the world is mostly a bummer but finding out that Robin Byrd still owns a gorgeous $$$$ Fire Island house that she bought with 80s phone sex money is giving me no small amount of joy

Formative memory: friend post my “transition” genuinely could not believe my “I don’t really think abt my gender much” (fair; I amended) Like I would not think or talk abt gender so much if I didn’t feel societal norms & -isms forced that on me!! most people care about my gender more than I do!

trans men talking abt becoming raging horny teens on T makes me want to be on it half the time* Note: 1) I am not on it, don’t think I ever will be, no desire to be*, am not a man 2) it’s not like I don’t get horny easy & often already?? I do want to be a forever well of ridic stories, though 🧐🤪

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Omg I am DYING to just leave “mutual aid” in my poem translation here w a big wink to y’all in the know. i wrote it innocently then saw what I wrote. …this section is about vines that help each other grow 😜🤓

actual dream last night: topping rich white men w Paul Robeson as soundtrack torturing them quizzing them on labor activist history 😂😂😂

Getting to see sides of people that they don't show anyone else is a particular privilege of doing this work, one that I take great joy in. I hold bodies, desires, fantasies, needs, and vulnerabilities with great care and empathy. I see you. I've got you.💙

I guess getting dumped on my ass bc I slipped in my own cum is a pretty good way to go 😜🫠😈 (sounds like a bit I know yet here I am w a sore back)

one of my least fave things abt academia is the ppl thinking their work within aca is “radical“ & prouldy calling themselves “anti-capitalist” but not having the courage to name what they’re “pro” (cuz they haven’t lived it or thought abt it)

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“What?! … oh! Those are diet magazines, I thought it was *bad* porn!” - my mom summing up the diet disaster & showinh she’s at min teachable / receptive abt the adult industry as we walk past some magszines laid out on the sidewalk

It doesn’t get said enough these days, even less so in the SW community and amongst providers ourselves, but soft, fleshy, squishy bodies are where it’s at.

34min improvised strict FDom & psych sadism from my hands-down fave Quinn VA?!?! there’s one thing that’s gonna take me out faster than this heat today 😏🥵

Can confirm (beyond men too) & she’s great at it. Goddess Lynx has given me a wanted push & such a safe, experienced space to make friends with ny femme side in intimacy & beyond

In my “find out that Fotzen-Rap is a thing, immediately put it on speakers” era (Fotze = German for cunt, roughly; like many words, incl that one, originally and still used as an intense slur against women, now also used reclaimed by queer ppl & feminists)

I think one of the most underrated forms of luxury is having enough time to think, read, wander, and romanticise your own life a little. Sometimes just sitting in the sun is enough for a good day.

Hahahaha I meant to reward myself after a lil work by watching Germany-Paraguay & instead my ADHD academic brain had me hyperfocus for 5h, skipping a nap, water and dinnerrrrr. at least I’ll catch the replay of the historic upset!

bookworm trying to read but too horny, a Mood 🤓

So looking fwd to digging into this dissertation on Black kinksters’ experiences of power exchange, both in private relationships & at public dungeons stars.library.ucf.edu/etd2020/260/

uh oh my brain is pleased w the terribly nerdcore filthy physics it’s getting past my defenses, time for bed suffice to say there’s a whole wormhole beyond where brain last slipped sthg like this by earnest teacher me, “basically big flow small hole” (the BAY OF FUNDY, I meant!!)

Interesting to put numbers to it!

tryin out “jay” on here as a nickname I like 🥰 I very love how i have enough spicy flirty exchanges w moots on here now that I needed sthg besides my handle 😉

self-proclaimed leftists & “progressives” who simp for the Democratic Party & avidly await the midterms to help us are way more embarrassing than anyone or anything in the adult industry

I…. I…. *cackles in riveted*

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Happy Father’s Day to all the daddy dommes out there 🫡

uhhh yes please

Dropped everything & spent 4h addressing getting a med I need w a shortage. 1) damn the US helathcare system to the last circle of hell 2) can I get a good girl pls 🥹😂

Wow the Abrahamic God has a ginormous praise kink, eh? (Prayer, psalms, hymns…)

i just finished the introduction to ‘puta life: seeing latinas, working sex’ by juana maria rodriguez and i am floored. i feel embarassed that i have ever written any commentary about the state of sex work, queer latinidad, deportation, migration, etc. after reading that powerful introduction.

Muslim mayor brings good karma and helps New York Knicks get their first championship in 53 years. Children of immigrants help get the USMNT a major win against Paraguay. ;)

World Cup, that Knicks game just now, Winter Olympics and Artemis II mission and it’s only June?? It’s serious good juju to counter the BS how much we’ve gotten to voyeur peak human performance so far this year 🌈☄️

I love finding new things to get hype about by compersion in the form of the *things* my loves love (Knicks in 5! Never cared a whit before)

Lord Jesus save this atheist, I meant “female for cis male” and didn’t see the obvious way those letters came out yikes!! @mrdfblair.bsky.social does not do the fash thing and that type of dynamic is so not that 😬

I don’t usually go for F4cisM femdom but this guy writes it scorching in short fics 🥵😌

I love drawing a sub who is a whining, desperate mess

*reacts in overstim kink* esp sadistic pleasure doms 😈

Sometimes I do non-horny things to chilllll like the vibes with my switch & super Mario world & the fan on this summer night are so so gooood

"I always have so much fun filming with you because you are my wife, and the love of my life. To be around other queer people feels safe and like a good environment. It almost felt like we were at home! Just sharing what goes on in our bedroom, with everybody." ~ ZZ Tops, CrashPad behind the scenes

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oh cool, turns out my kinder self WAS right for the last 18 months abt my spicy brain being the problem preventing me from writing… not the brain-bully pretending to be on my side with “you know it‘s okay, you don’t HAVE to write poems, you clearly don’t really want to, no shame in admitting that”

I'd highly recommend this book to all clients* for valuable insights into the other side of this relationship, and how best to help make it good for everyone involved. I'm about halfway through, and it's revelatory. * (as well as all SWers, but you don't need me to say that!)

Yep! I buzzed my head and changed my name to a gender neutral one & sent out a MASS email about all that containing the sentence “this does NOT mean I’m trans” granted there was a bit to that, I landed non-binary (and trans) & trans man never really fit, which was the only narrative I saw then

Every body is a bikini body JUNE 1ST ♡ FAT GIRL SUMMER ♡ ONLY ON GWA

"In Western Pennsylvania, you don’t need a degree in Marxist theory to understand exploitation; working-class analysis is passed down like a family heirloom." I wrote about sex work, class, Pittsburgh grit, and @adrierising.bsky.social's new anthology. www.pghcitypaper.com/columns/pitt...

Back in NYC and I’ll be here all summer long. Let’s sweat it out together.

"I feel admiration for…a press that makes space for a full spectrum of SWer perspectives, from those who feel like goddesses at work to those who feel, as Kim does, like a commedia dell'arte clown." This! lefty queer client me learned lots from both vols zonamotel.substack.com/p/dispatch-i...

oooooops not sorry

For once (1 time) in my life there’s a legislative trend I LOVE to see, and here’s a good survey of it in legislators‘ (partial) breakup with Silicon Valley www.honest-broker.com/p/anti-ai-la...

in an inspired fit I tossed the bottoms that don’t fit me now & found the ones that do or have them coming & the win is I didn’t spontaneously combust in either rage at patriarchal women’s sizing systems OR ginormo—shame but whew. seeking softness & holding 🥺