Digital coercive control is on the rise. Cyberstalking, online manipulation, and surveillance are modern tools abusers use to trap their victims. Learn more and support my work on Substack. #CoerciveControl shadowsofcontrol.substack.c...

Victims need understanding ..where there is disclosure.. respect.. trauma informed...understanding barriers in culture/language... No prejudice.... victim blaming.... minimising...and most of all...trauma informed practice with specialists if required.

Isolation, dependence, and total control—this is how coercive control erodes your identity piece by piece. #domesticabuseawareness #emotionalabuse

X is now one giant pileup of propagated hate they want to blame on everyone but themselves

I have never, in hundreds & hundreds of sessions, met a trauma survivor who wanted to be "rescued." I HAVE met hundreds of survivors who wanted to be seen & supported in rescuing themselves-- & caring for the past version of themselves who actually did need rescuing at one time.

This podcast is about so much more than celebrities. It’s about social engineering & manipulation of the masses

Heyyy checking in. Been a while. How’s everyone here holding up?

It’s perhaps the most dangerous, because it’s “invisible” — coercive control is the abuser’s playbook. It’s your freedom, sense of self & independence they steal right out from underneath you

Coercive control is invisible abuse, stripping away freedom piece by piece. Survivors describe how silence, subtle punishments & relentless pressure grind them down until saying “yes” feels like the only way to survive. What looks like choice from the outside is, in reality, captivity in disguise.

Abuse isn’t always physical. Netflix’s Maid reveals the hidden damage of coercive control and emotional abuse — the invisible prison survivors fight to escape. Read more on my Substack. #DomesticAbuseAwareness shadowsofcontrol.substack.c...

Propaganda I'm not falling for: - Meghan Markle hate - Amber Heard hate - Halle Bailey hate - Rachel Zegler hate - Bella Ramsey hate - Blake Lively hate - Megan Thee Stallion hate - Brie Larson hate - Cassie Ventura hate

One of the basic human rights a narcissist takes away from you is the right to be angry with them. No matter how badly they treated you, your voice shouldn't rise. The privilege of rage is reserved for them alone.

I’m honored to be a part of the Love and Money Summit with 30 other speakers. I will speaking on the Cult in the Home: Children of Coercive Control. Thank you @tracycoenen for creating this opportunity going live on March 25th to March 27th. Sign up here: divorcemoneyguide.com/summit/

Anyway

Are you always the one apologizing? In healthy relationships, both people share accountability, but in abusive dynamics, abusers use blame-shifting to ensure you’re always the one feeling guilty—no matter who’s really at fault. #coercivecontrol

wish he'd get on one of his own rockets some time

They will also up their game of sabotage while pointing to your failure

The UK Judgement... The "Who Trolled Amber ?" podcast.. The Nathan strategy repeated in the Baldoni matter.. Do you believe her now ?

I really needed a laugh 🤭

I just watched a story about a teacher in Idaho fighting back after being forced to take down a sign that said, "Everyone is Welcome Here." This kind of stuff is beyond STUPID. If someone is offended by a "Everyone is Welcome Here" sign, they have psychological issues that need to be dealt with.

Can everyone just comprehend this for one second

The administration is removing phone support for Soc Security recipients. Making it more difficult for seniors to get their checks. It’s a back door way to cut SS benefits. Horrific. If you know anyone who is impacted, please help them get online to get their benefits approved

Hey Bluesky! I got sucked back into the bad place.. felt like I was fighting the good fight for a while, trying to combat misinformation- but now, I think I’m just a punching bag at best, maybe a target if things truly devolve. What a hellhole it became, huh?? Anyway, looking for my resisters 👋🩵👀

I need your help sharing this. It might seem unrelated or trite, but I promise you this is one of the single biggest factors in the coming US presidency. Melissa Nathan specializes is smearing women. Big, powerful women. She is also working for Trumps administration. Her sister Sara works for the RF

I really need to get in the groove over here. X is killing me, I’m pretty sure literally. It’s just AWFUL. I cannot believe we are witnessing the takeover by an oligarch & we’re all just like “yeah it sucks” BUT WHAT ARE WE DOING ABOUT IT

Writing letters you’ll never send can be a powerful way to process divorce emotions and things we cannot, or should at least be careful about, saying out loud. These unsent words create a safe space for healing and self-discovery. divorcealchemycollective.com/writing-lett...

How’s this side of reality?

Learn how can you tell whether the difficulties you are facing in your relationship are normal, or whether you are being emotionally abused?

@chummychumlee.bsky.social instant follow for "fuck trump with a cactus" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@dunebooda.bsky.social instant follow for"musky hell site"🤣🤣🤣🤣

Same with narcissists

You get to have needs & preferences in your relationships. Trauma Brain will try to tell you you "have" to tolerate lots of things in relationships because "who else would want you"-- but you're more worthy, desirable, & deserving than your conditioning is letting you realize.

I’ve missed everyone here at Bluesky!! There has been so much happening SO QUICKLY & as much as I hate it, fighting misinformation & smear campaigns happens “over there” - BUT HERE is like that breath of fresh air where the sun gently shines on your face, warming your heart & soul 💛✨🦋✨💛

The fact that children have little to no rights in family court already has devastating outcomes and consequences. Defining them as property will be so much worse for them.

Justin Baldoni is a Johnny Depp in Pedro Pascal clothing.

First he hires Melissa Nathan - who organized the smear campaign on Amber Heard, then he hires Bryan Freedman - who represents abusive men, and now his lawyer seeks out Megyn Kelly - a conservative shill who doesn’t have an ounce of feminism in her body. But sure, he’s innocent.

Just me? Anyone else?

My X app suddenly won’t open. At all. Can’t even open it.

The problem isn't the politicians we complain about. It's the oligarchs who hide behind them.