‘the only thing more powerful than hate is love’

Has anyone gotten the Despair Labs "aromatherapy" machine to work properly? I'm looking at it, and it's very tempting, but I haven't heard from anyone who actually has it.

I can't be the only one that didn't like Pillion, right? 🫤

It was awesome getting to catch up with @bigringbootman.me at MAL last weekend

Are we gonna call us BigRingerCub or RubberGingBootman

Find yourself some besties who don't take things too seriously 😎👮‍♂️ (w/ @bigjaycharger.bsky.social)

I got to meet @bigringbootman.me after all these years of chat. So happy we could finally chat a little in person. Thank you for all of your kind words and support and the tips for fixing my harness when the little black pieces started falling off.

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So great spending time with my MAUL brothers this morning.

Rubber? Barely know her! Fun times at the Rubber Social tonight! (I love this new singlet from Libidex!)

Extra shot from last night featuring bearded_luma_reloaded (IG). 🔥

That was a fun first night of MAL 😈💨💨💨

MAL is this weekend - if you're going as well, safe travels and come say hi! But it made me think again of one of my favorite moments at my first MAL back in 2023, which was meeting @pupnixie.bsky.social for the first time!

With the current social media madness (as in "it's the wild west again"), I've decided to spend more time and energy on my Telegram feed. I'll be using stories and posting more content over there as an experiment. Give it a follow! t.me/bigringbootm...

If I were to start a kink-friendly body doubling server on Discord, would anyone be up for that? That seems to unlock my productivity, and I can't be the only one if anyone else is interested.

🚨 NEW ISSUE ALERT 🚨 WINTER 2026 – #230: POWER BROKERS “It’s risky business in the Tenderloin for smug tech bros – a power grab can happen when you least expect it.” HOSTILE TAKEOVER 📸: @bigringbootman.me 🎬: Coach Bator/@YourCoachinSF, Nikhil/ @Scruffenuf, Sir Thomas/@Daddythomasb DRUMMERMEN.COM

It's been a minute.

So I went to the bird app to look for an old message, and there are still more people active there than I expected. Like actual quality content. It's weird. It's like I'm relearning to use social media at this point.

Heated Rivalry is beating seasonal affective disorder’s ass

Firefighter camp, recruitment day #144. Cadet @thinkingbound.bsky.social, one cocky little brat, seeks to join the brigade. 😈 See if he can make it! ⚡🔥 RT to get a link to the full version!

Stuffing day is tomorrow 🍑 📷: @bigringbootman.me

Slut! - Who, me? 📷: @bigringbootman.me . Event season has calmed, ready to post regularly again. Get ready for some fun horny stuff!

I signed in to Tumblr for the first time in forever to look for an old message, and I can see why everyone is mad about AI. 😬

If we're gonna theme every single fetish event now, can we at least make the theme sluts? Please and thank you.

MIR Report: It was great. Pictures are coming. Everyone get home safe and remember event drop is a bitch, so be kind to one another, or I'll paddle you in not-so-sexy ways.

At Folsom #6 📸 @bigringbootman.me #leather #bluf #folsom #folsomeurope #fetish #boots #gay #gaybear #gayleatherbear #leatherbear

#tbt to Dore Alley 2025 The most skin showing shoot I’ve ever done. 📷: @bigringbootman.me

I love how MAL organizers always pick a leather holiday to open registration. It's 9AM, people in SF for Folsom haven't even finished their first Bloody Mary to wrap up last night. Daddy, chill.

You've been to THAT bar before, right? You might need this t-shirt from bootmanshop.printful.me 😜

Should I open it, or should I keep it sealed? 🎵

At Folsom, #5 📸 @bigringbootman.me #leather #bluf #folsom #folsomeurope #fetish #boots #gay #gaybear #gayleatherbear #leatherbear

At Folsom, #4 📸 @bigringbootman.me #leather #bluf #folsom #folsomeurope #fetish #boots #gay #gaybear #gayleatherbear #leatherbear

At Folsom, #3 📸 @bigringbootman.me #leather #bluf #folsom #folsomeurope #fetish #boots #gay #gaybear #gayleatherbear #leatherbear

At Folsom, #2 📸 @BigRingBootman #leather #bluf #folsom #folsomeurope #fetish #boots #gay #gaybear #gayleatherbear #leatherbear

Watch me cum hands free 3 times in 30 seconds and tell me what you think. #chastity #gayleather

ok I need some new kinky feeds to follow on here, give me your favs!

A fortune cookie told me...

Team picture day. Thanks @bigringbootman.me!!!!!

Dinner Time 🐖 . . . 📸: @bigringbootman.me

Animal Farm . . . 📸: @bigringbootman.me

Beware of the dog… ejem, ejem, me. 😈 With @bcn4lthr.bsky.social 📸 : @bigringbootman.me

It would be horrible to add a day or two to his lock given that he's so close to being out... 😈

Slaughterhouse Five . . . 📸: @bigringbootman.me

Folsom Berlin 2025 Day 6 - 1of3 Behind the scenes photos with @bigringbootman.me Photo shoots are fun #RubberBear #RubberCub #RubberGay #GayBear #GayCub

Folsom Berlin 2025 Day 4 - 2of2 Hung out a bit with @bigringbootman.me. Very kind and fun Bear. I had just made a bad joke, and the photographer kept it going and just as bad. #LeatherBear #RubberBear #RubberCub #RubberGay #GayBear #GayCub

It’s been a fantastic day at #FolsomEurope. I got to finally meet the absolutely fabulous @bigringbootman.me Made a friend for life ❤️

What's with this new generation of gays and their obsession for being "straight passing"? Is this a Gen Z thing? Am I finally an old? 😭

Kinksters, my travel bags are falling apart. What are some of your favorite bags for traveling with gear?