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Lifestyle and wellness editor, Guardian US.
https://www.theguardian.com/us/wellness
"When I was in my mid-20s, I spotted my grandma through the window of a coffee shop. I was dumbstruck â she had passed away the year before. I stared for a moment, then reminded myself it couldnât be her."
www.theguardian.com/wellness/202...
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I look at a stranger and see a friend. Am I a super-recognizer?
I once even thought I had seen my late grandmother. Can science explain my overfamiliarity with strange faces?
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/nov/19/super-face-prosopagnosia-brain-science
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"I had been ignoring small signs of encroaching decrepitude: the popping and grinding in my right knee and hip joints whenever I stood up, bent down or took the stairs. Yet I kept stubbornly persuading myself that I was still a 'young' fiftysomething."
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You should act your age â at least when it comes to exercise. Hereâs why
Adapting your fitness routine to your physical realities can help prevent injury from over-exercising
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/nov/03/exercise-tips-fitness-routines-by-age
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"As I looked to the miserable grey skies, I realised I had come down with a severe case of the 'I donât wannas'. I spent 20 minutes scrolling through the only distraction available on my phone. It was â and Iâm sobbing with shame as I write this â LinkedIn."
www.theguardian.com/wellness/202...
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I tried to not procrastinate for a week. Hereâs what helped the most
Ploughing through my to-do list felt great until I hit a wall. Were we really meant to work without watching any vertical videos first?
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/oct/28/how-to-stop-procrastinating-tips
about 1 month ago
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âI got to see a side of my sister that I donât particularly like ... Itâs probably the same for her.â
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How elder care can rupture sibling relationships: âI didnât have much choiceâ
Guardian readers shared how caring for ageing parents with siblings tested â and sometimes broke â family bonds
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/oct/16/how-elder-care-can-rupture-sibling-relationships-i-didnt-have-much-choice
about 2 months ago
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I love Bluesky. I commented on someoneâs post last week and mentioned I powerlift. A reporter from The Guardian US asked if Iâd be willing to be interviewed. Hereâs the result!. What an interesting life I lead!
www.theguardian.com/wellness/202...
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Meet the 75-year-old powerlifter headed to the world championships
Kate Evert started working out to appease her kids. Now, sheâs confident in her strength and ability
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/sep/26/powerlifting-kate-evert-world-championships?fbclid=PARlRTSANEDe9leHRuA2FlbQIxMAABpxXoaFVFg1qOZl1yvGL8DGEOrXFBhyUyBcX-RfBhjk2P1snHhLghOi_seq9__aem_3FqT4dXujbraqdxBYLVBpg
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From Nazi Germany to Trumpâs America: why fascist strongmen rely on women at home
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From Nazi Germany to Trumpâs America: why fascist strongmen rely on women at home
Fascist regimes pushed narratives of domestic bliss, yet relied on womenâs unpaid labor. In the US today, âwomanosphereâ influencers promote the same fantasies
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/ng-interactive/2025/sep/21/fascism-women-homemaker-trad-wife?utm_term=Autofeed&CMP=bsky_gu&utm_medium=&utm_source=Bluesky#Echobox=1758460695
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âThere was a whole array of womenâs magazines that glorified housewivesâ in Nazi Germany, says Claudia Koonz, professor emerita of history at Duke University. âIt would be the equivalent of social media today.â
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From Nazi Germany to Trumpâs America: why strongmen rely on women at home
Fascist regimes pushed narratives of domestic bliss, yet relied on womenâs unpaid labor. In the US today, âwomanosphereâ influencers promote the same fantasies
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/ng-interactive/2025/sep/21/fascism-women-homemaker-trad-wife
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I stopped telling âlittle white liesâ for two weeks. This is what I learned
Leaning on lies feels easy to get out of sticky social situations, but it can quickly become a nasty habit
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/sep/04/quit-lying-white-lies
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"Now I am a prostate cancer survivor, whose prostatectomy in 2020 almost came too late. I didnât know that in the US, prostate cancer is the second leading cause of cancer death in men. One in eight will be diagnosed with it. One in 44 will die from it."
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The silent epidemic: the pros and cons of screening for prostate cancer
In the US, prostate cancer is the second leading cause of cancer death in men â but experts canât agree about testing
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/aug/19/men-prostate-cancer-testing-pros-cons
4 months ago
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The Guardian
5 months ago
My daughterâs health was a mystery. The answer was on the other side of the world
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My daughterâs health was a mystery. The answer was on the other side of the world
I connected with other moms worldwide, doctors and a geneticist â and identified the rare genetic disorder that connects us all
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/jul/21/daughter-health-mystery-rare-genetic-disorder?utm_term=Autofeed&CMP=bsky_gu&utm_medium=&utm_source=Bluesky#Echobox=1753115731
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âPractices vary wildly between operators,â says one expert. âFor the consumer, itâs hard to tell whatâs actually in the drink. Thereâs no federal standard, so itâs essentially dealerâs choice on the operator side."
