sub can push their feet back against a solid object (wall) and limiting time suspended. Are people doing this?

Coming soon! Will you be there? Ben je erbij? Info and registration: www.ultimate-dream.nl/ultimate-bou...

Nothing hotter than observing a boy slowly going deeper and deeper, submitting more and more with each act, which each obeyed order. That’s my role as Dom/Sir to do my best to help him fall as deep as possible.

The party with lots of space and opportunities to play! Want to join? Register on the website! www.ultimate-dream.nl/ultimate-bou...

Feels obvious but apparently a needed PSA

Die Bondageguys sind bereit für die Eröffnung des neuen „#Bondage Workplace Mainz“ 🪢 Bondageguys are ready for Sunday‘s opening of the new „#Bondage Workplace Mainz“ ropestuff.de

FFS kinkster! Stop using these new blow-up collars! They are neither a safe nor a gradual way for breath control but fucking dangerous and lethal in ways you probably did not think off! toytorture.com/warning-agai...

For me, it’s more the chair I use to put my feet on and set them up on a boy 😈

This is a public service announcement for the locked boys out there. Especially so if you have a foreskin. 24/7 locked does not mean 24/7 locked. And no, it’s not cheating. Wash yourselves daily and your cage at least once a week. @kink3d.com

Upping this in case there’s interest.

Leather does taste good 😇

My version would be: and that’s how switch are born. One day, a Dom is curious enough about how a flogger feels to ask a friend to try it. 😂

Hello, perverts in my phone. Do you have any recommendations of dildo for throat training? Brand and model? Looking for regular cock size, long enough to enter the throat but not wanting to say hello to the stomach, flexible.

Easter Berlin is over And it’s been another great event for me. @quaelgeist.bsky.social was as welcoming as usual. So nice to feel surrounded by likeminded folks. @gxusm.bsky.social is a great Dom. I felt very challenged but at the same time safe and cared for. Thank you for the experience Sir 😊

You forgot nap after eating, Sir 😜. But beside that, I agree totally. Time spent at @quaelgeist.bsky.social is always amazing.

Warning for those traveling to Berlin this WE, planing to do #chemsex: there's a new substance called NEP being sold as Speed, 3mmc or Mephedron. It is much stronger, lasts longer & has a higher toxicity! If you buy white powder drugs, start with ⅓ of your dose Please be safe & warn others!

Also I keep saying it because not enough people know, the risks from breath control are not “just” from lack of oxygen. It carries a very high risk of triggering a type of heart attack that is very difficult to treat. Please read up and be aware.

Hot sounds are hot 😈

Friendly reminder to set aside some time to practice some wellness exercises, find self-awareness, and contextualize your emotions through retrospection and extrospection 🫶

End of year reminder that January is literally the worst possible month for you to randomly decide that you're 'going to go for a run every single day'. Do yoga or some shit that lets you exercise indoors.

Found out one of these was at MFF. Wish I could say I'm flattered, but I'm not. This hood is a part of my identity and has personal and spiritual significance to me. It fucking sucks to see it as Temu slop and even more that people in the community would support it. Get your own damn face people.

Just a reminder with the holidays coming up that you don’t owe your family that visit. You owe yourself being safe and happy. You can get support from lgbt.foundation And you can always call the Samaritans: ☎️ 116 123

It’s happening: Manchester Pride Protest is back for 2026 Sat 29th August (Bank holiday weekend). Meet 10am Castlefield Bowl. Depart 11am for protest parade through Manchester. No companies. No political parties. No terfs. Come join us and let’s take pride back!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

Well… that’s fucking hot 🥵🥵🥵

Just a little holiday PSA. Be good to each other. Dad said. 🤟🏼

And so hot when it happens 😈😇

If you can’t make it, there’s an online memorial book as well feel free to leave something there: pupneutron.muchloved.com

A few of us have been organising another memorial/celebration for Neutron. As he was involved with so many groups we wanted to give a chance for as many as possible to join. (Tickets are free, just so we get an idea of numbers) buytickets.at/neutron/1937...

Hey all! Are you kinky gearhead or fetishist looking to chat and meet with others? Check out the QKink discord server I run with a few friends! Up since 2020! discord.gg/x8UrwvD

I’ve done that with a pup. he's German and I was speaking French. It was a fun dynamic. Showing with gestures what I meant.

@loudmouthcontent on IG

This is a reminder. DO NOT do breath play on your own. It doesn't matter how experienced you are. If you pass out from lack of oxygen, on your own, when will someone find you? No breathplay item is "safe" when used solo.

What he said. This should remain "fun", whatever fun means for you. And there is nothing wrong with stopping locktober. It's a challenging task and health, mental and physical, is the priority

So, some people post stories and content about how power exchange, bdsm and fetishes take up space in their lives. Some people do photoshoots and horny videos that feature power exchange, bdsm and fetishes (and outfits!). I'm starting to realise that a lot of people can't tell the difference.

We cannot do it without you ! Our club is run by volunteers and we are always on the hunt for folks who are able to help with keeping it going - if you are interested please PM us :) See you in a few weeks time on Friday 26th September!

Reminds me of my first flogging 😂. By the same lovely @gxusm.bsky.social

I think I figured my fetish style this Folsom: regular clothes but fetish agacent brands combined with leather accessories. I don't feel like myself with the full leather style nor do I like wearing sportswear outside of short and T-shirt in closed events. It's a good thing 🙂

Folsom 2025 is over. A great edition with new connections and deepening existing ones. And with @quaelgeist.bsky.social as the playground where they are made.

You're all making me cry talking about folsom ending 😢

A great way to end Folsom. I’ll share my thoughts about it later.

So true and fundamentally so simple.

And we need further trials with @boybondage.bsky.social to arrive at a definitive conclusion on that point 😇

That was certainly a highlight of the day. Great co-Doming dynamic with @gxusm.bsky.social. And @boybondage.bsky.social did really well with the 100 pegs. Such lovely pain sounds 😈

Folsom Sunday evening tradition

Boost for the Sunday Chillout crowd

Coffee break while waiting for the plan. See you in Berlin.

The great dichotomy of BDSM. Being a big meanie Dom but being able to break that when needed.