The sweetest way to let me know you've thought of me 🥰 Thanks for making my day!

Literally and figuratively having my time in the sun

Tried a new water ice spot that made it click. Lemon and cherry, not too sweet, savored on the sidewalk in the shade. My loyalty to the snowball is being challenged 😬

Casual reminder that I'm stunning and attainable 😏

“Your photos don’t do you justice at all.” And they never will, no amount of digital consumption of my image will replace the real thing.

Mid-spring beauties 🌼

Fire Walk With Me 🤫

Deleted by accident. Reposting because I care 😘

Chased the Mondays away 🤌

Finished this one recently along with the audiobook of "Stag Dance" by Torrey Peters. What have you been reading?

Are you going where your instincts lead you?

Hi, Pittsburgh!

Can't talk. In the honeymoon phase with my favorite sandwich in Philadelphia thus far

Built for touch.

You might think my ideal man is Timothee Chalamet. You might think it's Jacob Elordi. Wrong and wrong. It's J. Kenji Lopez-Alt.

A very happy 80th to John Waters!

My travel plans have been updated on my substack and website 💙

Recently revisited Little Miss Sunshine, watched The Substance a couple years late (not that into it), Where Is the Friend's House? (my favorite on this list), and Millennium Mambo.

Step into my office

Fresh for each other 🌼

Been looking forward to this for at least a year!

The next installment of my newsletter is out tomorrow! 🖤 substack.com/@thorav

Born to be a bad bitch Forced to wear a comfortable supportive shoe

It's breaking 70° today and I'm craving the touch of a couple. Or throuple

Moving around the literal furniture in my room and the proverbial furniture on my website and they are both 😎 looking good 😎

Returned from NYC to find Philly blooming :)

Calling all armpit lovers ☎️

international women’s day

Had a slow, indulgent morning in bed with a couple toys, followed by a homemade breakfast sandwich before heading outside for the day. It's Saturday and it's feeling just a little bit like springtime 💓

Falling in love with Calvino all over again

I was deliriously happy in a video store recently

Guess who survived Mardi Gras! Philly, I'm on my way home 💞

A little Throwback Thursday—five years ago! 🖤

Someday somebody will make a good movie of Wuthering Heights

some of you are looksmaxxing when you need to be booksmaxxing

All the world began with a yes. 📸 @jeweltonesphoto.bsky.social

Thanks to the cuties who kept me warm in Chicago 💕

Took a really sweet beginner's crochet class early this rainy morning! Stayed out of the rain and finished my first (messy!) length of single crochet. NYC tomorrow! 💕

"Luxury is not a necessity to me, but beautiful and good things are." 📸 @meetcatgold.com

Newsletter subscribers saw me bathhouse luxuriating first 😉

Siren

Arrived home to a gift from A 🥰 I'm cozied up and working on a newsletter update that will come via my Substack in the next couple days!

Welcomed the New Year in Tbilisi! Georgia turned out to be my favorite trip in years. Happy 2026 to those of you who celebrate 😉

Charmed each other 😌

Very sad about Rob Reiner—and very, very grossed out by the media coverage 😕

Can I sit with you?

Obsessed with these note cards a new sweetie brought me. Looking forward to sending some snail mail 💌

My love for em dashes is as old as the hills and as mighty as my inability to make a transition between thoughts literally any other way and I will be damned if I let the clankers take that from me

Afterglow

Friends with consistent creative practices, I'm looking for your advice! I currently have a pretty unconventional (but busy and exciting!) schedule. Lots of day to day changes, lots of travel. What's helped you work on creative projects regularly when your schedule is irregular?