got my ex flowers while picking her up in her car from the hospital but to balance things out I also got her a parking ticket

back in the home of the hot pot wanter

That temperature is YOURS

Chicago Residents: the weather is finally in "The Tennis Zone" which means I will once again be "Playing Tennis" and invite you to join me by hitting up my line. I have an extra racket and my skill level is *unthreatening*

ive received a message from the envious lover

she just made a move after 16 days

for the last three years, I have been taking photos of a sunflower that grows from a hole in the concrete by my apartment. I sometimes cry a little when I see the first sprouts in the spring. There they are.

a big concern i had when i was buying my first motorcycle was that people who ride motorcycles are all extremely annoying, i had hoped i would meet trans women who ride and they would be cooler about it, i dont know why on earth i thought that, how could that possibly be true

everybody always want a cafe racer :/

unfortunately i am unable to support my friends who make movies about people behaving in very embarrassing ways because i actually physically cant stand it. i couldnt sit through an episode of parks and rec.

i need to be mindless and automatic, if im going to barely feed myself, forget my medication, fail to sweep or pick things up or do the dishes, it should be because i am seated at my piano. i can tolerate all this if im playing piano.

what i need to do is whenever i have a negative emotion i shld just sit down and play piano. instead of looking at posts i shld play piano. instead of thinking i should withdraw all my money and hand it out 2 my friends i shld just play piano. it wont help but at least ill play piano a little better

developers on bluesky will really be like "you believe in having a website without nazis? that pales in effectiveness to my strategy of building a working protocol" and then not build a working protocol

i consider myself sort of a proficient cafe goer, which is admittedly embarrassing but also idc im having a nice time and the baristas chat w me and dont charge me for coffees. but as such, i want to express a feeling that has been building in me for some time: we need to give up on the croissant

free after 50 hours of volunteering that is

oh is there a moonball today

i fear when i meet a wormbrained girl i have a mothering instinct

i need a tdov for millenial haters bc everytime zoomers talk about us i straight up feel dysphoric

i have plans to make chicago Worse

the best hats in life are free

the apartment we just applied for had a field for bidding on the rent price lol

we have a lot of autistic women in our ranks, surely we can come together to make a decent crosswords app

yday apt showing had me walking into the living situation of a st4t couple and i looked into the girl's room and it was full ceiling to floor of live bugs in glass houses and a small twin mattress. they need to sell epipens of reverse vyleesi for these sorts of situations.

its rly funny thinking back to how much falloutboy i listened to as a little teen boy. i didnt even think i was a fan i was just putting it on. zoey and i in middle school were giving each other black cd-rs of from under the cork tree. she would burn me with her lighter.

who wants to buy a used motorcycle a woman just approached me outside a bar to tell me she’s selling her tenere and i would love to take her up on that more than anything in the world

“chicagos first dirty soda shop opens in rogers park” blockclub what the fuck are you talking about

de/re?trans friend telling me he/she doesnt really experience misogyny just gay guys who get put off by the fact he was ever a trans woman and voice concern that she might become one again and like

i want to complain abt chris fleming but i feel like this is a very fw chris fleming website

my family beat into me so rigorously that I have to put the toilet seat cover down every time that i do it instinctively everywhere including restaurant bathrooms which im sure is very annoying and inconvenient for germaphobes im sorry

criterion should do a fuck you its 50% more expensive sale for a change

the current meta for home decor on chicago zillow appears to be "having some couches"

im objectively losing this tedious chess correspondence game except in one important way: my opponent has attention deficit hyperactivity disorder

if you live in chicago go outside Right Now

this gay woman needed a place to sit to eat focaccia

and furthermore, the Madison subreddit must be destroyed

Tone was one of those things I'd point to when I'd talk about Madison and say "it's a city that punches way above its weight class" a real Lion of a publication that made me proud to live there. Scott created a small miracle that defined the kind of character Madison has at its best.

“I wonder if we live in the same building” is definitely the kind of message that rocks to see on grindr

one of the better parts of the leather archives remains going to the library and leafing through their public sketchbooks

walking through the leather archives is funny bc i will see kinks i dont have and go “what could that possibly do” and then see kinks i do have and go “well thats just common sense”

i go to the dr and let them test my blood bc i like the numbers and graphs :/

the sofo tap mural needs to be preserved at all costs

clean up on IL-9

the great chicago tgirl baseball schism

sidewalk talking like a first date

pretty windy rn

ok this needs to stop

you know what we havent done in a long time, we havent argued about that “im trans but staying in the closet” misandry is real essay. it is so easy to forget to acknowledge the small blessings.

OITY OF OHIOAOO

at forest preserve yday i went to a site i hadn’t volunteered at for like 2 years and an old guy came up to me an said are you arseny we haven’t seen you in so long like wow you care me :’)