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I traded booze for THC drinks. But are there hidden risks?
Giving up alcohol changed my life, but I wanted to know whether cannabis cocktails were too good to be true
https://www.theguardian.com/global/2025/jul/15/thc-drinks-hidden-risks
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"One person anonymously told me that he used ChatGPT while writing his father of the bride speech; another wished OpenAI had been around when he had written his vows because it would have 'saved [him] a lot of time'"
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ChatGPT, write my wedding vows: are we OK with AI in everyday life?
Artificial intelligence has entered the personal chat. What does that say about human relationships?
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/ng-interactive/2025/jun/30/ai-chatgpt-personal-messages
5 months ago
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Prof Sheena Cruickshank
5 months ago
RFKJrâs handpicked ACIP may have approved a new RSV monoclonal for infants but they rejected hearing evidence on thiomersal by scientists and instead opted to hear from an anti-thiomersal lobbyist nurse practitioner before voting to only approve flu shots if they donât contain thiomersal.
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RFK Jrâs new vaccine panel votes against preservative in flu shots in shock move
Decision to restrict thimerosal in immunizations could impact future vaccine availability on a global scale
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/jun/26/rfk-flu-shot-vaccines-panel?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other
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Talked to
@melissafebos.bsky.social
about her year off sex and dating, "a collective derangement that we have around love and sex" and her new memoir THE DRY SEASON
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âOur fantasy of love has to do with need and dependencyâ: Melissa Febos on her year of celibacy
Febosâs life flourished while taking a year off sex and dating. In a new memoir, The Dry Season, the author explores the strong hold romance had on her
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/ng-interactive/2025/jun/03/melissa-febos-memoir-celibacy
6 months ago
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George Monbiot
6 months ago
When warnings of Insectageddon were issued a few years ago, there was widespread denial. Less so now. It's devastating.
www.theguardian.com/environment/...
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âHalf the tree of lifeâ: ecologistsâ horror as nature reserves are emptied of insects
A new point in history has been reached, entomologists say, as climate-led speciesâ collapse moves up the food chain even in supposedly protected regions free of pesticides
https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2025/jun/03/climate-species-collapse-ecology-insects-nature-reserves-aoe
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I loved FX's DYING FOR SEX - and, related, have developed a strong urge to kick
@robdelaney.bsky.social
in the balls. But one of my favorite scenes featured a hospice worker explaining to a terminally ill patient what happens to your body when you're dying.
www.theguardian.com/wellness/202...
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âDeath is not a mysteryâ: what happens to your body when youâre dying?
Experts say knowing more about death â or âdeath literacyâ â can actually help quell fears of dying
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/may/29/what-happens-when-you-die
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"Back when I was on the apps, Iâd upload slightly unflattering photos of myself: an up-close, no-makeup selfie; a wide shot in a muumuu the size of a small circus tent. I wanted to meet men who werenât primarily interested in looks."
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Every time I meet someone new, I worry theyâll find my scarred face hideous
You donât have to fix a single thing about your face to find love, writes advice columnist Jessica DeFino
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/may/28/ask-ugly-scarred-skin-dating
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âWhat you are feeling is the disconnect between seeing that systems are failing, that things arenât working ⊠and yet the institutions and the people in power just are ignoring it and pretending everything is going to go on the way that it has"
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Does everything feel broken but weirdly normal? Thereâs a word for that
Large-scale systems are crumbling, yet daily life continues. The Soviet-era concept of hypernormalization can help when dysfunction is the status quo
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/ng-interactive/2025/may/22/hypernormalization-dysfunction-status-quo
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7 months ago
Nearly all of Polygon was laid off last week after Vox sold the company. Donate if you can!
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Donate to Support Polygon Workers and the Vox Media Union, organized by Ashok Selvam
On Thursday, May 1, Vox Media announced the sale of beloved video game s⊠Ashok Selvam needs your support for Support Polygon Workers and the Vox Media Union
https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-polygon-workers-and-the-vox-media-union
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you know when you are talking to someone and they ask you NO QUESTIONS AT ALL? why do they do that???
@sarahmiller.bsky.social
asked around
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People who donât ask me questions drive me crazy. Why are they like that?
