maybe i would have made different decisions if my soundtrack at the time wasn’t the state vs radric davis i had fun, i regret nothing

Our relationship has been the best it’s ever been So we’re getting a couple counselor for maintenance We found a Black woman who works with autistic people & has experience with unique/kinky relationship structures (!!!) So grateful 🙏🏾

I’m friends with several of my fiancé’s exes You can care deeply about someone *and* agree you shouldn’t be together

I am in the THICK of it and oh my god

Black woman: *exists* Bluesky moderation: That’s adult content.

I’ve seen more than one person publicly ask “would you date yourself” today and I’m like… Yes, I have my shit together lol

Highly recommend having sex while playing video games

Why is African spirituality always called demonic, but Greek gods get Disney movies?

I would go so far as to say that thinking “poor people shouldn’t pursue love” is evil

Update: WHO FUCKING TOLD?!! 🤬🤬🤬

Enslavers enslave themselves with their need for slaves

Confirmed: Going on a walk to clear my head does not, in fact, clear my head

Lying to a neorodivergent woman is gonna always end bad. We are far too good at patern recognition.

The internet is teaching me that I am an incredibly whimsical person

I’m getting partnering requests from sex toy companies and my collection is beautiful and expensive

I’m at a pivotal “I’m sick of my shit” moment of my life. It’s good for me 🙃

Grateful for the luxury of never having to (and never having the desire to) post where I am when I’m there

At a London Airbnb, the owner had walls of books and we had pretty much the same tastes (🤯) So I spent my first morning going through all of them and adding over 200 to my Storygraph “To read” list (She was elated when I asked her if I could go through her shelves) Books… my first love

Dulles gives dystopian, imo

Online I use my middle name, but I usually don’t recognize it when people are calling me Maria IRL. I am not the person people have parasocial relationships with, this is just my highlight reel, etc etc.

I’ve been loving partnering with LELO. They exchanged promo for a couple of (super high quality) toys and it’s been an adventure 🥵

Youth is wasted on the young Money is wasted on the wealthy Power is wasted on people who believe in “power over” over “power with”

The confused way yt people look at you when they see you in first class 👎🏾 (I am not wealthy. We have a *lot* of miles)

I double checked to see if this was real.. and it is. 😭

Skincare girly 4evr: Makeup is a textural issue for me. Wearing it makes my autism louder. I’ll wear makeup to special events, but even then I’m like “I can’t wait to wash this off my face!”

I don’t know how the undead interpret the living, so I specifically call on my *Black* and *benevolent* ancestors in prayer

Was the Middle Passage not dystopian enough for y'all?

Traveling tip: Tell (most) people you’re returning a day later than you actually are. You’ll get a more peaceful, less interrupted landing 🛬

@drkalyncoghill.blacksky.team is an angel! They helped me migrate to Blacksky, with incredible kindness and helpful screenshots. Grateful to be in this community 🙏🏾

I honestly don’t know whether firsthand or secondhand embarrassment feels worse

What a setup 😡

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In Montreal. Was 27 degrees out, felt like 8 Snowing significantly People still out running I wish I could be so dedicated! I have a great body but I hate exercise so much I know my older self will thank me But that ish is not fun to me

🧚🏾‍♀️Maybe helpful for people who want to read more: I read so many books because I divide page count by the number of days in a month and just aim for that every day. I keep reading if I’m compelled or the chapter ends in a couple of pages. It just feels less overwhelming to me and I can take my time

Sometimes it hits you in the face how much copaganda USians really consume. Six of the top 15 listed are explicitly fictional copaganda procedural/work-drama shows, and then three more are news programs that will inevitably regularly broadcast pro-cop news stories. Nine out of Fifteen... whew.

Trading nudes with my friends *swoon*

I don’t do selfies Every time I do I look like a mom who’d rather be “more like a friend” to her teenage children

People: made fun of my deep dimples Also people: dimple surgery 🤨

Sugar-free Caffeine-free Gluten-free Meat-free Dairy-free & tens of thousands of $$$ on skin care, medication, and procedures And still this zit on my forehead

who are “leaders” and what do they have to do with me never shopping there again

Ion like when I go to the search bar and it reminds me of the last time I was being nosey 😒

😞 @ paper towel dispensers high on the wall. water just dripping down my arm 😞

Ageism includes excusing older people’s racism

Ancestral intelligence > artificial intelligence

Your ancestors aren’t your servants

I keep saying that we should remain in standard time. down with daylight savings!

I’m at the age where I forget my age

What’s the holdup?

i hate the term "POC" i honestly dont know why people who identify as such use it. it reads as this: person. and then there's a person of color. i'm not anybody's exception. it makes white the standard.