Some people have been in romantic relationships since shortly after college, and I just want to say...I'm glad I got to grow into a better person on my own 😂 I wouldn't want anyone who loves me now to have known me then. I know that's shame talking, and development is normal, but I don't care!

I will never forget the time a former friend referred to where they lived as the Pacific Northwest, but they lived in Oakland, California.

"Looking like you been rode hard and put away wet!" Can't wait to rewatch.

This isn’t journalism. This is creative writing by fascist sycophants.

Not to mention mall restrictions, closing arcades, and they defunded every bit of teen programming possible at the libraries, closed all the community centers, and refuse to fund after-school and weekend events...

Look like the first Native American curator at the Met…. was not Native. She quietly left the role in December. What hurts the most with pretendians sometimes is that they take prominent positions that should go to actual Native ppl. www.artnews.com/art-news/new...

Almost 10yrs ago, I worked somewhere as an Asst. Director. Since I left, every successor (maybe minus one) has been downgraded to "manager," and the person I reported to has only received enhanced titles.

Nearly a million acres. Gone. They are almost contained now but the fire risk remains due to drought.

I'm self-care'ing in ways I wasn't before 😌

Two higher ups at work finally having the standoff I knew was coming

Cranberry juice works every time.

shutting down modern jewish studies at a school that had a serious antisemitism incident SIX MONTHS AGO so students can major in posting

I hate this so much.

I want to rewatch Being Mary Jane. I know I'm gonna piss myself off with the choice, but I want to do it anyway.

You know how in a library no one’s trying to sell you anything? That’s how the internet was.

I hate it when you want to do something thoughtful for somebody, and you realize they'll think too much of it if you do it, so you don't do it 😪

One thing about me, I'm a sauce loving mf. LOVE a condiment! I neeeed that. Multiple options?? Even better. Tartar sauce, remoulade, honey mustard, sweet and spicy, garlic aioli. 😛

The aurora last night from our house.

I hate it when people ask about my plans for the weekend. What am I doing? Whatever my neurodivergence will allow, it's not up to me.

That guy (who married two men before and just married a stud-turned-trans-man-turned-cis-woman) is going on and on about how this is the love god had for him, etc. I hope they are both grifters. Learning somebody who's been *that* deep in the community never embraced a liberation theology is 🫠

Ppl used to speak highly of his goings on, back when LSA was a thing!

More Pride flags popped up in windows on Boston university’s campus today. People are distributing them. I really don’t know where the administration thinks this will go.

If I'm not being lazy, yes. I listened to hella public radio in my youth 😂 and it shows.

Yesterday, I saw hella footage from the breakup of a gorgeous T4T couple. Woman ended up in the hospital, with bruises all over, needing stitches in her finger. All of her car windows were shattered, all tires were slashed, and I think the car was burned.

Maybe a hot take: we shouldn’t name holidays after specific people, regardless of how remarkable those people are

Yep, helps people appreciate our differences and our similarities.

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Aren't the $800/hr attorneys the transactional ones who work on matters for corporations? I feel like the type described is more small shop "fixed fee" attorneys.

LinkedIn is a cess pool. My content is getting me great exposure on there. Surprised how much both things are true 😅

The more I learn, the more I understand people's disgust for the way adoption works damn near everywhere. Regarding alternatives: just heard a woman talk mention her willingness to take in the child of another family member + keep the door open for connection. I've seen that shit go sideways, too.

From “All Lives Matter” to “I Don’t See Color”, this, along with Remmick’s disdain for the klan, reveals a commentary on white liberalism being the manipulative demon disguising itself as friend when it is, in fact, foe…in this essay I will—

Ryan Coogler accepts his first-ever Oscar to a standing ovation “To my parents who are here, thank you for making me believe in myself… Memories are all we have. I hope we give you some great ones.”

There are more people calling themselves romantic late bloomers. I relate a lil bit.

A thing might happen. I have some people to talk to first. I don't wanna focus on securing the thing, I want to focus on doing a good job and making myself proud 😌

The moon is gorgeous.

Here's my first edit on the March 3rd Lunar Eclipse. 15 moon shots, 1 foreground. Taken over a 3 hourish period.

Anyone else sentimental about things they no longer look at? Things you've chosen to keep away in a box in a closet. Things you move from house to house,closet to closet. I have those. I just looked for the first time in years. Still processing what I saw.

They called me "bundles" at work, today 🤭

I've been thinking about everyone's mortality lately, myself included. But in thinking about the mortality of my parents, specifically my dad. If I believed in heaven...How do you find your loved ones when you get there? Are you supposed to be too engulfed in God's glory to care? That seems sad.

Some things my friends say stick with me. One friend talked about how she walks away from situations, understanding she doesn't feel the need to prove she's right. That shit really fixed something in me.

Post-trim

My big 3

I have worked through a lot in therapy. One thing that still puzzles me, is how much I hate being fussed over. I appreciate concern, but I *hate* feeling fussed over and worried about. Doing that gives me the perpetual ick!!

I love feeling like there are infinite possibilities. Part of that is felt through making connections with people any/everywhere 😌 social media can be a great connection vehicle

The creator of Nearby Glasses made the app after reading 404 Media's coverage of how people are using Meta's Ray-Bans smartglasses to film people without their knowledge or consent. How it works: www.404media.co/this-app-war...

From The Archives:

Remember when McCain made the “Bomb Bomb Bomb Bomb Bomb Iran” adlib during a 2008 campaign event and it was rightly seen as a misstep? Almost 20 years later, the president just went ahead and did that shit and more than likely he’s gonna get away with it.

i’m so excited for peace in the Middle East. we’re only one war away.

I've seen a little of the Colin Gray trial updates, and I just...there's a certain subset of the palm-colored who are in denial about everything. In denial about someone being an asshole at work, in denial about their dog being a dog that bites, in denial about their kid being homicidal 😭