âNon-askersâ can come across as selfish â but there might be personal and societal reasons for their lack of curiosity
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/may/01/why-dont-people-ask-questions-in-conversation
7 months ago
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Guardian Australia
8 months ago
Australian with working visa detained and deported on returning to US from sisterâs memorial
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Australian with working visa detained and deported on returning to US from sisterâs memorial
Man who says he had previously left and re-entered the country multiple times alleges border officials called him âretardedâ and boasted âTrump is back in townâ When Jonathan returned from the US to Australia for a two-day trip to scatter his sisterâs ashes, he packed only two changes of clothes, leaving enough space in his small bag to carry the empty ashes urn to his home in the US. The trip was so brief he didnât even pack a laptop charger. The Australian says he was detained and deported when returning from the memorial in March, despite holding a working visa still valid for more than 15 months. He has been living on the US east coast for seven years â where his American partner, apartment, work studio and clients remain. Continue reading...
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/apr/11/australian-with-us-working-visa-detained-insulted-deported?CMP=aus_bsky
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pls don't cancel doctor odyssey, the only representation for people with covid trauma and intimacy issues
www.vulture.com/article/doct...
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ABC, Please Let Doctor Odyssey Sail On
TVâs most wholesome and horny medical drama deserves at least one more season.
https://www.vulture.com/article/doctor-odyssey-abc-season-two.html
8 months ago
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Thanks so much to
@theguardian.com
for having me, and especially
@estelletang.bsky.social
for her fastidious edits.
www.theguardian.com/global/2025/...
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The US right is coming for disabled people. Hereâs why that threatens everyone
Trumpâs administration is dismantling disability rights and education. History has shown this can be a warning sign for all civil liberties
https://www.theguardian.com/global/2025/mar/27/us-disability-rights-trump
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Rachel Leingang
9 months ago
Minnesota is at the center of a sauna renaissance. As a winter-hater, I tried to get into saunas and the accompanying cold plunges to see if I could enjoy the season. (Quite a departure from what I normally cover.)
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I moved to the sauna capital of the US. Could I take the heat?
A thriving sauna culture is growing in frosty Minnesota as people warm to the health benefits and sense of community
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/mar/14/minnesota-sauna-culture
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"You want to hump your partnerâs armpit? Go for it. They want to lick the back of your knee or the instep of your foot? Amazing. You want to cover both your bodies in almond oil and roll around like puppies wrestling? Super." â
@enagoski.bsky.social
www.theguardian.com/wellness/202...
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What a sex educator wants you to know about sexual incompatibility
There is no âidealâ aim for sexual compatibility. If you feel there is something amiss, talk about it
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/mar/12/sexual-incompatibility-explained
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I think my cat likes my partner more. What should I do?
The signs that a cat likes you are fairly obvious. Hereâs how to strengthen your bond with a pet if you think they prefer your partner more
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/mar/06/cat-likes-my-partner-more
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julia reinstein
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ABC News layoffs got me! that means Iâm back on the market for full-time role/freelance work doing journalism on all my fave topics: court cases, internet ephemera, national news, pop culture, crime, truly whatever gets the group chat popping. hit an unemployed gal up! DM/email in bio xoxođ
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"When I was 16, I was a failure because I thought I was fat. In my late 20s, I became a failure because I thought I was fat and because I knew better than to think being fat was a problem in the first place."
[email protected]
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âI had fantasies about how it would eventually serve meâ: my struggle with disordered eating
In an essay in Sucker Punch, author Scaachi Koul deals with internalized fatphobia and learning to love her body
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/ng-interactive/2025/mar/04/eating-disorder-essay-sucker-punch-book
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đhttps://www.theguardian.com/environment/2025/mar/04/egg-prices-bird-flu-corporate-profits
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$5 a dozen: major egg companies may be using avian flu to hike US prices, new report finds
The highly concentrated egg market may be contributing to soaring consumer prices â and the spread of the virus, data shared exclusively with the Guardian shows
https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2025/mar/04/egg-prices-bird-flu-corporate-profits
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âI know that I led people down a path that now I totally regret.â
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Formerly anti-vax parents on how they changed their minds: âI really made a mistakeâ
Researchers believe personal stories are more persuasive than facts alone in addressing vaccine skepticism
https://www.theguardian.com/global/2025/feb/27/how-anti-vax-parents-changed-their-minds
9 months ago
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Miranda Yaver
9 months ago
I wrote in
@theguardian.com
this expansion on an earlier Substack post, on the powerful role of public shaming of health insurers, and how the more fragmented social media landscape makes it harder for patients (and physicians) to hold health insurers accountable.
