Just a note to folks, I'm still available all December. I'm having issues with @tryst.link and can't get my profile back up. Over $100 worth of credits used but no ads running, still waiting for approval after almost a month, no replies to any messages. December is a crucial month for me. Help?

Dear Santa, As you know I’ve been ever so good this year! I thought, that if you have a spare moment, you could take a peak at this letter I wrote you: rayharridan.ca/gifts 💕🎄💕🎁 Photo by my multi talented bestie @xanthine.bsky.social

It's my birthday🎉 I'm unexpectedly home & determined to celebrate this year! Doing a drop in dungeon/dragon game (Talisman) party with friends🔏🐉 🎁? Updated wishlist www.amazon.ca/hz/wishlist/... & my website has my email for giftcards. An Uber gift card would sponsor my dinner tonight😍.

Sitting here with an advance copy of this and it is hard to imagine a more timely book! I think this book from @akpress.org/edited by @mskellymhayes.bsky.social will save lives, and I encourage you all to preorder and nudge your local library about it. #BookSky www.akpress.org/read-this-wh...

My duo appointment cancelled! Monday available if you message me quick- before I decide to spend the day in the garden instead.🌿 Also, bless the man who got me these daytime appropriate 70s wooden platforms ages ago! I'm fully over 6'5"in them. Get over here, tiny humans. Fee fi fo fum!

Oops! Someone had to cancel their date with me today. 😔 That means a rare last minute availability for tonight or tomorrow! Message me quick quick to claim 🐇

Hello darrrrlings! I'm back in Vancouver after a month away and I'm positively aching for indulgence. Very few dates available left for July, and then I'm gone for all of August🫣 Escape into my cool, quiet dungeon and watch me make the world disappear for you.

Want some novelty in your recreational activities? Join me July 10th (10 am PST) for a live broadcast of Bad Ideas, an onslaught of silly things to keep your scenes "interesting". Presented by Karada House Berlin. Let's get WEIRD! karada-house.de/events/bad-i...

My last week was a much needed camping, hiking, and writing trip to the Gulf Islands. This weekend I'll be in Victoria teaching at Brash (an intimate & unhinged women's conference), & then I'll be off volunteering for all of June. Books filled for May. See you in summer, loves!

Waiting for @rayharridan.bsky.social to hand our delicious bound man back to me for his post-romp massage. An excellent plan designed by this clever man! We are delighted to tailor your back and forth and back again fantasies in our Tag Teams or duos.

Hello darlings! I've had a cancellation pop up for this Wednesday the 30th. Currently booking for May 16th - 29th and away volunteering all of June. Indulge with me while you have the chance, or pine away until July 🌞🌸

Wowza, look at this picture from demonstrations in Turkey www.reuters.com/world/middle...

Still in the woods volunteering but thinking of being naked in a cedar sauna. I'm booking for Vancouver starting March 24th, prioritizing longer dates and repeat clients. Been thinking about me? Come feel these strong legs wrapped around you, and welcome me back to libidinousness.

PACE is an incredibly important organization for sex workers in this city, and they need our help. I’ll be making a donation of $500 to match my girl @expcharlee.bsky.social ‘s Freak. Will you join us? Send me a screenshot of your donation and I’ll send you a sexy thank you. Any amount counts!

I don’t know but it kinda seems now would be a good time to commit federal crimes

I'm joining Karada House @ Queer Intimacies, an online conference based in Berlin, March 1st. I'm doing the theory version of my trauma informed kink class, Inside the Crucible Join us as I call in from the wilderness, and stay for the whole weekend!https://karada-house.de/events/queer-intimacies/

The reason “cute winter boots” is taking off isn’t because it’s some secret code (the code has already been revealed and all of MAGA tiktok has made videos on it) it’s bc using product-focused language allows users to circumvent algorithmic downranking. They’re hijacking TikTok’s e-commerce push.

Though I'm grateful to be on a writing/admin retreat this week, I'm having a hard time being satisfied with my work, and also not actually relaxing. This delightful situation at a private spa yesterday certainly helped on the latter front. I seem to have a hard time combining the two?

Every leather, kink, or LGBTQ event must have on-site voter registration now. No excuses. Nonprofits can register voters if they don't demonstrate partisanship. Once registered, we have to hope most of these marginalized people will vote for decency and civil rights.

Seasoned sexworkers watching TikTokers lose their shit over being deplatformed.

3 days of trying to get my kitchen door to open and I officially admitted defeat. Validation came in the form of a contractor this morning, who is currently swearing a blue streak in Russian and attacking it with a sawsall. Looks like my various delinquent skills could not have helped after all!

A positively delightful last two weeks of respectful, whimpering, struggling men in my dungeon. My gratitude to all of you for your generosity, adventurous spirits, and trust in me. Now to condition *miles* of rope and get ready for a week of writing classes!

Your last saved meme is your moral philosophy.

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Had a lovely couple of hours tying a sweet long time visitor tonight. More whimpering boys in nothing but knee-high high heeled boots and my rope, please.

I've never seen a meme encapsulate bluesky so perfectly

I love that Mr. T is spending his twilight years fucking ADORING vaccines

Drop something Blue from your gallery 💙💧💙

It has occurred to me that we (sw) cannot seem to just sit on furniture like regular people. Do any other professions or subcultures do this? Never take a photo where you are just using the furniture as intended? 😂

A reminder once again that Bluesky WILL NOT promote bad actors onto people's timelines because there's no centralized algorithm. If you want to prevent bigots from spreading their hate, REPORT, BLOCK, MOVE ON. Do not reply to them. Do not quote them. Do not screenshot them. Cut off their exposure.

I'm going to broadcast this once again because new people are here now. I have a shared and self curated mute list to filter out A.I. / NFT / Crypto accounts for those who want an improved bsky experience. I investigate them all personally, but if you find someone I missed, you can reply or @ me.

Hello, bluesky folx! I post about: my job as a dominatrix, my time in the wilderness and on Wet'suwet'en territory, sw rights, activism, science, and history. Fond of queer culture, my shepherd (not Jesus, we haven't met), and finding new hills to die on.