oh. I missed putting up the next yq week prompt breakdown/rec post today because a friend passed away and I forgot. sorry

[oc posting] Nanao/Kaede do not match each other's freak. they are not compatible at all. Nanao might think Kaede's self-bondage thing sounds hot but that doesn't actually mean Kaede is up for confinement/dollification and Nanao probably isn't up for getting tortured either. they are just two freaks

oc maxxing these past few days

I think considering the way that he’s dealt with other people who’ve held power over him (Qiu Jianluo and Wu Yanzi) I think he would somehow reverse transmigrate and murder Xiang Fei himself

A lot of people seem to think that being fat-positive means you can't say the word. "No, this person isn't fat! They're so beautiful / friend-shaped / fashionable/ whatever!" A person can be fat AND attractive or cool or strong or whatever else. Fat is not the problem; it's the social moralizing.

Some people are fat and it should be okay to use the word in the same way as we'd use words like tall. It's just a physical trait they have. It doesn't need to be an insult or dismissal.

after comparing notes with my roommate we have concluded that I got this result by being exceptionally anal about clicking Exactly On The Line www.keithcirkel.co.uk/whats-my-jnd/

bsky give me polls. Please I’m begging. IS YQY A VIRGIN Y/N

What if he puts someone in an awkward position? What if they feel forced? What if they feel burdened by having to turn him down? What if Yue Qi is impulsive and makes the wrong choice and Xiao Jiu dies somehow, which is a real thing that might happen if Yue Qingyuan lets himself have a boner?

Yue Qingyuan, a normal and well adjusted individual: if I hug this person in a public or private setting maybe this is the wrong choice and somehow all my shidis die because of it?

I lost track of time this week,, honestly amazing it didn't happen sooner

The second rec is this qijiu fisting fic, by GayWarCriminals (RisqueRaven) on ao3 archiveofourown.org/works/55347991

The first rec for aphrodisiacs/sex pollen is this TLJ/YQY using Heavenly Demon blood for aphrodisiac purposes, by KotoneChou on ao3 archiveofourown.org/works/65151262

This week on explaining the NSFW prompts for #bottomyqyweek2026: May 10th (part 1) - Aphrodisiacs/Sex Pollen Aphrodisiacs are a substance that can cause arousal and increase sexual stamina.

you know that Reddit post about that woman who washed her husband’s hair and he started crying because men experience gentle touch so infrequently outside of sex. Yue Qingyuan

Yqy and sj are so fascinating because they both have storylines where they’re stripped of their bodily autonomy in horrifying ways and cannot speak of their experience. Just like Shen Yuan, in this essay I will—

永遠なんて御伽話でしょう？ ( #shuangxuan #beefleaf #shiqingxuan #hexuan #tgcf )

let’s imagine an AU where Yue Qingyuan tells Shen Jiu about the caves at the IAC and actually this makes everything worse 😍

Shen Jiu behaves in a totally understandable manner at every step. Even when he goes off the moral deep end it’s understandable how he got there and what led up to it. And that perhaps there was no other response he feasibly even could have had, being in that position

I understand completely why Yue Qingyuan never wanted to give up on him either even when Shen Jiu started to mistreat Luo Binghe too. Shen Jiu isn’t born rotten and he isn’t a disgusting horrible child. Nobody is, including Shen Jiu, including Luo Binghe

I vehemently believe yqy wanted to tell sj about the caves. therefore I think the premise of yqy telling sj about the caves is good. however if we really did live in a world where yqy didn't want to tell sj about the caves then I think that's actually fully within his rights and he shouldn't have to

alas. when people ask "why didn't yue qingyuan tell shen jiu about the caves" i always think "i dont know if shen jiu has proven himself to be a good person to tell about the caves"

1 hr of thinking about SJ: this guy is the cause of everyone's misfortune including his own 10 hrs of thinking about SJ: the situation is too complex due to the cycles of violence, he's also a victim and 100 hrs of thinking about SJ: this guy is the cause of everyone's misfortune including his own

I have GOT to make SQQ more annoying in my fics. I believe too much of his bullshit. Complaining alone isn't enough. I have to imagine him complaining for a reddit audience and then paying real life money to give himself gold and have his name pinned at the top of the thread. I'm going to eat him

cool sex tips for you and your partner: tie up your man in immortal binding cables which suppresses his cultivation which causes his unstable life draining bond to Xuan Su to nearly kill him

i've always found it cute that the lords in 3h have a bane in learning each other's signature weapon... i like to think that it's an expression of their inability to see eye to eye, through game mechanics

女体化しても攻め

#Deduesdays2026 duality - i no words good i just love these two very much.