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My $30,000 health insurance claim was denied. Then I tweeted about it
Public shaming works â but itâs also a sign of how broken the appeals process is in the US health insurance industry
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/feb/26/health-insurance-claims-social-media
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Truly sucks to hear about the layoffs at HuffPost. Support those affected here:
gofund.me/89940a81
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Donate to Stand with HuffPost Workers Impacted by Job Cuts, organized by HuffPost Union
This week, HuffPost was hit by devastating job cuts which saw over 20%⊠HuffPost Union needs your support for Stand with HuffPost Workers Impacted by Job Cuts
https://gofund.me/89940a81
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i did some cursed math
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Oh, no! It takes 162,335 minutes a year to maintain my health and wellbeing
When is anyone supposed to do anything? Bathing, stretching and cooking: the relentless grind of self-care consumes 112 days of my life each year
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/feb/06/time-spent-health-wellbeing
10 months ago
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Julia Carrie Wong
10 months ago
Truly harrowing reporting by
@samtlevin.bsky.social
on what's happening inside federal prisons after Trump's anti-trans executive order. âThe officials were degrading them and saying disgusting things, like: âWe donât have to call you women anymore. Where youâre going, youâre going to be a man.ââ
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Trans people in US federal prisons face brutal crackdown under Trump order
Advocates report harassment and loss of gender-affirming care as trans women face transfers to menâs prisons
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/jan/30/trans-people-federal-prisons
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My mom
@hopkinssuzy.bsky.social
will cringe if I call her brave but whatever. I'm calling her brave. In her new essay for
@theguardian.com
she opens up about family trauma, divorce, & the grief that we all carry:
www.theguardian.com/global/2025/...
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After being dumped at 58, I realized I was not equipped for the grief
The silence around my familyâs collective trauma did nothing to prepare me for marriage â or divorce
https://www.theguardian.com/global/2025/jan/27/gray-divorce-grief
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"Every night, Iâd toss and turn in bed, eventually pacing the hallway outside my bedroom. My Apple watch tracked my activity: 5,000; 10,000; sometimes 20,000 steps. Then I would tuck myself back into bed, eyes welling from sheer frustration."
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I clock up to 20,000 steps a night: my life with restless legs syndrome
I spent years desperate for help and exhausted from lack of sleep. But the condition is badly misunderstood â even by doctors
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/2025/jan/21/restless-legs-syndrome-sleep-treatment
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CDCR firefighters earn $5.80â$10.24 a day and an additional $1 per hour when responding to active emergencies. When responding to disasters, they may earn $26.90 over a 24-hour shift:
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âEssentialâ: nearly 400 incarcerated firefighters deployed as LA battles wildfires
The firefighters earn $5.80-$10.24 per day plus $1 an hour when responding to active emergencies, according to CDCR
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/jan/08/la-wildfires-incarcerated-firefighters
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"At the age of 17, she finally got approved for a new chair... She never sat in it, because it was too late."
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My sister needed the right wheelchair to survive. Insurance refused it till the end
My motherâs love and resilience helped my sister through a rare condition. But every step in her 17-year life was a fight with health insurers
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2024/dec/13/health-insurance-wheelchair-delay
12 months ago
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New York Mag Union
12 months ago
Remember in October when
@nymag.com
published its annual Power Issue with members of the âmedia elite?" Well,
@nymagunion.bsky.social
thought you might want to hear from media workers themselves. Introducing our union Power Issue: MEDIA WORKERS TELL ALL!
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âTo feel like your health is free-falling in a world, a system, a country that does not value disabled people & does not value people without their labor has been clarifying to me on how I want to be able to show up for someone else.â
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âI was in denial about itâ: actor Matt McGorry on having long Covid
Orange Is the New Black and How to Get Away With Murder star speaks about the disease and another way of looking at health
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/ng-interactive/2024/dec/02/matt-mcgorry-long-covid
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Do you celebrate the holidays with people who aren't your relatives? We want to hear from you:
www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle...
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Tell us: are you celebrating the US holidays with people who arenât your family?
We would like to hear about how you celebrate the holidays with friends, community and non-biological family
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/dec/03/holiday-celebrating-friends-family-callout
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"If everything else stayed the same and the fatigue went away, or even improved by half, I would feel extremely grateful for that." I talked to Matt McGorry about having long Covid:
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âI was in denial about itâ: actor Matt McGorry on having long Covid
Orange Is the New Black and How to Get Away With Murder star speaks about the disease and another way of looking at health
https://www.theguardian.com/wellness/ng-interactive/2024/dec/02/matt-mcgorry-long-covid
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âCaring about my looks has diminishing returns after the five-minute mark,â another commented. âI genuinely think my quality of life would be better if I didnât care at all. Thinking about it too much makes me miserable.â New Ask Ugly column from Jessica DeFino:
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I want to ignore beauty culture. But Iâll never get anywhere if I donât look a certain way
Beauty improves only some qualities of life and demands high investment of time, money and energy, writes advice columnist Jessica DeFino
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/nov/27/cost-of-beauty-culture-benefits
about 1 year ago
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