non sexual turn on: when someone actively listens and shows they listen to you by how they respond to you or care for you

the way i love these braids on me so much, i fear i’ll be a honey/dirty blonde the rest of my life 🙂‍↔️

i am blissfully unaware of whatever tension is/was on the SL, some ignorance really is nice 😁

Me:

if y’all don’t get this white man and his titties off my SL—

I’m tired of putting on my big girl panties… I wanna put on my cutie patootie thongs and dilly dally

“Healing isn't only about taking things apart, it's also about putting things back together. Letting new things be sown in the places we spent so much time uprooting. Something fall apart, so better things can come together…” - Kobe Campbell

I do, but I’ve grown out of the need to respond immediately all the time lol. And I’m quick to throw my phone on DND.

Boosting this again because I need to eat and pay bills. I have an interview today (wish me luck, please. I need a BIG win), but I also have to survive until I get an offer. Please, you guys. I actually need $1,000 now because I borrowed $350 from cashapp to cover expenses.

losing what’s wrong for you is the same as winning

Men get so comfortable with you being sweet and humble. Never forget I will hurt your fucking feelings. You thought you hated me before? You bout to hate me on a whole new level lol

Question for the SL! For my therapy kings and queens, theys and thems. ☺️ When you were looking for a therapist, what questions (if any) did you ask to make sure they were a good fit for you? If you didn’t ask any questions, what kinda characteristics made your therapist a good fit for you?

I try not to show how I feel about you. Thinking we should wait, but we don’t really want to. 🎶

I just wanna get away and sit right next to you. 🎶

• Today is a fresh start, and I’m ready for it. • I choose calm energy and a clear mind. • Good things are already on their way to me. • I’m capable, grounded, and moving forward with ease.

Lord, it’s me again. 😩

good mornin yall. still at $1170 now.. wanna try and get halfway before spring ends. do still share/donate if and when you can.. thank yall. gofund.me/08a6bf0de to directly donate: CA: $treyofharts paypal/venmo: bruceleroy93

There’s beauty in the pivot.

If you do something insensitive and you didn't mean to, you should still apologize. Even if your intention wasn't to upset someone, you still did it and you got to take accountability for that. You're not expected to know everything but that's no excuse not to apologize.

NEXTTTTTT. 🐔 #NCAAWBB

TOURNAMENT TESSAAAAA 🙂‍↕️

There we go! DAWN’S DAYCAREEEE

Horror really the best genre. Because when it’s good, it’s great. When it’s bad, it’s funny. A win win really

Need the Gamecocks to tighten their game up a little bit, come on ladies

A good “mamas, babygirl, princess” from the right person will do it every time.

i love being a southern girl

i miss watching A’ja Wilson play basketball

a forever goal w anyone i involve myself w: platonically or romantically

Did I just read someone calling Henrietta Lacks a slave???

@l3ibra.blacksky.app convinced me to share sumn i wrote today: “luv2k”

i want them to bring the PSP back so i can play that one amusement park game

I am divinely loved, guided, & protected.

i want the minimalist style of jersey designs to disappear

Asking for accountability is not someone playing the victim. If you caused harm, own it.

Everything will work out

Folks of a PARTICULAR age will recognize this lil guy.

at least once a day the women on here show me i’m not mean enough to men who probably deserve(d) it 😂

Patterns of behavior are the greatest form of communication. TO ME.

Shiiiiiit they are. Imma be curled up under some Black Woman’s grown ass son getting properly loved on and deciding where we going on our next vacation.

Focus on progression, not perfection.

They not ready for this one 🙂‍↔️

I pray you get what you need and more to make it this week. Amen.

(this is why actually paying attention to love languages is important. if you’re not doing things that align with what THEY need to feel loved/desired… wyd? lol)

If I start to feel like I’m the main one initiating things, I’m absolutely gonna get turned off and pull back after a while. I’m not shy at all about my feelings or making it known I want you, and I want that in return 🤷🏾‍♀️

This one of those things I really get in my feelings about, actually. I tend to be voracious with my partners and if I am the primary/only one initiating or if I feel like you’re not really into it - I’m immediately not into it anymore. Once my sex drive gone, I pretty much am, too.

Grief ain’t no whore. That shit will jump you, beat your ass then disappear just as fast as it came til it decides to make another appearance at the most inopportune time.

*tugs on waistband* *looks them up and down, and then holds eye contact* *straddles and starts kissing wherever/all over* “I want you. Like, now.” 😁

I love being good at my job, not sure I love being so needed at my job lol

remember that your mental health is a priority, your inner peace is essential & your self care is a necessity

sometimes you just want someone to think you’re worth the effort too