Much like some fics are about shipping tropes (dark x blond hair, bad x good boy, etc.) rather than characters, sometimes it feels like a whump fic is written to depict the whump, rather than dissect the character being whumped. Idc what is considered Universal Whump what would whump YOUR 🫵 blorbo

This week on explaining the NSFW prompts for #bottomyqyweek2026: May 9th (part 2) - Dacryphilia Dacryphilia is being sexual aroused by someone's tears. I know I normally explain a lot in these posts and bring up a lot of examples but this one feels pretty cut and dry to me. I hope he cries

The first rec for dacryphilia is this lbh/yqy(/sy) fic in which lbh, per sqq's request, fucks yqy to fix his corrupted cultivation, by buryyourgaydar on ao3 archiveofourown.org/works/70131271

The second is this qijiu fic with heavy hitting/painplay, by lemonlight on ao3 archiveofourown.org/works/66949258

I did basically nothing today except play this game. but I beat it so it was worth it thomaswc.com/2025.html

the LBH & YQY relationship really has so much potential considering theyre dark parallels of each other. two guys who got trapped in a hellhole for a few years to be destroyed and remade and then came back out as the paragon of their cultivation path and also weird as fuck about shen jiu

Turning these over in my head and I have two conclusions: SJ would HAAATE SY lmaoo. Rich boy with loving family? Death!! Willing to lower himself to acting cute to get what he wants?? Death!!!! Doing this all with HIS BODY??? DEATH!!!!!!

you've heard of complaining about fan depictions of sy being leery and critical of yqy when that simply isn't how he talks about him in canon now get ready for fan depictions of sqh being leery and critical of yqy when

I would be a lot more into sj bottoming if more stuff with him as bottom leaned harder into him being a cold and malicious 6' tall authority figure but that's not really what most stuff is like now is it.

so excited to sign up for the mxtx remix event. look at my totally normal list of offered ships

Artists, your time has come. Grab a bucket and spade and head on over to the SVSSS Big Bang Challenge 2026! Sign up here: forms.gle/WgTQfDGMZWSd... Sign ups close March 27th!

#SVSSS | #YueQingyuan

just realized why shi wudu is my blorbo. he’s just a manifesto on “what if Shen Jiu was the older brother”

When you meet your childhood friend again, but a lot more has changed than you realized (1/6)

considering blocking someone on tumblr cuz I just don't want to see half their takes but I don't actually dislike them or want to prevent them from seeing my blog or interacting with me or anything. is there a mute function

mlah mlah

I ALMOST ENTIRELY managed to have !all different creators! for every rec in this thread series and I only just realized while posting this that I accidentally have PeerlessSerpent down twice. deserved but I only feel bad bc now I'm like well I should have put like 7 other ppl down twice too then

The second rec is this omegaverse marking bite qijiu fic, by babygirlification on ao3 archiveofourown.org/works/61582312

The first rec for marking is this modern au qijiu fic in which Yue Qingyuan gets a tramp stamp, by PeerlessSerpent on ao3 archiveofourown.org/works/69512116

This week on explaining the NSFW prompts for #bottomyqyweek2026: May 9th (part 1) - Marking/Branding/Body Modification This one is for tattoos, piercings, scarification, branding, biting - or even things like scent marking or accessories of a certain color.

me: now that bsky has drafts I can write up the rec thread for this week ahead of time without it being deleted if I switch accounts like that first time I fucked it up bsky: refuses to save the thread to drafts