Took a really sweet beginner's crochet class early this rainy morning! Stayed out of the rain and finished my first (messy!) length of single crochet. NYC tomorrow! 💕

"Luxury is not a necessity to me, but beautiful and good things are." 📸 @meetcatgold.com

Newsletter subscribers saw me bathhouse luxuriating first 😉

My first-ever Substack newsletter is out 💌

Siren

Do you have a New Year’s resolution? Yes you do and it’s to make bluesky your go-to social media for sexy content. You will forget your Twitter login 😵‍💫 uninstall the app from your phone 😵‍💫 forget about it entirely 😵‍💫 what’s twitter? Yeah, you dont know, never heard of it. Bluesky is your fav now

Arrived home to a gift from A 🥰 I'm cozied up and working on a newsletter update that will come via my Substack in the next couple days!

Welcomed the New Year in Tbilisi! Georgia turned out to be my favorite trip in years. Happy 2026 to those of you who celebrate 😉

Away until January 5th, but checking emails here and there. See you in 2026 :)

My newsletter is now hosted on Substack! I’ll be posting longer-form updates on my travel plans, date ideas, and the little particularities of my famed joie de vivre. You'll hear from me soon! 💌 substack.com/@thorav

January ❄️ Philadelphia │ 1/5 - 1/10 NYC │ 1/11 & 1/12 Chicago │ 1/16 - 1/20 Nashville │1/24 - 1/31

December 17 is recognized worldwide as the International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers - a day of remembrance, resistance, and solidarity. It began in 2003 in San Francisco as a memorial for the victims of the Green River Killer.

Charmed each other 😌

Very sad about Rob Reiner—and very, very grossed out by the media coverage 😕

I've been on some really quality first dates recently! There might be no better feeling than when someone new leaves me buoyant, energized, and looking forward to the future 💗

Can I sit with you?

My books until after the New Year are closed 🖤 I'm currently fielding pre-bookings in PHL/NYC/DC for the second week of January. Chicago & Nashville pending for the following weeks. The calendar on my website is updated and the easiest place to check out my availability!

Obsessed with these note cards a new sweetie brought me. Looking forward to sending some snail mail 💌

My love for em dashes is as old as the hills and as mighty as my inability to make a transition between thoughts literally any other way and I will be damned if I let the clankers take that from me

Afterglow

Friends with consistent creative practices, I'm looking for your advice! I currently have a pretty unconventional (but busy and exciting!) schedule. Lots of day to day changes, lots of travel. What's helped you work on creative projects regularly when your schedule is irregular?

Six feet of curves to adore—Where do you even begin?

Minimally controversial opinion ahead: There is only one Christmas album

Love to hang out in matching outfits (the hotel robes) with my lovers

NYC, I have a single availability on 12/15! Submit a form through my website if you're seeking a little cultivated misbehavior 😉💋

Come closer

There's a hip Gen X man inside me

I can't put into words how much I love taking the train

Can you all see my profile picture? 😳

Having a lot of fun reading this one :)

Dropping a big old hint that I'd love to play footsie under the table at Pietramala 😉

One of you who is extremely pure of heart sent me mohair pajama pants :') if this was you, please send an email so I can give you a virtual kiss!

Philly, I'll be your mirror 😉 🪞 I'm particularly kissable and available through 12/19.

Bedhead

You're always a delight to share indulgences with 💟

To be a slut and a scholar!!!! What a weighty burden upon these broad-ish shoulders

Oh Chicago, you are just as gray and wet and cold in November as I remember you, and I still love you 🥺

Being able to turn yourself on with how hot you are isn't narcissism. It's a gift 😇

It feels so very wonderful to carve out plans with Chicago sweethearts 🥲 Maintaining our connection over time and as I travel means a lot to me—there's no chemistry like that with an old flame

Let's get together! ❣️ Nashville: until 11/14 Chicago: 11/17-11/22 Pittsburgh: 11/23-11/26 Returning to PHL/NYC/DC on 11/27. No booking minimum in Philly, 90 minute minimums in NYC and DC except on announced dates (TBD). Available until I jet off on an adventure 12/19. 🖤

Unfortunately I do love: -velvet lingerie -rare books and first editions -men in touch with their feminine side -leather jackets -less time spent online -spontaneous international excursions -vintage knickknacks -attentive, rapturous body worship -whole afternoons in bed

Revisiting my personal Halloween favorite, Ginger Snaps 🖤 I'd love recs for similar! (Other than Jennifer's Body, which I already love.)

Going up!

My time is spoken for through October 9th! Happily fielding queries for the rest of October and early November in Nashville 💓

What are you reading?

Nashville, you're my home for September & October, and perhaps slightly beyond that if you really woo me 💓 I'll be staying off grid with limited data, so advanced pre-booking (screening and deposit-ready) is essential! Next PHL/NYC/DC availability in November/December 🍂

I've been booked and busy, enjoying life (mostly) offline: flirting, dancing, cooking, reading, and preparing for my next adventure. Travel announcement very soon 🖤

Chicago—it's time for a sweet reunion that will be all too brief. I have time for just a date or two August 17-20 💓

These dates have been pushed back due to a travel snafu! Look out for a stop in Chicago as well, TBA 💕

Minneapolis: if we've met before and you'd like to rendezvous, I'd be delighted to see you August 5-8! Available for a date or two in Philly August 12-27, and then I'm sashaying away. Let's catch each other while we can 💘